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Conversations with total strangers on an app is liberalism. Ask them out in the first like/message.
"Hey, (person name) I really dig your profile, would you like to take a walk in the park or grab a cup of tea sometime?"
It's that easy. No conversations, ever. Like another comrade said, masc presenting/dudes never ask women out. So you will be a refreshing change of pace. You can't tell if you like someone via text anyway. You'll find out within 15 minutes in person. (In my opinion)
Ask out everyone you're interested in at a slow pace. Line up three dates for the weekend. Expect two to cancel.
Don't ask for a date "sometime", give it a time frame like "this week". Short conversations are perfectly fine and lead to more than 1/3rd of your dates showing up.