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What brought me here:
When breadtube became a thing around 2016 it was my refuge from the horrible reactionary shitshow the internet was at the time. It opened me to things further left than Obummer. I lurked on Reddits sorry excuses for leftist subs and heard them whisper about the CTH sub as being "bad leftists" but they never explained what was bad about them so I checked for myself and checked out the podcast and was like "They aren't bad they're just a bit obnoxious." I didn't really hang out on r/CTH, only saw the occasional post, and I listened to the podcast every now and again (and not at all anymore, stopped listening after the 2020 primaries) and that was about it. Then r/CTH was banned, this place was mentioned and I got curious. It felt like I had finally found a place that wasn't going to demand I be civil towards Nazis. I wasn't going to be banned for saying "kill all slave owners." I also thought you guys were really funny. So yeah, Ironally r/CTH made you guys more appealing lmao. It also helped that you retained the "fuck being civil to horrible people" energy while at the same time attempting to make sure marginalised groups weren't thrown under the bus.

What made me stay:
A community of weirdos that genuinely want to make the world a better place and stand up for their marginalised comrades. Whether it's the mutual aid comm helping people the best it can, the news comm shining a light on events the world tries to bury, or simply the movie comm providing a safe fun area to chill, I feel like this place provides something other places on the internet don't. It also is a place I feel like I can ask any questions about leftism and not be called an idiot. You guys taught me things ranging from practical stuff how to take part in my local org, to mundane things how to make a rad bean recipe. I think that's worth something. Also I still think you guys are hilarious.

EDIT: added some more context because I was reminded of stuff I had forgotten.

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[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 3 points 3 days ago

Started listening to Chapo in 2019, found and was entertained by the subreddit, wound up on a lifeboat here. Excellent meme content, wonderful effort posts, and the only place on the web that respects trans people and doesn't bow down to pornography

[–] Venat@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago

I've been here since the offboarding from r/cth and when this was called chapo.chat. I was @Zodiark.

Probably just the occassional insight, leftist safe space, and good vibes all around. A general permissiveness and acceptance, even anonymized, to be who you wish to be. I did like to comment and post, but this space was a genuine thought refuge when 10/7 happened.

[–] culpritus@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago

I found out about chapo.chat somehow a little while after the ban happened. I wasn't on r/cth much at all, but the idea of a new lefty lemmy instance sounded pretty cool. It just felt like my kinda place, and I've learned a lot here. I enjoy the full spectrum of shit posts to effort posts on offer. Comrades being comrades online, what's not to love?

[–] Poogona@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago

People said nice things to me and I desired more

[–] buckykat@hexbear.net 11 points 5 days ago

I was on the old cth subreddit but didn't know about chapo.chat when the sub got removed. When reddit banned all the good apps to make their IPO look good, I started checking out various lemmys. I happened to be on blahaj when it was briefly federated with hexbear and made this account here after they defedded, preferring to be with the tankies.

[–] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago

I was posting on chapo as a teen while I was somewhat of a lib but had read a decent amount of theory. Tried chapo.chat back in the day, but it just wasn't active enough for my tastes at the time. Ended up staying on Reddit for a while after the ban, fully internalized the theory after a few years without realizing it. Left Reddit during the whole third party app debacle and ended up on Blahaj zone. When I saw the Hexbear comments on there, I knew I had to come over now because it felt like the libs over there just became completely unhinged after Ukraine.

I was adrift after r/cth got shut down, Reddit got more annoying, so I bailed. It was nice to be off that hell site, but I kinda missed knowing there were like minded people out there and some semblance of community... Which I don't engage much in tbh, but I'm trying to take more steps to do so. Fact is, we need each other more every day. And y'all help me to laugh so I don't get lost in despair...

But most of all, the free cookies.

[–] sloth@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

come for the empathy, stay for the ~~cats~~ beans

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

I just kinda gravitated to the old sub in its final months because the people from there just seemed to be right about stuff and I wanted to see where they were coming from. I guess that's at the core of why I'm still here. Whether it's about politics or the kind of vibe you want, this place gets it and other places don't.

[–] Des@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago

i could literally write all the same for my shared experience right down to wanting to go check out the "bad kids" lol

owl is wise owl-wink

[–] Barx@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago

I have always lived on Liberal Mountain and met hexbears there.

I stay because it is entertaining, informative, and has a good smattering of people that know theory and/or irl practice. And because it's vehemently pro-trans, anti-white supremacist, and so on, although of course there is room for improvement.

