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[–] WoofWoof91@hexbear.net 65 points 1 year ago (2 children)

one of the times where "let people enjoy things" is valid

using it to kill discussion of [thing] because [thing] has become part of your identity, bad

using it because you are minding your own business trying to do [thing] and someone is being obnoxious, good

[–] BeamBrain@hexbear.net 36 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

Reminds me of how fucking weird some people get about it if an adult reads YA books

Like yeah they're for teenagers, I don't read them myself, and I'm going to roll my eyes at anyone who insists they're every bit as deep and meaningful as books written for adults, and you deserve nothing but mockery if they're the lens through which you understand real-life politics, but the way some people talk about it, you'd think a YA book murdered their dog

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 30 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (15 children)

Reminds me of how fucking weird some people get about it if an adult reads YA books

Sometimes there's an explosion of "(well written cartoon that adults happen to also like) is FOR BABIES" brainworms here.

For some, adults are not allowed to like things without sufficient violence and/or sexual violence or IT'S FOR BABIES. galaxy-brain

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[–] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 63 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Listen you might not like the comic but "let people enjoy things" is much less unpleasant sounding than "don't yuck someone's yum" because saying that phrase makes me feel a visceral disgust as it slides out of my throat like a thick ooze

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[–] 2Password2Remember@hexbear.net 53 points 1 year ago (9 children)

anyone whos ever said “sportsball” in earnest is a loser

Death to America

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 43 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I hate sports, but yeah sportsball as a term is exactly the sort of faux-clever lib shit you see when people are talking about Trump as Cheeto Hitler or whatever

Death to America

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[–] SpiderFarmer@hexbear.net 53 points 1 year ago (7 children)

The sports fandom really can be toxic and overbearing. As much as I love some sports, the way it was always expected for me to give a shit about the local football or baseball team was obnoxious. Not to mention the excessive doting on sports, to the point that schools will slash their arts department and lay off teachers so the middling football team there can get more concessions.

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 46 points 1 year ago

One of the most sobering early experiences I had as a teacher was being notified, again, that I had to tighten my belt, again, because of a budget cut that was necessary, again, in the district's newsletter.

The next page over, the same newsletter proudly announced the new stadium being built...

For the amount that the necessary budget cut was for. doomer

[–] Nagarjuna@hexbear.net 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The sports fandom

Love this phrasing

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[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago

My city is currently facing a housing and homelessness crisis and each mayoral candidate keeps promising to build a new stadium without raising taxes because of the constant braying of the sports Fandom.

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[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 49 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Even the maker of the comic made a followup where the "let people enjoy things" thought terminating cliche was dragged out back and shot.

About the only single comic that I can think of that did as much lasting ideological damage to western cultural discourse was "Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory" from Penny Arcade which was used to justify/excuse nazi shit across the nascent internet and also made people assume that everyone was a shitty edgelord the moment they could get away with it, which lowered the bar steeply for how many people expected others to act.

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 46 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Queer coded bad guy, speaking of sports and society enforcing gender norms

[–] ProxyTheAwesome@hexbear.net 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Not even "coded" really, overtly homophobic I would say

People forget the whole "sportsball" meme came about in the first place because before the widespread adoption of nerd culture in the 2010s sports was inescapable and forced on everyone. It's hilarious that sports fans act like victims when they get any light mocking or pushback to their total cultural hegemony and imposition on everyone else. If you were a man and didn't like sports you were mocked as gay (which was seen as socially damaging).

Let people not enjoy things

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[–] thisismyrealname@hexbear.net 46 points 1 year ago (7 children)

sports haters are incredibly annoying and childish. critiques of how athletes are treated and the culture around sports are valid but "haha sporbsball amirite" makes me think you're never interacted with someone outside of the internet

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 60 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Hard disagree on this one. In a vacuum, sports is a hobby like any other, and it's fine, if not my particular cup of tea.

