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No, I'm not naive for being a good samaritan. It's called being a fucking normal social animal you broken fuck. Why do you think our society is falling apart?

I swear to god, capitalism has turned people into the most miserable, narcissistic fucks. No, I'm not trying to trick or manipulate you. No I'm not stupid. I just don't want to live in a world where everything is transactional and we can't just help each other. A world where everyone is a selfish asshole is depressing and stressful. It's fucking insulting when people assume I'm not genuine.

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[–] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 56 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

"Wow you're so selfless" no I just help my community when they need it and expect them to help me when I need it. If society isn't for precisely that then it has zero value.

[–] karashta@lemm.ee 34 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It's as if these people don't understand that, yes, I actually want to help create a better place by being a good person.

My first impulse towards someone isn't a cold calculus of thought about use and transaction.

It's insane how the current mythos inculcates that selfishness into people so much, you will see everyone walking around claiming selfishness as the foundational core trait of humanity... Completely ignoring that it's our bonds of community that are our real strength in nature.

The dying older generation has a point, though they attribute it to the wrong thing. They point to the downfall of the church in society as what made things go worse...

It wasn't the religion directly. It was the community that was, in some ways, making things better.

I just want to live in a world where people are taught these things: critical thinking, creativity, compassion and community. If you want a 5th "c" for physical activity like we probably should, "calisthenics" could be the last.

[–] jaywalker@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago

Sounds like communism to me (which is cool and good)

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 33 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I hate the way capital lionizes cynicism and misanthropy to convince people that their weariness of being exploited is actually just a general world-weariness that makes them cool when they say shit like "Heh, you'll understand one day kid" to people who understand more than they do.

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago

And watch them be taken aback when you direct said cynicism to the rich.

“ Democracy is not about trust; it is about distrust. It is about accountability, exposure, open debate, critical challenge, and popular input and feedback from the citizenry. It is about responsible government. We have to get our fellow Americans to trust their leaders less and themselves more, trust their own questions and suspicions, and their own desire to know what is going on.“ - Michael Parenti

[–] RION@hexbear.net 30 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Lots of folks are skeptical of outwardly selfless people because of prior abuse from those who pretended to be good people. Searching for "the angle" is a defense mechanism for them.

Sure, there's plenty more who thinks everyone has an angle in a cynical, ill-natured way, but I don't think it's good to lump the former in with the latter

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

I have also experienced this which is why it's even more annoying to me when people who are genuinely trying to be selfless are brushed off as being bad people.

[–] rando895@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 2 weeks ago

Ohh damn, and if an entire society experienced this type of abuse....

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 29 points 2 weeks ago

A lot of people will freely admit that they have no empathy, and they think that's a good thing

[–] iByteABit@hexbear.net 28 points 2 weeks ago

cuddle I feel this so much

[–] nothx@hexbear.net 27 points 2 weeks ago

I agree so much with this sentiment, but find myself doing the opposite and coping by avoiding. I don’t volunteer my mental or emotional energy on the public, I don’t like it very much, probably because of what you are saying here. No matter how much I want a better world for all of us, I also want my hobbit hole where I can avoid everyone forever if possible.

[–] Ithorian@hexbear.net 24 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

"there's no such thing as true altruism" Who gives a fuck?! If making the world a slightly friendlier place makes you feel good about your self than awesome.

[–] Midnight_Pearl@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago

every rant you post is amazing and based

thank you and keep up the good work

[–] blunder@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Dirt_Owl's jokerfication arc

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] blunder@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago

I feel u tho, my family is the most misanthropic, miserable, greedy group of people you'll ever meet. Spending time with them withers my soul.

cuddle

[–] the_post_of_tom_joad@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago

I dunno the context but would hear it if you'd share.

[–] OgdenTO@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

Helping in the community is one of the most spiritually fulfilling things one can do. Which is why capital discourages it - they want you to fill that hole in your soul with buying and consooming

[–] 2Password2Remember@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago

projection

Death to America

[–] Andrzej3K@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

Oh, I see, YOU don't want to live in a world where everything is transactional and we can't just help each other. Why don't you center someone else's needs for once smh smdh mddh ghfddsdccgghg