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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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[–] Didros@beehaw.org 2 points 6 hours ago

Have you tried putting someone else's address on your problems and using the post?

[–] Zannsolo@lemmy.world 9 points 21 hours ago

Gotta put the shampoo bottle inside to fix that

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 21 hours ago

"Wait, this shower isn't therapy!"

"Silly me 😜"

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Wait is this Catra? She's cute

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 22 hours ago

yes it is, and yes she is <3

[–] kewwwi@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

bandaid+kiss. all better now

[–] sundrei@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 1 day ago

I've got the water as hot as I can stand, but I have not yet melted and gone down the drain 😑

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

u now what? no. this is too edgy. i will not entertain the idea of people saying this out loud while not feeling like they are underselling the pooroff-being of others. besides i guess if they really are bad off, in which case they probably don't complain about it like this... idk tho, not therapist yet

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

what if they're also broken inside? 😥

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

do u mean the therapist or urself or someone else or... idk who u mean exactly ;(

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

the others who you're underselling

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

well that would of course be very bad!!! then they'd be bad off and i'd feel sad for em. i would hope that they can get help soon, while also trying not to understate ones own position... this is hard! peeps all around the world are feeling horrible, and someone saying ooh nuu i'm feeling broken inside while sounding like a 14-yearold, idk.. i think this phrase has been killed for me, because of the many peeps i have had contact which who really were just being depressed for the joke like my brother. it always made me go grrr, i feel bad for actualy depressed peeps, they must feel so awful knowing that others make fun of their situation.

Kinda like how being autistic became a trend some time apparently? Like - what was the point of that? Is it to genuinely make fun of autistic peeps or is it just funi cuz idk - having difficulties communicating is hilarious? idunno, probably missing many things here ~

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

yeah I suppose a gay trans woman who's neurodivergent, disabled, unemployed, broke, who spent most of her adult life homeless, dealing with addiction and trauma is a likely candidate for somebody who jokes about being depressed because they wanna seem so cool and funny. doesn't that just sound so awesome, who wouldn't wanna lie about being like that!

in all seriousness I know you don't mean any harm by this, I was going to ignore it at first, but I decided that I wanted to say that it's better not to assume somebody is just joking when they say they are depressed. it's shitty to joke about serious mental issues and misrepresent your situation by making false claims, but it's also shitty to have suggested that your just faking it.

again, I know you didn't mean any harm by this, and your coming from an understandable place, but I just hoped you would know me a little better than this.

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

yeah no, you are totally right. you did the right thing to call me out on this. i just associated this specific phrase with the evil faking-peeps >:( .

i did debate on putting this comment, cuz it really does sound like i'm saying "damn all these people just fake everything for attention". which, i really tried to not come across like this, but i did.

i really should have known you better, and i do remember you talking about something similar some time ago.. i will perform more multi-perspective-analysis next time i comment.

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 20 hours ago

I just wanted to say thank you for your apology, I accept it, and it was very mature of you. your very smart and I appreciate all the effort you put into the things you say, your a good friend smorty.

[–] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago

i know right :3

[–] Sanctus@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Please, this is my first shower in three weeks. Just fix me completely so I can get back to bedrotting.

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

sorry, im too busy taking my 4th shower today, ill fix you another time.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

cold or hot shower tho? asking for ... head cannon about you

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 22 hours ago

hot then cold

[–] shani66@ani.social 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Have you tried ignoring your problems until they go away?

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 day ago

only every day

[–] PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

In the same vein of those shampoos that always advertised 'no more tears'.

[–] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago

I hate those, I keep rubbing the shampoo in my baby's eyes but she won't stop crying.

You need to drink it so it can act inside.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

pacman noises

Have you tried eating to the point of hating yourself?

alternatively...

[–] CanaryWhiskey@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

seeking happiness and not validation or other superficial things from strangers can incidentally also help you address your problems.