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Hi comrades, want to give you all an informal update on the discussions around the site's misogyny problems that've been happening over the last several days. I wanna make sure you know that the admin/mod team has seen all of that discourse and we've been actively discussing solutions in the matrix mod chat. We're taking this shit very seriously and acknowledge that we haven't used a heavy enough hand on misogynistic rhetoric. As some of you saw we nuked that cheating thread from a couple weeks ago and handed out temp bans to the most egregious offenders. Idk how that was allowed to run it's course but we apologize for that oversight. We're going to do better.

We've come up with some ideas for how to improve this part of the site culture and we want to get suggestions from y'all as well, since the alarm was sounded on this by our beautiful c/traa posters to begin with. Our ideas so far include:

  1. A zero-tolerance policy towards any even remotely misogynistic/patriarchal posts or comments, as too much has slipped through the cracks on that, establishing a clear protocol for bans for violating rules against misogyny, and ideally tracking repeat offenders in a way that makes deciding a course of action easy when they reoffend.

  2. Uphold TC69 thought by starting up a book club (and hopefully more to follow) on feminist theory and encouraging mass participation, particularly from the he/him's on the site. "The Will to Change" by bell hooks has been suggested by multiple people as a great starting point but please feel free to suggest any other works.

  3. Relaunching /c/menby with a trusted educated mod team and a specific focus on countering mainstream narratives about masculinity, relationships and sex that breed reactionary, patriarchal attitudes

  4. Encouraging [namely femme] participation in /c/womenby and taking steps to revitalize that sub as an excellent source of discussion on feminism and intersectionality

  5. Holding another mod drive to get more folks into mod positions in our communities who can help weed out reactionary attitudes

  6. Encouraging users to use the report button often on any post that seems even remotely sus, with the promise that no one's going to be punished for "report abuse" for reporting posts in obvious good faith

Please let me know your thoughts on the above or any other ideas you have for making the site better, safer and more inclusive for our femme comrades. Once we've fully hammered out plans and updated policy we plan to make an announcement post highlighting these changes for the whole userbase. Thank you all for being here and being who you are feminism trans-heart

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[โ€“] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 28 points 2 months ago

Thank you to our admins for upholding TC69 thought. rosa-salute leslie-shining

Yaโ€™ll rule.

[โ€“] Ivysaur@hexbear.net 28 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

This is good! I have some thoughts about the wo/menby split which have also been brought up by other nonbinary people in this thread, so I will leave them to speak on that. I only hope we can eventually address other blind spots with similar urgency in what I consider to be one of the only tolerable forums left on the English-speaking net; covid minimization outside of the comm for it is one that particularly infuriates me, overall ableism that is not to do with neurodivergence is another -- but this is one necessary step of many, and I'm happy to see it.

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[โ€“] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 28 points 2 months ago

I'm glad this is getting the attention it should, for a more casual user that thread was easy to miss.

Reminder for everyone to read over the hexbear.net code of conduct.

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[โ€“] D61@hexbear.net 27 points 2 months ago

rat-salute TC69 thought rat-salute-2

[โ€“] aen@hexbear.net 27 points 2 months ago (1 children)

no idea what happened but i'm glad you're taking action, it sounds like something absolutely cringe was posted. i really need to read that book at some point

[โ€“] aen@hexbear.net 26 points 2 months ago

i read the thread, jesus fucking christ

pooh-wtf

[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 26 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Good list of action. Number 1 needs to be adopted sitewide.

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[โ€“] SoyViking@hexbear.net 25 points 2 months ago

Thanks to the mods for taking the problem serious and doing something about it! Thanks to those who pointed out the issue in the first place!

Let's make Hexbear a safe and inclusive space for everyone.

[โ€“] Barx@hexbear.net 24 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I somehow missed the most problematic threads but full support for anti-misogynist action and doing reeducation (reading group).

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[โ€“] red_stapler@hexbear.net 24 points 2 months ago (2 children)

This is awesome and I am totally going to the gulag.

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[โ€“] Yor@hexbear.net 24 points 2 months ago

excellent post and plan going forward heart-sickle

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