[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 3 points 2 hours ago

this gif might need a dropdown spoiler tag with a seizure warning or flashing light alert for any users with epilepsy, could you please edit your comment

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 63 points 17 hours ago

We welcome any new users but we do not officially life raft anymore

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago

I really like this and will likely repost this as a community pin in hexbear. We often discuss the meeting agends / proposal in the mod chat to make sure the phrasing is agreed on by the entire team, however I'm happy to open that up to the site. After the feedback post / meeting is it intended to have a follow-up post for the actual changes discussed in the meeting? Are the same formatting and requirements applied to that post as well?

As an example a few days before a post where specific changes are made to the code of conduct a meeting post is made where the scope of that changes are laid out as well as some proposed changes / discussion about the changes occurs. After the meeting post there is a post where the code of conduct changes are listed and the users can vote on it?

Thank you, I'll come back and reread this and edit this comment with any additional questions.

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 5 points 6 days ago

No need to apologize at all, I greatly appreciate your words and perspective.

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 10 points 6 days ago

I don't really understand what you are saying? The division of mod labor is intended to mitigate burnout but the highest source of stress are these extended meta discussions filled with insults and hostile comments.

The Matrix is for discussing mod rulings ex: "hey I I this report in my community, do you think it should be removed?" "Sure but maybe message the user to change it before removing it?" "Ok"

While the admins ask mods their opinion about site changes just as we ask the userbase it isn't solely on us or them we have tried to use the entire site to make large changes the past few months

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 11 points 6 days ago

We know who leaked the chat log.

They were a recent add to the mod team, and they dow loaded the entire chat from when they joined until a couple days after z was banned. When the leak was sent via url we closed the old mod chat and started a new one with active mods.

The leak does not contain the entire discussion of zppster, the emoji, nakoichi and the moderation of that larger meta event.

I would have been more than happy to discuss their dissatisfaction either on hexbear or in DM. I did exactly that with another mod who thought we were using AI tools to moderate which is 100% false that mods comments are still up and they are still a member of the mod team.

The only change to the mod chat is that we are being more vigilant about not posting personal info there. It is quite sad abd malicious to leak months of irrelevant discussion and personal info because of a disagreement over moderation.

I'm not quite sure how engaging in multiple posts where I'm begging for concrete ways to change is sweeping it under the rug but I can understand how someone would reach that conclusion.

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago

The way to apply to mod is to send an admin the mod application.

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago

I 100% agree, thank you

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 9 points 6 days ago

The problem is there are many comments expressing their emotion but there is not many ideas for concrete change. This is now the forth post discussing this, after the initial post, a post made by hellinkilla, the post for the EMPOC community, and now this one. From all these posts what changes could be made? I will remove inactive mods, we have a very diverse admin team with multiple admins directly nominated by the EMPOC community over a year ago. We have committed to having more meta posts to engage the community in changes, we discuss every site-ban and often correct error in moderation. We genuinely want to engage in good faith and with the most charitable interpretation of the community.

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago

The user union community was a constant source of unproductive site-drama that was abused by wreckers. We have allowed meta posts in the !hexbear@hexbear.net for over a year now as well as the sidebar matrix channel

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago

The link posted contained a private chatroom and since it is the entire chat-history dumped contains doxxing info.

Modlogs will not be public due to the history of doxxing and death threats.

We will be involving the user base in a discussion of the mods, and the hexbear community serves as a userunion.

[-] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 14 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Yes, the next meta post will invite the user base to discuss updating the Code of Conduct, as well as how moderators are chosen and how they are removed. I will make the post next week, thank you for holding us accountable. Links to doxxing information will be removed from the database using the tools we have available which may be imprecise but are imperative to maintain the safety of our mod team due to past doxxing and death threats.

The structure of the site is as follows.

The users report violations of the code of conduct, moderators receive these reports for the communities they moderate and take action as appropriate. When there is multiple mod actions taken among multiple communities and/or the user has a history of mod actions across the account as well as previous alts as admin may take site action (such as a temporary or permanent site ban)

In the event a user continues to repeat the same actions that broke the code of conduct the admins may use tools such as looking at upvotes, posts, comments and username trends to act on these alts preemptively. In such a case we take effort to unban the account in the event we receive information that our mod actions are incorrect.

The way that moderators are added is an existing mod vouches for them (rare) or they submit a mod application to the admin team, we accept the vast majority of applicants. In the event a moderator violates the code of conduct an admin will asses and demod when appropriate.

The admins take a hands-off approach relying upon community moderators to handle their communities and acting in the event of a wrecker, spammer, or non-local user that is reactionary. Due to the moderators receiving death threats, and doxxing attempts we have anonymzied the modlog to protect our volunteers.

