[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 3 points 11 months ago

Happy dead kissinger comrade

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago
[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

They think explaining is making excuses for your actions, when really it's you articulating that you understand what the problem was and will correct for it, and just want them to know that you know

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

lmfao at Ulysses' entry

the subtext understander has logged on

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago

Wins california but loses illinois

:michael-laugh:

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submitted 3 years ago by QuillQuote@hexbear.net to c/main@hexbear.net

Stinking up the place

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submitted 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) by QuillQuote@hexbear.net to c/neurodiverse@hexbear.net

I've always treasured the fact that I'm weird, and as such have lots of little fun memories that I think back to positively of times when I was a fun little weirdo, but those times are the exception not the rule of my childhood, I'm sure I'm not alone in that

incoherent ranting

(I've been struggling with phrasing and how I want to structure this whole post but that's starting to stress me out and I'm editing and re-edditing things so fuck it I'm just posting it and freeing myself)

I was explicitly blamed for 'ruining' several vacations throughout my childhood. As in, we'd pack up and head home and my parents would angrily tell me how I fucked everything up for everyone. Because I didn't handle a lot of what came with travel and amusement parks super well, especially waiting in lines, being overstimulated, and or just being bored in an unfamiliar or uncomfortable place, like the couple ski trips 'I ruined'

When I was first put on medication, we went to the pharmacy to get it and then when we got home my mom put it in the medicine cabinet and showed me where so I could take my medicine. The spot she decided to put it was in a tray labled "pain management" so being like 10-12 at the time, I took this to mean "okay, I'm a pain to be managed away". Now, the reason she put it there was because the rest of the cabinet was full and she didn't really think about it, certainly didn't realize that I would take it so harshly to heart, but yeah I was mad at myself for that for years.

One such time was when we went to Disney, right before bed for some reason I accidentally took my adderall when I meant to get an advil but went for my pill on autopilot. This result in me obviously not sleeping at all, tossing and turning in frustration and distress all night. My bunk was reaaally squeaky and my tossing and turning kept my whole family up. They made sure to share how thankful they were to me for my mistake

Hey mom&dad, maybe it's your fucking fault the vacation got ruined and not your young neurodiverse child's? No? Okay, you're right, I should just go fuck myself

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lying in bed quietly trying to fall asleep is terrible. My brain doesn't stop, it's like a pitching machine that's gone rouge and I'm the batter stuck in the cage.

Whenever I'm finally about to fall asleep, I notice myself falling asleep and become fully awake, because my brain goes "Yes! I'm falling asleep! Hurrah!"

Every time :angery:

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For me, it's messing up/ doing something socially unacceptable or hurting someones feelings without noticing. In my life I've done this many times, and the times it happened the worst were when I was having a lot of fun, and had no idea I was doing something wrong. I'm the king of miscommunication.

I had a long history of this, especially as a kid, and because of it for a long time whenever I was having a lot of fun in a social situation I'd suddenly remember past times when I messed up, and then I'd go down in a self-doubt spiral and it'd kill my fun and start acting weird.

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 1 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago)

Oi Oi Oi Oi Oi Oi Oi

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 0 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago)

I'll dm you first next time I do it <3

You and me both comrade, hell yeah! Here and the discord, cause days like that are when the discord is the most fun especially in the voice chat

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submitted 3 years ago by QuillQuote@hexbear.net to c/main@hexbear.net

Damn! First Trump and ben garrison get banned from twitter, now this! 2021 is spicy

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submitted 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) by QuillQuote@hexbear.net to c/main@hexbear.net

You can’t downvote me even if you wanted to! MY MASTER PLAN IS FINALLY COMPLETE!

Now I will have the most downvoted post in the history of this site FOREVER!

MUAHAHAHAHAHA

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 0 points 3 years ago

I highly recommend sorting this thread by controversial

this one has -84 upvotes

All of the "conservatives" here begging for checks are just playing into the Democrat's plan. Don't you understand what they're doing?

We're going to be locked down for years. We're going to need stimulus for years. It doesn't take long to get people hooked on something. After only a little while, we'll start getting politicians asking "isn't this free money nice?" And then they'll make it permanent.

There should be no stimulus without reopening. Get people back on their feet, but then also get the country moving again.

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 0 points 3 years ago

And people aren't angrily downvoting it and I'm pretty stoked about that

[-] QuillQuote@hexbear.net 0 points 3 years ago

I'm glad you posted it anyway

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submitted 4 years ago* (last edited 4 years ago) by QuillQuote@hexbear.net to c/main@hexbear.net

Trans Rights are Human Rights

Edit:

I was angry when I made this post. I should have cooled off first but I didn’t, and I apologize for that. Though that does not change the reason for this post, just the way I’m gonna say it:

I’m not, and I don’t think anyone else is, upset if someone doesn’t want to set a pronoun. The anger came from the comments on the other post, the reaction of some people who stated they didn’t care about the issue, but also cared enough to complain about the fact that it was brought up.

They cared that they were being bothered but did not care to show solidarity.

I think that’s supremely fucked up. I know what it’s like to be on the other side of that cruel apathy, and I will not stand to see it directed at my comrades.

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submitted 4 years ago by QuillQuote@hexbear.net to c/main@hexbear.net

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submitted 4 years ago* (last edited 4 years ago) by QuillQuote@hexbear.net to c/main@hexbear.net

Stuff like "stupid, idiot, moron, dumb," you know the ones. If you’re insulting someone for their shitty garbage beliefs and all you can manage to come up with is ways to insult their intelligence, appearance, or other aspect about them that has nothing to do with their cruelty and shittyness, you should maybe reevaluate.

Just saw a thread on here where a user was stubbornly refusing to adjust their language when another user politely pointed out that it was harmful to our comrades as well, and the person refusing was massively upvoted and the comrade trying to explain why it was harmful was downvoted. Thought we were better than that

I'm not calling anyone out, just wanted to make a post explaining my feelings on it and that when stuff like that happens (not the intelligence based insults, I know its hard to switch, but getting insulted for asking people to avoid them) it hurts and makes me feel less welcome here </3

Using words like “You’re being ignorant” or “That’s a cruel belief” is actually more effective than just going “lmao idiot”.

If those are the words you actually mean to convey I'd say use them instead :)

Edit: if the reception this post got isn't a good proof that this is something this community needs to grapple with, I don't know what is.

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submitted 4 years ago* (last edited 4 years ago) by QuillQuote@hexbear.net to c/main@hexbear.net

Feeling reflective: How did everyone like the discord? https://hexbear.net/post/1872

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