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Uhhh, what the fuck?

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[–] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 14 points 7 months ago (1 children)

This feels pretty understandable. She admits the parts that were unhealthy and explains why. The marriage ended, so obviously they both knew it wasn’t a good relationship for them. The trust wasn’t broken because of the location sharing. It provided an unhealthy outlet. That’s the point of the article.

[–] Wheaties@hexbear.net 9 points 7 months ago

The question is, how does she incorporate this experience into future decision making? GPS isn't going away, so she'll have to learn to trust not knowing some things or this will hang over relationships to come.