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[–] rimu@piefed.social 38 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

https://piefed.social/ welcomes all lemm.ee refugees. There is also https://feddit.online/ and others .

If whole communities want to move, all the posts in the community since the start of 2024 will be preserved. See https://piefed.social/post/667044 for details.

On Android you can use the Interstellar app with it.

[–] TheWeirdestCunt@lemm.ee 28 points 2 days ago (1 children)

damn shutting down on the exact day my account finally hits two years, guess it's time to finally look for another instance to use

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[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

lemmy.blahaj.zone is good, I just moved there. I've participated in their communities and they've been nothing but nice to me.

[–] FundMECFSResearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I think it would also be cool for a casual conversation community because it doesn’t federate downvotes. But I’m biased since LBZ is my home instance.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 25 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Damn that sucks. While I’m glad such an instance existed, I have to wonder if their ideological opposition to defederation was a factor here. I’ve usually argued against defederation in all but the most extreme cases but I could see how not doing so would increase the burden on admins considerably.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Lemmy.today also has policy against defederation, and it's still happily chugging along.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Sure, I didn’t mean it was impossible or anything, just could see how it might lead to more abuse since you’ll inevitably end up mediating between instances that hate each other and sometimes just are downright hateful to everyone.

[–] m_f@discuss.online 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'll plug my home instance of discuss.online. The admin is great, and we've got several discussion communities already, one of which I've been posting to recently:

!discuss@discuss.online

And another one for casual US-based discussion:

!AskUSA@discuss.online

Yeah it would be a fitting name.

casual conversation @ discuss . online

[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

My suggestion: lemmy.cafe has a really cool, fitting name, its an opportunity to grow lesser known instances

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 2 days ago (7 children)

I have a lemmy.cafe, it was my daily driver for a few weeks.

The admin is nice, and the instance theme is cool.

The main issue is that Illecors (the admin) is alone, and sometimes it would take him a few weeks to troubleshoot an issue. There was a quite serious one that would prevent images from loading, and that lasted for quite a while.

So I wouldn't recommend it over Piefed.social.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Are you thinking of taking your communities to piefed? If so, is the community transfer feature a large reason why?

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago

Yes. The community transfer helps, but I just couldn't find any generic Lemmy instance that wasn't LW

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[–] MxRemy@piefed.social 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm quite enjoying PieFed, would that work?

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)
[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Stupid question time: Is piefed just part of activitypub or is it a lemmy instance?

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

The former.

PieFed is built with Python, one of the most widely used programming languages. Care has been taken to construct it in the simplest way possible, enabling contributions from programmers of all skill levels and keeping server costs down. This will greatly speed PieFed’s development process and widen its adoption.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Whoa, that's cool. I hope lemm.ee goes there. I'm happy currently with sh.itjust.works, but it's nice to know there's another place to go.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

lemm.ee as an instance is over. But the users could ~~move over there~~ register on a piefed instance and communities can seemingly be properly transferred

this could be piefed's moment.

[–] Secret_Music@crazypeople.online 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Would be awesome if there was a way to do this with user accounts as well. Especially with news like this, that's a missing piece of this federation business. Because even once you've settled on lan instance, there's no guarantee it's going to stay open long term. And it kinda sucks on the user's end to lose all your comment and post history like that. And saved posts.

Not that I blame that on any admins, I can understand their decision. Just riffing about the user experience here in the Fediverse. If you can re-index communities and posts therein, that gives me hope that you could potentially do that with a user account.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago

It's really only the saved posts I would miss. It would be a shame to have never looked at them once.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Well, the posts and comments do live on on the views of those communities on other instances, as long as someone subscribed to the communities.

Kagi has a "Fediverse Forums" search lens that can search all the instances, so you could maybe search for your username and a snippit of text from that comment if you use that. My guess is that as long as the Threadiverse grows, other people will probably work on searchability too.

[–] Shadow@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 days ago

Lemmy.ca? 😁

[–] Keeponstalin@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

I'm pretty sure that's where I'm headed

[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

It's kind of niche. You need to buy in on the ideals.

[–] Kaboom@reddthat.com 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Well that sucks. I liked lemme.ee, and they were one of more sane instances.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 3 points 2 days ago

Well, presumably the userbase isn't going to collectively commit hari-kari, so they should still be around on some other instance.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

anywhere besides major spots like lemmy.world?

[–] Tower@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

This is how I find out....

[–] Blaze@piefed.social 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I was thinking piefed.social.

Piefed has reached feature parity with Lemmy from a community perspective (for the mobile apps, it's in progress, but you can still use your Lemmy account to follow a Piefed community, so it's all good).

[–] Marighost@lemm.ee 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm not sure, but let me know pls

[–] mjhelto@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

There are a couple Lemmy meta posts with discussions on available options with similar modding styles to lemm.ee. Some of the more recommended I've seen is piefed, lemmy.zip, and dbzer0.

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