There was a post made by multiple users discussing the meta situation after the emoji request, there was a dedicated post allowing the EMPOC community to discuss the events. Due to the multiple posts on this topic we won't be featuring anymore, however there will be an upcoming post featured for discussing the code of conduct itself as well as the moderator approval/removal process.

The https://hexbear.net/c/hexbear community is where you can discuss meta topics or mod actions as well as the matrix room linked in that community's sidebar.

I have maintained that the admins have no goal other than enforcing the code of conduct, there has never been a "growth" mindset for the site nor can we speak to the direction of the site. We have always encouraged the users to take direction and create the community they want to see, the growth of the news mega, trans mega, movie nights, theory/reading clubs are all a result of users working together to create something.

It can be difficult to try and translate vague or unspecific comments into what could be actually changed.

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[2025] CANVAS 2025 IS LIVE (2025.canvas.fediverse.events)
submitted 2 months ago by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/fediverse@hexbear.net

cross-posted from: https://toast.ooo/post/8396304

OK WE'RE ACTUALLY LIVE NOW

a little hiccup at the start but we're here

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Canvas 2025 in 24 hours!! (2025.canvas.fediverse.events)
submitted 2 months ago by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/fediverse@hexbear.net

cross-posted from: https://toast.ooo/post/8381898

July 12th, 2025 @ 4am UTC

SPREAD THE WORD 🔥

Related posts:

what is Canvas?

Canvas is a collaborative pixel canvas that includes everyone apart of the Fediverse! Any fediverse platform that supports direct messages is able to login and participate for this 48 hour live event

socials

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submitted 2 months ago by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/fediverse@hexbear.net

cross-posted from: https://toast.ooo/post/8294109

it's time to get hyped!

July 12th, 2025 @ 4am UTC

you can now open the Canvas to setup your templates and preview how it's going to work!

2025 Canvas Size: 500x500

Related posts:

what is Canvas?

Canvas is a collaborative pixel canvas that includes everyone apart of the Fediverse! Any fediverse platform that supports direct messages is able to login and participate for this 48 hour live event

socials

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

Hello, I wanted to try and compile a list of the hexbear users seeking funds as well as people outside the site's fundraisers so that we could feature it. These have all been posted before in out mutual_aid community.

Here are some of the previous ones we have done:

Here are some of the mutual aid posts and fundraiser links:

links

https://hexbear.net/post/6072694

https://hexbear.net/post/6007236

https://hexbear.net/post/6003654

https://hexbear.net/post/5989911

https://hexbear.net/post/5481568

https://hexbear.net/post/5489385

https://hexbear.net/post/5453912

https://hexbear.net/post/5501604

https://hexbear.net/post/5783600

https://hexbear.net/post/5782937

Help Ahmed support his family after his father’s death

Anaam and her family are struggling in Gaza, now in Nasser hospital with her younger brother

Please comment any others you would like added to this post, thank you

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/hexbear@hexbear.net

After discussing this with the people most often using the mutual aid community and feedback here we will be making a single change.

Meta posts will no longer be permitted in !mutual_aid@hexbear.net critical meta posts must not be about specific users and posted in !feedback@hexbear.net at risk of removal.

We will change the mutual aid sidebar to remove the clause permitting meta posts, we will also ask that users post once a day so that everyone's post's can be seen but this is not a hard rule as it is pretty clear that removing posts is a last resort in that community. This joins the other community recommendations that users include currency, how much is needed, updating when a user has received funds, or updating/locking the post when the need has been met.

This will be unfeatured in about 12 hours

~~Hello users of hexbear:

Due to recent meta posts in our mutual aid community we wanted to open up discussion about the community !mutual_aid@hexbear.net

We will never require explanation or justification from a user asking for aid in the community, and the mod and admin team continue to commit to not featuring an individual's mutual aid request to prevent unfair exposure.

In addition, we will maintain a strict "No critical comments or meta comments" on a mutual aid post.

This post is to discuss the mutual aid community's rule of allowing meta posts: mutual aid as a community, those making posts in it and those commenting on posts.

We are considering removing the exception allowing meta posts but wanted to involve the userbase before committing to a change.

Please comment with any thoughts, feelings, or suggestions regarding this change.

Thank you~~

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submitted 4 months ago by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/hexbear@hexbear.net

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/29579005

An open source project the size of Lemmy needs constant work to manage the project, implement new features and fix bugs. Dessalines and I work full-time on these tasks and more. As there is no advertising or tracking, all of our work is funded through donations. Unfortunately the amount of donations has decreased to only 2000€ per month. This leaves only 1000€ per developer, which is not enough to pay my bills. With the current level of donations I will be forced to find another job, and drastically reduce my contributions to Lemmy. To avoid this outcome and keep Lemmy growing, I ask you to please make a recurring donation:

Liberapay | Ko-fi | Patreon | OpenCollective | Crypto

If you want more information before donating, consider the comparison with Reddit. It began as startup funded by rich investors. The site is managed by corporate executives who over time have become more and more disconnected from normal users. Their main goal is to make investors happy and to make a profit. This leads to user-hostile decisions like firing the employee responsible for AMAs, blocking third-party apps and more. As Reddit is a single website under a single authority, it means all users need to follow the same rules, including ridiculous ones like censoring the name "Luigi".

