In the hospital for my top surgery. Iโll see all you folks on the other side :3
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Are audio cassettes making a comeback? I've bought two new albums recently that had the option of getting them on cassette.
Yes. It's terrible. Sometimes I want a CD and all they've got is a cassette.
Welp, I can no longer get blood tests for my diy my gp doesn't want to do it unless I start the process of trying to get meds the legitimate way, but i'm not willing to suffer through the shitty, extremely transphobic gatekeeper national service to maybe after like 3-4 years get oral or transdermal hrt when it's much more convenient for me to do injection monotherapy and not have to be on an anti-androgen.
Idk what to do, even though it hasn't been hard for me to get my test supressed and stuff I would feel a lot safer if I could just get routine check-ups every few months.
Yup, my GP said the exact same thing.
Trying to figure it out myself.
immaturity
smegma is such a funny word. like smeg as a syllable is already top tier but the ma elevates it
This sounds like something my sister would say
Anyone know any good spaces or accounts that talk about classical tailoring type shit for transfem people, like sports coats, dorky scarves/ascots, non-denim trousers type shit?
Most of what I find just casually searching is heavily geared towards transmasc people instead, and a lot of transfem fashion tends to lean either very feminine alt or harder butch.
oh hey it's my contribution to the site taglines
can i subscribe to your newsletter?
708 notifications... gee whiz
hosting a megathread is very good for inbox related activities
why haven't you cleared them...
because i like when number goes up and i dont have upbears visible
ok... i guess i will allow it
we have the best mods, folks
Since I have to wait on the estrogen to arrive again I was thinking of already taking the bicalutamide I have.
depression
Was trying on writing a thing linking me not enjoying smut because I'm asexual, along with only really snjoying it because i long for companionship. it just kinda turned into me being really sad. Got depressed, had a few panics attacks. Gonna try just going to sleep. Also need to get a new psychiatrist because they last few I've had all sucked and I haven't had someone to talk about my problems (and fail to provide solitions) to for months.
Getting home from work and reading one piece in a miniskirt and heels just because
Next time you could try reading miniskirt and heels* in a one piece just because
*This is just a bit, not an actual reading recommendation
today in adventures in being out at work
guy comes up to me and while i'm pretty used to being called "sir" because of my barely trained voice, this guy called me "sir" before i fucking said a word to him , so I just took a mental deep breath and responded to him in my best femme voice I could muster. I think I could feel that it was at least good enough to put him on his toes because the rest of the interaction was kind of awkward and he never called me a man after
this guy called me "sir"
"I'm not a "Sir"! I work for a living you damn muppet!!"
in your best drill instructor voice
Based, unlimited gender expression warfare on the cis
My dream is to cause such gender awkwardness among them that their reductive and mechanistic conceptions of gender simply shatter :3
Or something lol
I'd really like to simply be gendered properly as a woman by strangers but for the time being it's just going to be unlimited funny looks at my nametag until i can get my voice training down
That's fair ofc
I was joking, but only kind of, and I'm extremely socially inept so wasn't sure how to convey
Personally I used to love when people in my retail jobs called me by the "wrong" gender even if they would usually "correct" themselves lol (I donut want to be forcibly slotted into these social categories) even before I was starting to realize the full scope of what I wanted (I'm still not out to many people :( )
I hope you can get these mfs to gender you properly soon
Sorry
sang St. Vincent to myself in the gym shower after leg day
had a lil' moment getting dressed while achy and exhausted at the lyric "I'm so glad I came but I can't wait to leave" on Dancing With A Ghost
okay. with the encouragement of multiple people, i decided to say something:
pee pee
wait, fuck! no!
Ah who needs girl clothes when you can just listen to shoegaze all day long
All clothes are girl clothes when you're a girl and you're the one wearing them
I fucking love my trans comrades so much
can i please say something
I wouldn't know, they never let me say my X sentence in that regular language I defined, hmpf!~
i am formally giving you permission to say it
This changes everything
Okay, okay I'm gonna say X
I'm gonna say X where X is a sentence in a language defined by the PCRE regular expression "^[^abcdfjklpqruvwxyz]{9} [^a-z0-9][0-9]$
"!!
X
something :3
Now that I have said my X I am giving you permission to say your something :3
I know you can do it, whenever you're ready
cw: previous attempts at something
If it helps, I could formally require you, as part of my permission, to speak only in the languages excluded by the PCRE regexp "^(?!.*pee).*$
" (excludes all languages where the substring "pee" could occur) while you say something but, as you can tell, we have left the safety and comfort of the regular languages behind ;w; but maybe it's necessary
I hope your finite automata have the strength to.... recognize that fact that they can't recognize such languages , or whatever they (I think you will need multiple) will have to be doing now if you accept this
spoiler spoiler
Omg, just realized my X regexp isn't regular either
PCRE is demonic, tricks people into thinking they're using formalisms they aren't actually using
Perl-compatible regular expressions? More like Perl-compatible regularLY DEMONIC expressions!!!!
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ok i did research on linguistics and i think i have a good thing
here we go...
tinkle
I think we should make a tracha-lite (tracha but less chaotic/probably with a spray bottle to keep users like me contained). There's been at least a few people (4~ come to mind) I've seen and talked to who said normal tracha can be overwhelming or intimidating.
I know we talked about that a bit in the tracha mods chat, but figure that tossing the idea here would probably also help it not be drowned out by other chats (might make a post or idk later as well, idk)