But in practice, it holds a unique position of cultural hegemony, perhaps especially in America, in such a way that it is inextricably bound up with gender, patriarchy, race, labor and capitalism. I personally hate sports because people assume things about me based on what they think my gender is, and use it to police my gender.

[–] BurgerPunk@hexbear.net 47 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (9 children)

this

I have no problem with people enjoying sports. What i have a problem with is people having a problem with me not enjoying sports.

Growing up i was always asked about sports and expected to care about them, enjoy watching them, and have something to say about them. My not caring was an unwelcome deviation from what people expected then, sometimes that necesitated an excuse for why it was okay and i always hated.

I hope its not like that for people growing up today, and we're all just letting people enjoy things. As a kid the things i enjoyed weren't okay and it wasn't okay that i didn't enjoy sports.

Big fucking mood

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[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 35 points 1 year ago (4 children)

American football is blood-chilling to me as a flag-humping bootlicking spectacle of performative allegiance. It's no wonder Nolan used an American football game and all of its symbolic "wholesomeness" as ground zero for his "scary leftist man with bomb" story beat.

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 40 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's an alternate universe where Al Qaeda flew a plane into the Superbowl and America instantly nuked the world in retaliation

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[–] VILenin@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don’t care for sports because I literally cannot comprehend emotionally or intellectually how one enjoys them

Umm sweaty have you considered that you’re stupid and childish? I love enforcing neurotypical normativity and belittling those who deviate from the norm! Why can’t you just be normal?

Sports fanatics are the most sensitive people on the planet and can’t handle others making offhand jokes about their obsession

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[–] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 42 points 1 year ago (20 children)

Fairly obvious that a lot of people's resentment towards sports comes from simply not being good at it in school and getting picked last for the team or whatever. It's like the inverse of people hating on nerds, where it's obvious that they hate nerds because they were never good at math in school.

[–] ProxyTheAwesome@hexbear.net 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (13 children)

I wonder how old people with takes like this are.

If you grew up before 2010 and nerd culture you would realize that liking sports was not optional. You were mocked as gay. You couldn't keep up in small talk with your boss and would get passed over for promotion. It was mandatory to watch sports or you would be stigmatized. There was eventually pushback to that hegemony via the "sportsball" meme and mocking sports for being silly. Everyone seems to have forgotten how oppressive and toxic American sports culture was (and continues to be, schools are still getting gutted to make way for more football shit. Stadiums are still built with slave labor. Now it just makes you a "loser" instead of a "f**" to hate sports but the toxic masculinity underlying it is still there as you can see even in this thread)

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[–] eatmyass@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

My resentment towards sports comes from being good at sports as a kid, so I got a ton of pressure from a bunch of boomer dads, sucking any fun that once existed out of sports for me. I nonetheless kept playing sports until middle school (because I was scared of my dads reaction if I didn’t want to play sports anymore) when the pressure started coming from my peers in addition to my parents and coaches. There was so much pressure on us to be good at sports that kids would thrown tantrums and get in fights if they lost a pickup basketball game. If I wanted to goof off a bit or just not try so hard just playing pickup basketball I’d have a couple of my “friends” start yelling at me giving me shit for trying to have a little fun. The atmosphere around sports was so toxic, I remember the fights and the arguments when some of us made the school basketball team and others didn’t. By 7th grade I had enough of an independent streak (and was sick enough of my “friends”) that I quit baseball tryouts halfway through. My dad didn’t speak to me for like 2 months after that.

I wish I had stuck with sports I really do (and I wish I didn’t quit just to do drugs all day in high school) but when everyone around you is a toxic asshole who sucks all the fun out of it it’s hard to. I like competition, but when you have kids breaking down crying and throwing tantrums when they lose a simple pickup game I think it’s gone too far. Sports culture is extremely sick in the United States and “sportsball” is a cringe term, but sports culture deserves most of the hate it gets.

