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Haven't dated since Chapo subreddit got banned (related circumstances) and haven't been keeping up with the social dogma anymore.

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[–] GrouchyGrouse@hexbear.net 29 points 2 years ago

I told a couple friends but I don't know if I would tell a partner unless they were a communist shrug-outta-hecks

I don't really use the other major social media sites. I browse a few niche subreddits but I haven't been on Facebook in forever. I don't use tiktok or Instagram. I am a fuddy duddy old man, I can't be bothered with that bullshit.

[–] build_a_bear_group@hexbear.net 29 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

IDK, all my dates come from horny posting on Hexbear. Meeting people in real life is reactionary.

[–] build_a_bear_group@hexbear.net 18 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Unrelated, any [she/her], [she/her, they/them], or various femme types out there? soviet-bottom

[–] ZapataCadabra@hexbear.net 27 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] build_a_bear_group@hexbear.net 17 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 29 points 2 years ago

You never tell them lol

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 28 points 2 years ago

idk was with my bf for like 10 years before i told him about hexbear (when it was made) so

[–] GreenTeaRedFlag@hexbear.net 28 points 2 years ago (1 children)

when you show them a post, reference one of our memes in conversation, or say something so batshit it only makes sense here. I call it "some website," "a forum," "a leftist forum," or "my communist forum" depending on who I'm talking to.

[–] skeletorsass@hexbear.net 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Outdoor cat discussion forum.

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[–] sharedburdens@hexbear.net 27 points 2 years ago

"hey babe check out this post, this one's doing the numbers" (57 upbears)

[–] eutow@hexbear.net 24 points 2 years ago

The Hexbear users disdain to conceal their posting history

[–] ChaosMaterialist@hexbear.net 22 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Related question: If two Hexbear.net users meet, whom should announce first? I try to practice Safe, Sane and Chapo.

[–] frankfurt_schoolgirl@hexbear.net 21 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Normal edicate is that the federal agent goes first.

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[–] PZK@hexbear.net 21 points 2 years ago (5 children)

gulag You have already failed your mission by not leading with your conviction! You should have screened your partner for liberalism before considering them!

Serious answer: Idk, whenever it feels natural. Truthfully, it isn't something that has to be on your sleeve in "real life" even though it influences you. They don't necessarily have to know. I wouldn't consider it that serious.

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[–] Hatandwatch@hexbear.net 21 points 2 years ago

Coming (regretfully) from LL/ETI I'm used to tabbing away in shame as my partner asks "are you browsing that hexagonal site again?".

[–] Des@hexbear.net 20 points 2 years ago (1 children)

my partner has an account and lurks here

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[–] WhatDoYouMeanPodcast@hexbear.net 18 points 2 years ago

I actually said I was posting on a lefty site one time and they didn't inquire further

[–] JuryNullification@hexbear.net 16 points 2 years ago

You need to ascertain their position on the critical struggle sessions within the first hour.

[–] Mardoniush@hexbear.net 15 points 2 years ago

You keep RL, Org Work, and shitposting separate. This post is deeply unserious.

[–] honeynut@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago

I tell them immediately because I am dedicated to my volcel pledge

[–] RatzChatsubo@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago (6 children)

What's so great about hexbear? I legitimately don't know.

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