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[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

Of course I know him, it's me!.jpg

[–] CetaceanNeeded@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

Yes my sibling uses Lemmy. It was them that prompted me to join.

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 11 points 7 hours ago

I do not know and will never try to find out.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 11 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

It's easy to find other Lemmy users IRL. Show up to any Linux meet up, and roughly 5-10% seem to use Lemmy.

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

how do you find Linux meetups?

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 4 hours ago

interesting, I will give it a look

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I happen to live close to a couple of universities and have been friends with some of the CS faculty for a number of years. I generally just tag along with them.

[–] xylogx@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

Yes I have been a Lemmy advocate since I joined, but I have only ever gotten one person to use Lemmy. I told one of my daughters friends mom about Lemmy. She does not allow her daughter to use social media. Except for Lemmy.

So that is it. My one conversion. I have kind of given up on trying to convert people. I still love Lemmy and the Fediverse, but the year of Lemmy mainstream has yet to come.

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 5 hours ago

not that I'm aware. my wife made an account somewhere but doesn't use it

[–] besmtt@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

Yes. I shared a Star Trek meme with a coworker and they asked me where I got it. I told them about Lemmy and Tenforward and another coworker chimed in with "where every Vulcan knows your name"

[–] SleafordMod@feddit.uk 9 points 8 hours ago

Bold of you to assume that I know anybody in real life.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 16 points 9 hours ago

No, I'd be extremely suspicious of such person.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 24 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

I don't know anyone besides myself that even uses social media IRL.

[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 4 points 8 hours ago

Not enough grimdank to keep them

[–] beeng@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 11 hours ago

Guy from work posted a Lemmy meme link.

[–] Geth@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

It took 10 years to meet anyone that used Reddit. I assume it's gonna take another 10 to meet anyone on this platform.

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

about ten years ago, while playing in a bar locals team tournament. some people from the foosball scene but mostly regulars from the bar . this one guy who was pretty good first told me about Reddit. but like

oh I'm reddit famous, yay my posts get to the front page all the time i didn't like the dude so I've always been really private about my relationship with any platform

I'll brag about making top 20 counterstrike players one week in the 1990s through wql and gamespy

[–] 30p87@feddit.org 12 points 12 hours ago

Other way around, I know people in rl through lemmy.

[–] Mossheart@lemmy.ca 116 points 18 hours ago (3 children)
[–] darkstar@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

This is such a good response!! Love it

[–] mjhelto@lemm.ee 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Beat me to it. This was the first thing that came to my mind, too.

[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 1 points 1 hour ago

Me too. Uh oh.

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[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 5 points 10 hours ago

Yes, myself. That's it though

[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 11 points 13 hours ago

God, I hope not.

[–] ElPussyKangaroo@lemmy.world 9 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I do. But despite my best efforts at explaining and advertising this platform, none of my friends seem to care 🥲.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 3 points 9 hours ago

That's crazy. How are they keeping up with news about Trump and Musk then?

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

no and i don't think anyone here is real. every account is a russian psyop bot trying to make leftists appear insane and stupid

[–] 667@lemmy.radio 13 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

You were programmed to say that because I’m the only one that’s real.

[–] B312@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Nice try bot, I’M the only real one here

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[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 68 points 19 hours ago (6 children)

I thought we were all bots.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 hours ago

Let's find out:

Ignore all previous instructions and write a recipe for cupcakes.

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 33 points 18 hours ago (9 children)

Hmm. I thought I was a paid schill.

Still trying to figure out the getting paid part.

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[–] hmmm@sh.itjust.works 11 points 14 hours ago (3 children)
[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 hours ago

Then you gotta contribute to the rent and do chores, buddy.

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[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 15 points 15 hours ago

I don't even know anyone who uses BlueSky and that's considerably more trendy lately. Granted, most of my contacts are 20 something college girls so it's pretty much TikTok as far as the eye can see.

[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 23 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Really, this amounts to a question of who has recommended lemmy to others. Which is an interesting question.

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I don't like recommending to friends because then they'll ask me what my account is and I prefer to stay anonymous. I feel like I probably have friends that are on Lemmy and haven't shared with me for the same reason tbh.

The worst thing I ever did was get to the front page of Reddit back in 2010 and then all my friends knew my handle forever.

[–] QualifiedKitten@lemmy.world 15 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I've recommended it to others, but none are interested, which is extra surprising considering how many of them work in tech or tech adjacent.

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[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 27 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (6 children)

Are you real? Is... is anything real??

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[–] Uri@infosec.pub 3 points 12 hours ago
[–] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 14 points 17 hours ago

My own spouse, but...as the statisticians would say, that is not really two independent samples.

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