There's also the fact that I'm an enby who has emotions and opinions. The patriarchy hates that, it wants us all to be demure, submissive, and inoffensive fetish objects. Women used to be treated the same way, but feminism hasn't really got around to enbies yet so we're still treated like women used to be. So in conclusion: Blahaj hates me for refusing gender roles because they're big sexists