Asklemmy

Really?

More people more drama. I rarely see rudeness in my experience

I feel like casual rudeness and insults have become more common as more people have come over from Reddit.

Are people negative and rude or not expressed passion towards anything?

Also, I think there is a good passion for tech surrounding this community. I like that.

What communities are you frequenting?

The ones I sub and post to have been nice.

I've found much more genuine, honest discussion on here than other platforms. More people say thanks when someone corrects them. I feel like I'm talking to reasonable adults, for the most part.

We're negative doomscrollers, true. But most people seem pretty polite, at least in my experience.

Please also report people being rude, that's a temp ban here.

I don't think it's "growing," more that as society continues to get worse people's outlooks grow darker.

You'll have to be more specific. I'm not seeing any unusual amount of negativity.

What's that thing about expressing any passion? What do you mean by that?

Selection bias mostly, you only remember the negative interactions. I'm new here but I've not run into any particularly negative or rude people so they don't seem super common, nowhere near like reddit.

It’s probably a downstream effect of the souring mood in the United States as the consequences of the current administration and our slide into fascism become increasingly apparent. Can’t speak for the rest of the world, but it’s hard to believe things are getting better out there.

Okay, there are three reasons why this is:

1. Anonymity grants people the ability to be assholes.

2. You've done something or said something that was going to get people riled up over.

3. People from rejected instances, sites .etc come here to carry over their shitty nature.

My theory is that for-profit social media companies push conflict and controversy because it increases “engagement.” So, people are conditioned to be hostile and hiss like a cat at the first sign of disagreement (real or imagined). Lemmy, obviously, has different incentives.

It’s happening on Mastodon and BlueSky too. I try to respond with kindness and sincerity. (I don’t always succeed. I kind of suck at it, to be honest. But if we all even can halfass human decency, it’ll be better than most of the internet.)

The Tumblr effect

Thing allows freedom of speech Thing now has "bad apples" Thing either get lobotomized or accomodates with that freedom.

Its the internet, no matter how much people here like to think lemmy is some kind of special utopia its no different to any other site or social media.

Reddit energy

Things are hard out there, and that makes people feel like finding hills to die on. The less stressful life is, the better the discourse, usually.

i noticed that too. i chalk it up to people are always seeking approval and they want to tell express to everyone how the think and feel in hopes that people will express the same. its not everyone id say at most 30%. also you have to keep in mind that this is where the reddit rejects go (i can say that word because i got banned off of reddit lol).

another user got mad and attacked me for saying "my morality and logic is different" and said nothing about why my differences is bad.