Idk. Like, I barely look at anyone else in a regular gym. Everyone around me I see is listening to music and stuff. It just a very solo kinda thing unless you're doing some group activity

Ah I gotcha ok

If you're in the US I did find that the dresses on stitch fix have been fitting me really well. I mean.its different for everyone but friends also report the same thing. I have recs

Lmao what

I don't think I ever even come off as queer masc to people. Like I'm not super masc and if I literally changed how my voice sounded, no one would question how I talk I don't think, but with my voice it's just like .. idk I can be in a dress and full makeup and I get he him'd. I figure it has to be my voice at this point

I actually scheduled a consult with a voice coach. It's been like, idk a year now and I have made no progress with my voice so hoping that a voice coach can help me. Only problem is that I'm not out at work so I will not be able to go full time with my voice :(

Yeah I just feel super aimless with voice training. I'm still not out at work so I just end up having to go back to the man voice for like 8 hours a day, and I have a bit of a mental breakdown when I hear my own voice so my voice training has been fruitless. On top of that I do have a naturally pretty masculine voice, it doesn't exist in the middle or anything where I just have to make a few adjustments. And the way I talk I think is pretty masculine.

However I finally got myself together and I have a consult for a voice coach this Friday so yeah. Hoping someone can help me with this

Veeeerrry interesting. Yeah I hear a similar thing from other places from my friends. I mean, cis lesbians here are cool too it's just I don't think I'm very seen as a woman so there's just no interest. I need to do voice training lol I'm pretty sure that's seriously hindering me at this point

Lmao who needs cis girls anyway

The only cis girl who has a crush on me is straight 😭🥲

Oh yes part of it is that there are less lesbians however, I have over the past 8 months essentially had 0 interest from lesbians or even bi cis women. A little surprising tbh to me at least, I thought I would be an ideal for bi women

Yeah like I'll say I've done dating on both sides now, and I'm realizing that the competition if you're masc kinda sucks. Like, I was getting a lot of luck by just... Proposing a date, with a location etc, something casual pretty quickly? I picked up the tab etc all the things that are "expected" from a masc presenting person. And it usually went well.

In my experience most men out there basically want me to just come over and suck them off or something. They put in absolutely no effort and a good portion can't even control themselves not to be weird as hell and be overly horny with me. A good half of the messages I get are some version of "I want to fuck you now" which, tbh, is fucking weird!! Like I don't even know you sir!!