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[–] CthulhusIntern@hexbear.net 40 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Apparently, the author of this comic has retracted it, views it like an inventor or scientist who sees their creation as gone horribly wrong.

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[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 39 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Sports fans have it so hard! 😞

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 39 points 1 year ago (16 children)

I can't tell you how much growing up as a "guy" in America made me hate sports

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[–] Othello@hexbear.net 35 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (25 children)

https://youtu.be/pQtSdsR1-H8?si=Ut-6O_eyDci1N1jS - "Wealthy people profiting off the physical misery of mostly minorities - what could be more all-American than that?"

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[–] Spike@hexbear.net 34 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ohhh hey, you watchin' some 9/11? How's the stupid 9-

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[–] Chapo_is_Red@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This comic is so cringe it feels like a strawman

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 34 points 1 year ago (2 children)

But what if I enjoy being a hater?

Then people should let you enjoy that

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[–] TawnyFroggy@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Y'all didn't learn from FFX that big sports events give the masses in a shitty world a reason to feel happy and cheer for a bit.

And also a racist soccer player will help kill god.

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[–] ZapataCadabra@hexbear.net 29 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I think the synthesis here is that yes sports are dumb. So is dungeons and dragons. Adults can like dumb things, just acknowledge they are not serious and are for playing around.

[–] Tachanka@hexbear.net 41 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

no this comic is a war crime because people fill in the sportsball speech bubble to make the character criticize their shitty unexamined reactionary treats. For (an extreme) example:

"oh hey, you enjoying blackface cartoons from the 1930s again? That's pretty messed u-"

"shhhh let people enjoy things"

[–] Othello@hexbear.net 35 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

we dont have a system that destroys the bodies of millions of child minorities trying to save themselves from poverty via dnd. no one is getting injuries in their brain that leads to them taking their own lives. theres no history of making slaves play dnd for white peoples entertainment. no local town politics are based around dnd. wizards of the coast doesn't have the American government by the balls. no dnd college player is getting cheated out of millions of dollars their labor earned, while also working minimum wage job to keep the lights on. we smash black children's brains together till its a fine goo that is not playing around.

[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I also struggle to think of any DnD campaigns that caused mass rioting, or a statistically significant annual spike in domestic violence.

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[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 29 points 1 year ago

In theory, yes. In practice, I don't think anyone has ever had their school program defunded so that the school can buy new Dungeons and Dragons books.

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[–] Ilflish@lemm.ee 29 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I watch 0 sports and the terms sportsball makes me angry. To the point I've thought about a gamer equivalent to throw back. Closest I can think of is controllertoy

[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 49 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Just tell them to go play on their Nintendo. They get real mad when you misgender their consoles

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[–] NewAcctWhoDis@hexbear.net 29 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I think the Sealion comic is similarly harmful and annoying, but less prolific.

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 33 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

At the very least it put some buffer up against the freeze-gamer gate popularized bad-faith questioning tactic of saying shit like "um excuse me could you kindly point out one example of (obvious fucking thing that the bad faith questioner refuses to see)? You can not use any sources that I see as woke or having an agenda/narrative. I'll wait." very-intelligent

The most glaring example of that I ever ran into was a freeze-gamer gater that pulled that about proving trump-anguish was a racist. Yes, this was years after the "they're not sending their best" speech.

[–] Zuzak@hexbear.net 27 points 1 year ago (15 children)

"Sealioning" is almost as bad as "whataboutism." I've seen the comic and I still have no idea what it's supposed to mean - is it when you call out racism instead of letting it go unchallenged? And this is presented as a bad thing, for some reason??

You can't just make up words and use them to denounce things that are legit.

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[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 29 points 1 year ago

Liberalism: willingness to respect or accept behaviour or opinions different from one's own; openness to new ideas.

Letting people enjoy things is literally liberalism. After the revolution, everyone will be compelled to enjoy and dislike the things that I, he One True Socialist, enjoy and dislike.

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