Yeah like I'll say I've done dating on both sides now, and I'm realizing that the competition if you're masc kinda sucks. Like, I was getting a lot of luck by just... Proposing a date, with a location etc, something casual pretty quickly? I picked up the tab etc all the things that are "expected" from a masc presenting person. And it usually went well.

In my experience most men out there basically want me to just come over and suck them off or something. They put in absolutely no effort and a good portion can't even control themselves not to be weird as hell and be overly horny with me. A good half of the messages I get are some version of "I want to fuck you now" which, tbh, is fucking weird!! Like I don't even know you sir!!

Climbing gym or regular gym? Bouldering -> very social. Any other gym -> least social thing ever.

If you' re bouldering it's so easy to strike up conversation with people who are working on the same problems as you.

Separately I can't really comment on how you look obviously. I do however think that like, pretty much everyone benefits from trying to dress well in clothes that fit you, keep your hair well kept, trim nails, etc. I see your pronouns so like, I also think, as a woman, looks are less important than general vibe and confidence. Being confident is important. I care more about how a man makes me feel than how they look

Well I'm always interested in women but I've always dated women. Would like to try dating men. Who all seem very interested until they have to do literally any kind of thinking or work... Thing though is I don't accept this as expecting too much, I've done this stuff many times in my life when I was a guy. And it wasn't hard.

That being said I think I exist in a weird spot right now. I think some guys see me really as like a fem boy or something and are acting out some kind of chaser or gay fantasies, and as a result don't want to be seen with me in public. Or my vibe is a bit too masc for them... it's like I can talk to lots of people but nothing ever happens unless I make it happen. No one else is making it happen at all...

Ofc it's very easy to meet other trans women. It's now more difficult with cis women though, something I've noticed. I don't really get that but whatever lol

I been doing that although I pay less. I gotta say I've met a lot of people that way at least In the gym, haven't really met up with them outside of it but I'm always talking to people and and meeting people there

I met my ex on bumble and it was a very strong solid relationship for a long time. We had to break up due to like, irreconcilable differences but that was unfortunate

Idk I get lots of likes and everything but guys literally just won't ask me on a date? I'll say something like "Oh I wanna meet first haha just to know you're not a crazy person and stuff" and they're like "haha yeah ok'" and then never actually plan a fucking date. Like come on.

On the other hand I have met multiple friends on dating apps lol. But that's way less pressure. I did meet a very long term partner on an app too I've had luck with them, I'm just honestly frustrated with how the men are, and how they basically want to fuck and don't want to put any basic legwork in.

Wow I'm actially impressed that even at my older age my parents are able to make me so insecure about my body -.-

No literally it's going to be "Not actively take away trans healthcare" so it's a hostage situation.

I'll be honest as a trans woman I'm pretty nervous for Republicans to take power, as a self interested person. Dems clearly won't do anything to help though and if the supreme court makes some ruling they won't fight it.

Lol it will be ok. I just like picked them up from the airport last night and wore a dress and makeup and stuff and spent all this time getting ready and they just like, idk are being weird and misgendering me. I'm just like ok, maybe I went too far with the dress? It was at my friends recommendation but maybe they just need time

Wweeeeee my parents are visiting weeee I'm getting misgendered constantly weeee they are making weird comments about my body

If you don't know just use gender neutral pronouns, not hard

I listened to it once and idk. Kinda meh but also not really made for me either