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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 8 months ago (4 children)

been feeling extra hungry lately. i heard that's a good sign the fat redistribution is working

[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

If it is, lemme know so I can complain to someone. I’ve barely had any redistribution to date.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

please address all your complaints to Jane Estrogen, inventor of tiddy skittles

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[–] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 15 points 8 months ago

new job is fun i hate it

WHADDYA MEAN I HAVE TO GO TOMORROW TOO????????

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I have an intense urge to be cuddled and worked up the courage to make a dating profile, despite being super nervous about being trans on a dating app.

I instantly match with some guy.

He just sends "Hi", "horny?", then a picture.

Definitely not opening that.

This was a terrible idea, I panic and delete my profile.

Still have not been cuddled.

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[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 15 points 8 months ago

Just confessed to my friend that I have a crush on them!!!! Happy pride eve :#

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (4 children)

move into house with 2 other trans girls

look in fridge

3 jars of pickles

yeah this is a trans girl house

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[–] WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (1 children)

t4t cuddle session whennnn πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

[–] WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (2 children)

God I’m just touchstarved rn

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (3 children)

cw mention of non-vegan substance

spoiler

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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (5 children)

Can a transfeminine person be transmisogyny-exempt? thinking-about-it

I am guessing "no" and that a transfem who hasn't been affected by transmisogyny is simply lucky and still has that specter forever lurking over their shoulder. But I am interested in what other people think.

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[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago

new unjust depths chapter

spoilermeow-knit

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago

i was loudly complaining about how much i hated being cis as young as 14. how the fuck did it take this long for it to click for me

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE trans-ferret trans-hammer-sickle gayroller-2000

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago

Been trying to change how I react to and create narratives around my negative emotions and thoughts. Maybe it will be helpful for people here.

pretty mild dysphoric thoughts, I guessWhen I think "I feel like a man today. This makes me sad, but it must be proof that I'm a man"

Instead, I'm trying to think, "I feel like a man today. This makes me sad. I'm a trans woman experiencing gender dysphoria"

When I think, "Your emotional state is all over the place and changes radically each day. These mood swings are proof that you are mentally ill, and this trans thing is a symptom of your illness"

Instead, I try to think, "Your emotional state is all over the place and changes radically each day. You're processing emotions and working through things that you've ignored for a long time. It will get easier over time"

When I think, "You're only doing this because you think it will fix you and make you happy, but you'll find out later it was all a mistake"

I try to think, "I don't need fixing, and I'm only doing this because it has already, at times, made me happier than I've ever been."

Maybe you could share your own healthy patterns of thought

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