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listen well this tale of dysphoric(?) woe
According to my friend they were actually cool with me hearing and that I was explicitly invited to join in when the next such Empty Office Sex Salon occurs. But I still can't shake the feeling that I'm different, that me being there just pollutes everything and they'll always view me with some unshakable suspicion and wariness, like a wild animal that could snap and start mauling people.
I honestly don't get too much dysphoria, to the point that I don't even know if this counts?? but this is the feeling that gets me. Can't we just pretend I'm part of the group? I'm not that much different from you on the inside, I promise.
This is actually one of the quickest ways to gender euphoria once you're out. I've met so many inclusive, supportive cis women over the last years, even when i was freshly out and not passing at all. It's mindblowing how much it changes conversations and social interactions and how natural it feels to be included.
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i think the feeling of being excluded from groups of women has been a major source of dysphoria throughout my life. even when i'm physically there, i've also felt that distance which keeps me from being fully apart of it. that's starting to die down lately, i'm out at work and this week someone said "oh it's just the girls here!" which was small but still pretty euphoric to hear. you deserve to feel like you belong and i hope you're able to do that soon or in non-work settingsThere's a woman in my office who makes little gifts for the other women in the office during holidays, and I never get one, and it makes me sad
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