Lemmy represents a new type of social media which is the complete opposite of Reddit. It is split across many different websites, each with its own rules, and managed by normal people who actually care about the users. There is no company and no profit motive. Much of the work is carried out by volunteer admins, mods and posters, who contribute out of enthusiasm and not for money. For users this is great as there is no advertising nor tracking, and no chance of takeover by a billionaire. Additionally there are no builtin political or ideological restrictions. You can use the software for any purpose you like, add your own restrictions or scrutinize its inner workings. Lemmy truly belongs to everyone.

Dessalines and I work fulltime on Lemmy to keep up with all the feature requests, bug reports and development work. Even so there is barely enough time in the day, and no time for a second job. Previously I sometimes had to rely on my personal savings to keep developing Lemmy for you, but that can't go on forever. We partly rely on NLnet for funding, but they only pay for development of new features, and not for mandatory maintenance work. The only available option are user donations. To keep it viable donations need to reach a minimum of 5000€ per month, resulting in a modest salary of 2500€ per developer. If that goal is reached Dessalines and I can stop worrying about money, and fully focus on improving the software for the benefit of all users and instances. Please use the link below to see current donation stats and make your contribution! We especially rely on recurring donations to secure the long-term development and make Lemmy the best it can be.

Donate

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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/hexbear@hexbear.net

I wanted to open up a post to discuss the two main methods of federation: allow-list and block-list. As well as see how the majority of users felt with regard to the methods.

Due to some of the issues raised with the method of vote counting this will be considered only a check of user sentiment, not a promise of what to do

I will pin two comments, one in favour of a block-list and one in favour of an allow-list approach to federation.

Before the domain issue we were using an allow-list, this means that any instance that wants to be linked to hexbear must reach out to us or be nominated by a user for addition to the allow-list.

The benefits of this is that we are not automatically linked with any instance that spins up. The downside is that we miss federation with any small lemmy instance as well as with any other activity-pub instance (mastodon, peertube, etc.)

Lemmy.ml and lemmygrad.ml both use a block-list approach and for what it's worth they have done well, the majority of reactionary instances already block us (lemmy.world, sh.itjust.works, lemmy.ca, sopuli.xyz, slrpnk.net) and the pedo/porn/nazi instance are already on the hexbear block-list.

The biggest upside of a block-list approach is that new single person instances that get created will link up with us without any extra steps, and the biggest downside is that it will add an extra step for moderation (adding a new shitty instance to the block-list after they show their shit)

Within the following spoiler will be the hexbear allow-list and block-list.

Discussion may be had within comments, if you have specific instance additions/subtractions from the allow-list or block-list please comment underneath the respective pinned comment.

For example if you wish to add lemmy.ca to the block list comment under https://hexbear.net/comment/5951093

allow-listspectreofcommunism.boo

hackertalks.com

tankie.tube

transwo.men

orcas.enjoying.yachts

lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz

eviltoast.org

lemmy.eco.br

vegantheoryclub.org

toast.ooo

adultswim.fan

transfem.space

poptalk.scrubbles.tech

gregtech.eu

akko.wtf

pixelfed.social

poweredbygay.social

lemmy.bestiver.se

whisker.bim.boats

lgbt.io

procial.tchncs.de

loops.video

social.kernel.org

lemmy.kde.social

lgbtqia.space

h-i.social

bookwormstory.social

redpawcollective.co

links.hackliberty.org

lemmy.max-p.me

outerheaven.club

blackqueer.life

the-federation.info

lemmy.selfhostcat.com

fanaticus.social

lemmy.pt

ttrpg.network

lemm.monster

leminal.space

monyet.cc

lemmy.sdf.org

feddit.uk

mtgzone.com

feddit.it

weatherishappening.network

futurology.today

lemmy.one

linux.community

dormi.zone

ursal.zone

urbanists.social

lemmy.fan

undernopretext.social

rss.ponder.cat

lemmy.vg

lemmy.ml

lemmy.today

union.place

feddit.cl

mycrowd.ca

ljs.social

seafoam.space

feddit.nu

lemmy.blugatch.tube

mander.xyz

reddthat.com

midwest.social

discuss.techncs.de

lemmy.myserv.one

lemmy.zip

feddit.nl

walledgarden.xyz

thelemmy.club

lemmy.wtf

lemdro.id

lemmy.dbzer0.com

szmer.info

lemm.ee

novo-atlantis.null.media

lemmygrad.ml

social.pwned.page

lemmy.uhhoh.com

scribe.disroot.org

lemy.lol

lemmy.radio

lemmy.studio

possumpat.io

fediseer.com

snowdin.town

toots.matapacos.dog

social.harpia.red

block-list

exploding-heads.com

burggit.moe

nsfwlemmy.com

lemmynsfw.com

nsfwaiclub.com

hilariouschaos.com

lemmy.world

rqd2.net

threads.net

sh.itjust.works

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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/hexbear@hexbear.net

We are nearing the time when we will be able to have federation as an option again, so we wanted to check in with the user base about this decision.

