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complaining about what pronouns people will assume (might upset some people and I'm sorry for that)
https://hexbear.net/post/3013555Even in queer spaces people won't see what I'm doing and just go that extra little bit
I'm always going to have to explain I want to be she/her'd instead of they/them'd. And there'll be people who only they/them me and not the cis people 
idk guys I'm just sad. It literally will not matter how much work I put in. They're going to know what I'm doing but I am still going to have to tell them.
I'd so much rather people assume I'm a guy now and then assume I'm a woman once I start to transition. I know not everyone feels that way but
anyway... edit: coming back and I just want to be clear that I understand why people do this and I obviously support enbies, this is just about me personally.
Edit2: just took a little girl nap and feel a lot better about the situation. Hope I didn't upset anyone
Having a lot of dark thoughts reading that thread. They/theming people who don't use that pronoun is absolutely misgendering. Even in queer spaces it seems that way, since I never notice the cissies getting it.
I get harassed in public and misgendered in queer spaces. Why do I bother going on if no one respects or cares for me
Finally, someone who gets what I'm saying
I am really sorry you're in a bad place. Wish I had an answer.