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[–] ristoril_zip@lemmy.zip 10 points 4 hours ago

smoking everywhere

[–] boaratio@lemmy.world 7 points 5 hours ago

Leaded gas.

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I’m so fucking glad we’ve stopped calling women “hysterical” whenever we don’t believe them. That word is so blatantly misogynistic and it seems to be dying out now.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 21 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Sierra_Is_Bee@beehaw.org 1 points 1 hour ago

Damn, came to make this joke myself.

[–] DFX4509B_2@lemmy.org 7 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

Objectively, dial-up.

Otoh, what I would really badly like to become a thing again is actual media ownership, ie. not having streaming services randomly yank your stuff away from you.

Also, I would nominate the fact that the 'It's obsolete as soon as you get it in the door' meme hasn't been valid for decades now, but hardware manufacturers, Windows itself, and the game industry are trying really hard to make that a thing again seemingly.

[–] Noggog@programming.dev 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Yup! Spotify removing things off my playlists was a big initial factor into me getting into self hosting. All my music streams through Plex now and I haven't looked back

[–] DFX4509B_2@lemmy.org 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Even DRM-free storefronts like 7Digital for music or GOG for games aren't immune to random delistings.

[–] Noggog@programming.dev 1 points 2 hours ago

For music, I've pulled it into my self hosted Plex setup, so even if the original sources like Bandcamp die, I am hosting my own copy.

Games are their own beast. Hard to do similar self hosted concepts when there are servers involved, other players, etc. I'm still 100% on the "streaming services" for games.

[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

The Hedolith.

[–] MothmanDelorian@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] Skua@kbin.earth 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

This is probably completely uninteresting to everyone else, but this has re-surfaced an old memory for me. I had a really dull data entry job one summer, and the crowd I worked with included a few odd figures. One particular guy was always making jokes that were just a bit too edgy for the workplace, especially amongst a bunch of people that didn't know him well enough to know how much he meant any of it. For some reason, completely unprompted, he brought up that "you never see white dog turds any more". Everyone heard this as "white doctors" and immediately winced in anticipation of some incoming racism, and everyone still heard it that way when he tried to clarify several times. Turns out no, it was 100% innocent, just weird.

He was fired for unrelated reasons a few weeks later; he had gone to the nearby pub on his lunch break and had several pints

[–] cheers_queers@lemm.ee 5 points 12 hours ago

goals, honestly

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 day ago (9 children)

It's not "gone", but the notion of it being "acceptable" is gone:

Using 'retard' as a slur, not only for people with intellectual disabilities but also just for people or things you think were stupid.

[–] damnedfurry@lemmy.world 9 points 15 hours ago

Using ‘retard’ as a slur, not only for people with intellectual disabilities

That's actually the one group of people I've never seen anyone call that, lol.

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[–] statler_waldorf@sopuli.xyz 69 points 1 day ago

Smoking everywhere. For anyone who wasn't around for the 70s/80s/90s, everything was tinged yellow and smelled of smoke. Car/plane/train seats had built-in ashtrays. Restaurants had smoking sections separated from the non-smoking sections by waist-high walls.

I have asthma and it sucked. Not sure if I grew out of it as I got older or if there's just not a miasma of smoke around everywhere, but it rarely bothers me anymore.

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

George W. Bush's presidency. I don't know what the kids are smoking when they say current republicans make him look "classy" or that Trump's first term was worse than his. He bred a constant state of paranoia and xenophobia and used it to justify killing countless people in the middle east. The damage done to that part of the world is staggering and everyone just treats it like background noise.

Also that decade post-SpongeBob where every kid's cartoon was about a loud, annoying, dumb guy.

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

GWB definitely had a scarier presidency than Trumps first term for sure. but this second term is unlike anything I've ever seen

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 2 points 5 hours ago

Absolutely, that's why I specified the first term! Even during Biden I kept seeing people say GWB was better than Trump, when they didn't have this current nightmare fresh affecting their judgment. The kids just really want to redeem Bush for some reason.

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