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[-] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 44 points 1 week ago

Sissy porn to stud

This…has a story to it.

[-] Poogona@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

These guys really have some deep-seated porn guilt, sometimes expanded into a sort of guilt surrounding masturbating in general. Maybe I'm just a different sort of coombrain but I feel like jorking it (one's peanits to be clear) is a gift to yourself and should not be the center of a self-loathing complex

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

As Hexbear's resident appointed joyless scold, I think that the "NoFap" cult and especially the groyper "power level raising" tactic of consuming violent porn and deliberately denying themselves even the relief of an orgasm has done far more damage to westerners than porn itself has ever done.

Jocelyn Elders was hated by chuds in the 90s and thrown under the bus by billdawg because she spoke the truth.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joycelyn_Elders

[-] Poogona@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I just don't get how these dudes don't die of embarrassment from attaching this level of spiritual significance to cooming. Like I can't help but think these people are simply not prepared to handle reality if they can't even develop a sense of humor around cranking they hogs

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

I nonjokingly tie some of that "NoFap" chud ideology to the chud concept of "wizards" from years back. They tried to rationalize their own frustrations about not getting laid, felt a vague sort of shame about masturbating, and decided to make a creepy and self destructive cult mentality glorifying the one part of human sexuality they had some control over: themselves.

[-] Findom_DeLuise@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

Counterpoint: the hit song "A Wizard's Staff Has a Knob on the End"

[-] WhatDoYouMeanPodcast@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I cannot overstate how much I believe that despite consuming so much bedia regarding how to be alpha, stud, and ruggedly individualistic Americans are weaker, more depressed, and less skillful than their European counterparts. If you are genetically blessed and determined (and likely from a legacy) in a sport that circulates billions of dollars, you'll do better than anyone else, but if you're not aspiring to play basketball or American football then it seems like Americans struggle. They're less educated (see: literate), they're not better martial artists, and they're not better gamers. Even in the ticky tack whatevers like World's Strongest Man Americans aren't a stand out. While they won out in the Olympics, they tied some-controversy for gold medals. Not only in competition, they're less pleasant to be around and they're less capable as roommates.

All this to say that I believe the attitude/culture that leads to nofap has done more harm than porn and given nothing tangible in return. If Americans even had a basic sense of cooperation there'd still be unions and the country might produce something besides MLM schemes, school shooters, and weapons for Israel.

Edit: there is a sense, if I am to understand, that Americans are friendly and sincere when you're in proximity.

[-] Palacegalleryratio@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

Why is that your scale? Why is it so specific? Why is that a scale you would admit to using publicly?

[-] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago

I know that's who the main audience for sissy hypno shit is for, but my mind cannot comprehend what non-trans people even get out of it.

[-] Poogona@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

My completely unresearched theory is that the reason things we fear or which are deeply emotionally fraught for us as individuals can feature prominently in porn is because it's one route of many possible routes towards the end goal of an elevated heart rate to get the fluids moving. Basically anything that gets the blood pumping can work its way into arousal, and for these dudes, getting made into a sissy bimbo against their will probably fits the bill.

Edit: supporting example: guys who feel deeply that your wife is your property and that a proper wife will find only their husband attractive --> fixation on cuckold porn in which your wife has sex with another man and you are forced to watch her fucking a guy who embodies all of your insecurities

(This is all very Freudian I'll admit)

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

A lot of horror movies have horny parts too, probably because blood flow go brrr.

[-] Poogona@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

Arnold in that bodybuilding documentary explaining "it is ze pump, it is like cumming" comes to mind

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

That's why the gymnasium built into the VolCel headquarters has a lot of spray bottles on the walls.

[-] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

is this also why racists like bbc cuckold shit?

[-] Poogona@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago

Lol yes that is the example I added in an edit

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

Maybe some cis people want to expand their horizons under a fantasy of "oh no I am now experiencing something new because I am hypnotized" in a plausibly deniable fantasy way.

[-] Aradina@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 week ago

Masc hypno is new I guess. Good for them

[-] Des@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

while it's rare but maybe (?) becoming more common i think there needs to be trans empowerment hypo

not my thing although i do like asmr hypno but when i was still in "maybe it's a fetish idk" mode i always hated how the sissy stuff was just like "we're going to make you feel ashamed to be a woman"

i kept looking for "you're a woman now and doesn't it feel awesome and cool!? now go be a dommy mommy or goddess or whatever" and it's pretty dry out there

(not shaming forced femme kinks at all they can be very fun. i'm just not into humiliation play)

[-] buh@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

It's a course on how to appreciate different types of porn

[-] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

Who's this even for?

I work with someone who would absolutely fall for this kind of stuff. Pretty sure I'm keeping him from the edge of inceldom

[-] Belly_Beanis@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

Edging your coworkers will probably make HR mad, so you might wanna keep that on the down-low and not post about it online for better OpSec.

[-] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

But doctor, I am HR.

[-] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

How are YOU keeping him from being an incel? Answer carefully volcel-judge

[-] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

When he starts getting a little too close to misogyny I give him shit and make sure to bring it up more than once

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

How come the "Social Skills Masterclass" doesn't have (CW: violence)

spoiler"don't stare at the camera like you've just stabbed someone and are waiting for them to bleed enough to fall unconscious" as part of its curriculum?

[-] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

The "NoFap" cryptofash cult telling on itself again.

[-] BlueMagaChud@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

Is that Adam Jensen? I didn't ask for this

[-] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

sissy porn to stud

They're really pulling stuff right out of left field huh?

[-] Speaker@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago

Behold, the face of a man who has put a lot of thought into his crippling addiction to sissy porn.

Am I hallucinating this?

[-] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago

Is this ABA for incels?

[-] peeonyou@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago

sissy porn to stud -- so its a class on how to like the whole spectrum of men or is it supposed to be a course to graduate from liking sissies to more masculine men?

[-] SpiderFarmer@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago

That hair and beard makes him look like somebody going through a create-a-character screen.

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