Since there were some complaints against dean-voting, I would like to try using

"Yea" bit-yay or "Nah" bit-nay

Only the words within " " or the two specified emojis will be counted when tallying the vote.

In the case of federation, we will be using an allow-list again, but are open to using a block-list if the user base is strongly in favour. If you have a preference between allow-list or block-list federation, please include that in your comment

Thank you!

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we fucked up (chapo.chat)
submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/hexbear@hexbear.net

If any users have purchased domain names they can transfer to us now, or share the account credentials for the domain host please message me so i can add the domain you have to the list of options for a domain change.

Hello users of hexbear, or shall i say chapo.chat, we fucked up, and i fucked up like three times making this post.

Yes, hexbear.net has expired. Yes, we were aware of this possibility. We have gradually lost contact with the access owner (prior admin) for the domain registration. We attempted to make a migration plan, but we were disarmed by the reappearance of the party in question in September 2024 and repeated assurances that they would a) transfer credentials and b) continue payments until they were able to do the former.

We accept full responsibility for this. We should have been more aggressive about this and continued our alternative despite these reassurances. This is our fuck up, and we can't offer anything besides our continued apologies and our plan of action going forward and an explanation of what happened:

Over the time of chapo.chat and hexbear.net the admins that purchased the domain, established the donation accounts, and the server accounts have left. One of the primary admins has gone inactive and returned many times, over a year ago some of the newer admins began asking the older admins to give full access to the domain, servers, and donations. These requests were not met, despite warnings of this exact event.

At the moment we do not have access to hexbear.net and there is a strong chance we will not get it back without participating in the auction, which is already over $300. Choosing to abandon the hexbear.net domain will cause federation problems and considerable technical issues which would lead to potential extended downtime.

During this downtime we would be reestablishing access to the new domain (or hexbear.net if we win the auction), access to server ownership, and donation accounts. This would be distributed among a number of admins so that we can prevent this from happening again.

Chapo.chat has the same access problem that led to the current state of hexbear.net so it is to be considered temporary.

I will do my best to answer questions

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submitted 7 months ago by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/hexbear@hexbear.net

Hello users of Hexbear, there have been many changes and some drama the past few months.

The recent changes we've been making have been an attempt to create a more safe and welcoming environment for many demographics that have been overlooked in the past.

For any of our comrades that have been unintentionally hurt in this process, we apologise and hope to find a solution that accommodates as many people as possible while still meeting the needs of the marginalised groups who need a space like this the most.

The intent of this post is to provide a space for all users to air grievances with regard to the site. As well as provide suggestions for specific things that could be changed to address your grievance. Comments insulting the mod team or those without a specific means to address your problem may be removed. No commenter will be sitebanned, unless it clearly breaks the code of conduct.

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/hexbear@hexbear.net

Hello users of hexbear when this post is approximately 24 hours old we will have a downtime lasting about an hour for maintenance and upgrading to lemmy version 0.19.7

https://join-lemmy.org/news/2024-11-08_-_Lemmy_Release_v0.19.6

contains some of the changes, some notable ones are:

  • Automatically remove tracking parameters from URLs

  • Fix bug when commenting in local-only community

  • Fixing peertube and ordinary video embeds

Also a reminder about Hexbear Proposals chapo.chat matrix room.

This will be a place for site proposals and discussion before implementation on the site.
Every proposal will also be mirrored into a pinned post on the hexbear community.

Any other ideas for helping to integrate the two spaces are welcome to be commented here or messaged to me directly.

Within Hexbear Proposals you can see the history of all site proposals and react to them, indicating a vote for or against a proposal.

Sending messages will be restricted to verified and active hexbear accounts older than 1 month with their matrix id in their hexbear user profile.

All top level messages within the channel must be a Proposals (idea for changing the site), Feedback (regarding non-technical aspects of the site, for technical please use https://hexbear.net/c/feedback), or Appeals (regarding admin/moderator actions).

Discussion regarding these will be within nested threads under the post.

To gain matrix verification, all you need to do is navigate to my hexbear userprofile and click the send a secure private message including your hexbear username.

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Hexbear Proposals (hexbear.net)
submitted 9 months ago by CARCOSA@hexbear.net to c/hexbear@hexbear.net

Proposals made are mirrored here to facilitate discussion

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