[–] roux@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago

My political pipeline was Dem > DemSoc > Marxist-Leninist > something akin to Left Unity(currently closer to anarcho-socialism but I float)

I joke about it but I'm the meme where you go into college as a lib and leave as a socialist. But I also took a lot of econ, polysci, and history classes. They are a bit more gloves off in their history classes when they are behind a paywall.

I've been a redditor for like 13 pathetic years and gravitated towards /r/latestagecapitalism pretty early but I was still lib-brained and a reformist. Sometime during the Bernie era, I became a socialist but at that time I only heard bad things on reddit about all those tankies on /r/cth and /r/genzedong. And certainly a tankie I was not!

I kept reading theory and at some point, It sort of clicked and I was like, I'm a Marxist. It's me, the communist, etc. Basically I was radicalized at this point. Last year when reddit was killing 3rd party apps, I caught wind of Lemmy and went to look into it. I saw a bunch of horror stories about how bad the evil tankies were on Lemmygrad and Hexbear and sort of just went with Lemmygrad since it was federated with the wider server network. I hung out there for a few months, then y'all federated and I just sort of found myself on y'alls comms more and it felt more like home to me. I still love my 'grad comrades but the 50/50 split of shit posting and effort posting here jives better with my personality.

I stayed because I've never seen a more inviting place for marginalized people and leftists. I'm pretty serious about Left Unity and that include my brown, queer, trans, and fellow disabled comrades, and really everyone that just wants to see socialism realized. I hate seeing other "leftist" spaces close the door on people just because they don't fit their perfect mold.

[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

it was the best successor to the subreddit (and still is)

[–] pastalicious@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago

2008 libertarian to 2012 socialist curious, started frequenting the Chapo sub in 2017 and came over here when it was banned.

I’ve stayed because y'all are way funnier than anyone on Reddit and your hearts are always in the right place… seriously, there’s like a utopian level of kindness here. Oh and no ads!!!

Plus someone here introduced me to Black Dresses so I consider you taste makers as well.

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

What brought me here:

r/CTH refugee & I like that this community attempts to be hardline trans inclusive and shit.

What made me stay:

I didn't. Took a huge break after getting fatigued reading gleeful slur use and self congratulatory hornyposting.

And where did that bring me?

B- back to you.

[–] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 4 points 4 days ago

I'm gonna go with extremely proximal responses to this.

What brought me here: A casual thought, 3 months after the fact, of "they had a lifeboat Discord they were talking about, I should check that out".

Why I've stayed: Because I wasn't banned, I guess.

[–] Lerios@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

i watched the 2020 primaries like a particularly bloody spectator sport on the sub, and then 4 years later i'm trapped here by my reliance on our iconic selection of emotes.

knifecat agony-mescaline volcel-judge based-department hexbear-lesbian stalin-shining dog-faced-pony-soldier jazz-ecstacy doug-point-cry sit-back-and-enjoy wall-talk stalin-gun-1 stalin-gun-2

like who the fuck could ever possibly need so many weird, hyper-specific, and self referential emotes? me, apparently, since i find myself missing them when i'm on any other site/discord/whatever

[–] HarryLime@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago

/r/chapotraphouse was banned and they made this place so

[–] Lalutacontinua@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Came here from lemmygrad for the memes and news, staying for the memes and news and whatever beanis is

[–] BynarsAreOk@hexbear.net 6 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I was here since the beginning but this is not my original account. What made HB unique to me is it was that time where this is the only place that had a concretly reasonable and different view about China and other AES countries. There were some other places like Genzedong(only a lurker there) but it was banned and it since died.

I've seen a lot of struggle sessions about that, first it was China, I particularly remember some random person willing to die on a hill that China's handling of terrorism in Xinjiang was just like the state police apparatus resembling post 9/11 America.

But 2022 was realy funny, the epic struggle session over why would Putin suddenly do this to smol bean innocent Ukraine. Again this was the only place I knew which we were even discussing about having a different opinion from the western consensus.

I think the way which we handled the Gaza genocide, again one of the few places that isn't scared of the MSM narrative or afraid to fight Zionism.

I think when it comes to the real world issues we mostly eventualy found the correct majority opinion on things that matter. If at any point I felt these positions would've been different from mine I would've probably left already.

When it comes to China I think the near constant unironic Xi posting was a bit too much for me personaly specialy. 2020-22 were great years and I would be right there 100% agreeing with this as Xi is definitely a great leader, will be remembered as a key and historically important figure, undeniably.

