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submitted 4 months ago by Apytele@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I wouldn't dare defile Douglas Adam's memory by not mentioning that you should keep a towel with you at all times, but my second contender is a surprisingly short three-parter:

  1. never lie.
  2. never tell the whole truth.
  3. never pass up a chance to use a real bathroom.
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[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 73 points 4 months ago

Confidence isn't about being confident but acting confident. Act confident and life will be a lot easier.

[-] witty_username@feddit.nl 22 points 4 months ago

Except if you want to do good science. Good scientists will identify false confidence and will aim to steer well clear of it

Scientists ideally shouldn't apply rules of thumb to their research!

[-] InternetPerson@lemmings.world 1 points 4 months ago

*Except if you want to do ~~good~~ science. ~~Good~~ scientists will identify false confidence and will aim to steer well clear of it

If someone isn't already doing that, they're not scientists.

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 points 4 months ago

Faking confidence means running your life as a con job.

It’s better to acknowledge when you feel insecure, find the root reason why, and then develop solutions to the unsolved problems giving you that lack of confidence.

For some people it’s as simple as their pelvis being out of whack. In some cases, all you need is a rolfing session.

[-] InternetPerson@lemmings.world 1 points 4 months ago

Fake it until you make it?

[-] 0_0j@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago
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