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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 36 points 1 month ago (4 children)

after you realized you were trans/gender diverse, how long did it take for you to begin to act on it?

the earliest answer is less than a year? I was doing shit about it after like a week

[–] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That was a hard one for me because the realization was so gradual and it took me years to fully integrate the belief that I was trans into my conscious mind even though it was sitting there

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

i mean, i knew i hated being cis when i was 14. I just very stubbornly refused to do anything about it

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Same, also 14. But I actually did something about it, I shaved my legs, I wore thigh highs, other shit I'm forgetting rn? but I didn't really integrate the belief that I was trans until just these last months.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

sounds nicer than pouring myself a big bowl of Dysphori-O's in the morning and lying to myself that I like it

[–] Comp4@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I think I'm trans, but I don't think I want to do anything about it. I've known for like 10 years, but I was in denial about it for quite a while. I don't have any dysphoria, though.

[–] pooh@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Same for me too. It had been slowly building up for awhile, but once I fully realized, I had to do something quick. I’m relatively old so I can’t afford to wait any longer. I ordered DIY right away and started injecting that magical girl juice weekly.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

yeah within a month i was at the front desk of my local planned parenthood sweating bullets on a 40 degree F day lmao

[–] IzyaKatzmann@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

yeah rock on🀘