But the decision making that led to that horrible stupid meeting with Hitler in the middle of the genocide and their similar timid stance against Israel is the closest I've come to a serious disagreement with some people here that obviously love unironic shallow pro-CPC-Xi meme posting. As such 2023-24 are horrible years imo.

But otherwise I don't see a reason why I'd ever leave. We'll see how this community handles China in the future, for both ourselves and the future of socialism I hope the CPC wont continue with this shitty timid conciliatory stance towards the west as the world continues to burn and the ropes tighten.

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I came after the reddit api exodus.

I stayed for the awesome trans community! hexbear-trans

[–] Bobson_Dugnutt@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago

I was on the old /r/cth (with a different username) up until the ban, then I think there were one or two discords that tried to be the successor, but I never really got the hang of discord. Then I saw the announcement that chapo.chat was launching, and I've been here ever since. I've stuck around because a lot of you weirdos seem to have the same mental illness that I do, everyone seems to be caring and empathetic, and y'all have the correct opinions on beans.

I was a lurker on cth and my like 6 accounts prior to this one keep getting banned or i forget the password

[–] gramxi@hexbear.net 4 points 4 days ago

you are my friends

[–] morte@hexbear.net 4 points 4 days ago

Came because of CTH stayed cause of tha ppl

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 6 points 4 days ago

It's federated with my lemmy instance. I neither seek it out nor avoid it.

[–] hellomao@hexbear.net 6 points 4 days ago

Came here from the reddit-logo subreddit r/shitliberalsay. The dunk tank and the memes made me stay here.

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Came to be with comrades after the subreddit got shut down. Been here since then.

Why I stay though? Was for my trans comrades and the shitposts, but after getting banned today in the one shitstorm thread for defending my trans comrades, I’m probably not going to stick around much longer. I’m very unhappy about that.

[–] SoylentSnake@hexbear.net 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

fun shitposts but also genuinely kind people, least internet-brained internet site where i trust ppl to engage in good faith, broadly correct abt politics and occasionally genuinely informative. i have made little internet buds. idk it's just a good site, 9/10 would recommend

(also came here from the original r/cth w/ a different username, mostly lurked there because there was a bit more caustic reddit bullshit that made posting seem unpleasant.)

[–] Mardoniush@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago

I migrated from the previous Kalpa.

[–] Kolibri@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago

I heard of hexbear through lemmygrad last year. What made me stay was being able to talk about when my mom died last year or being able to vent about various stuff here. That I wasn't able to elsewhere, last year wasn't, really great.

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago

r/cth refugee and I really appreciate having a trans-positive corner of the internet that is not too liberal :p I have been getting into the News mega an unhealthy amount too.

[–] darkmode@hexbear.net 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

only caught the subreddit towards the end bc i was going to school and focused. covid rolled around so i was wasting more time on the computer. also allowed normie me (NM) more time to consider politic ideology more patiently beyond “never join the military” so NM was looking for information.

the subreddit was entertaining and also was the logical extension of the Bernie vibe which NM was on board with wholeheartedly. He made me want to go vote and give $20 to a politician.

That ended, NM was left with nothing on the computer besides a job, video games, and the desire to browse supplementary sites for video game discussion (which NM had sworn off to focus on school). The old browsing habits turned into reading about politics and the news and I honest to god think i found the subreddit bc ppl were posting on reddit in general about the donald getting banned and any left wing subs getting quarantined. Joined the discord, joined the site. This is i think my third account. the site got me to read non fiction that actually made sense. i’d always loved reading but it had to grab me. The read settlers posters were right.

stayed bc it’s the only place where the text on my phone/computer reads as sober. Everyone else where people aren’t explicitly posting as communists reads as asinine. I also like only having to open one website to get shitposts, news, discussion, and the occasional sincere blogpost about people’s lives. Oh and there was that recent fundraiser too, that was heartwarming.

[–] Outdoor_Catgirl@hexbear.net 4 points 4 days ago

I came here because chapotraphouse got banned.

I started using reddit around 2013-2014. I pretty much immediately gravitated to places like r/top_minds as I still had a bit of the deboonking spirit in me from the early aughts. I also liked the other reddit critique subs. I never got into the podcast when it started, I avoided it. I also avoided the sub. It wasn't until 2019 that I started actually listening to the podcast. Of course the sub got removed. I was part of a CTH discord that sucked pretty bad and I wanted a new place. Reddit sucked. I heard about chapo.chat about a month after it started.

I stayed because it was a great reddit replacement and I felt way more comfortable posting here than anywhere else. I have gotten to watch the site grow and change. I have changed a bit too.

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