Why did you come to that conclusion? I do want to but I want to do that in person not over text and I’m also scared. I want to ask her to coffee or brunch or something first but then I don’t know to tell her what I’m feeling. I’m just confused.
LibsEatPoop
Don’t do that. Don’t give me hope. (Please do that. Please give me hope.)
Like, when we are in person, she touches me and everything and then says she wants to meet up and I’m riding the high for days. ESP when she approaches me first. But then over text it’s one word replies and not replying for days or not answering my questions and I don’t know what to do.
I don’t want to trust me. But emotions don’t listen to the rational me.
Thanks. I don’t know if I can. No one else I talk to stirs these intense emotions in me. But I think you’re right. Confessing is probably the only way of getting over them.
I know it’s a fantasy. I’ve been in that for six fucking months. It’s getting worse.
Author and psychologist Frank Tallis has made the argument that all love—even normal love—is largely indistinguishable from mental illness
Fucking based.
For example, when people fall in love, there are four core symptoms: preoccupation, episodes of melancholy, episodes of rapture and instability of mood
Yeah….i might have limerence. I’m all of this.
that limerence most commonly lasts between 18 months and three years with an average of two years, but may be as short as mere days or as long as a lifetime
BRO WHAT THE FUCK. NO NO NO GET ME OUT GET ME OUT GET ME OUT.
Six months.
Honestly I’d be down for that.
Wow. Incredible. Thank you so much. This was very well stated. I just…I don’t want that confession to end up making things extremely awkward at work. And I want to do it in person if possible. Any advice?
I’m not a good person cuz the thought of them being with someone is physically crushing ngl.
yea tru. thanks kristina.