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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Idk if this bra is the wrong size or it’s just supposed to feel this way.

[–] CasualAnalogueAppreciator@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

every bra i had feels like its the wrong size

bras suck

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, it makes my boobs look a little bigger, but it’s kind of uncomfy

[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

comfy-ass bralette 90% of the time, bra for the 10% where i want to make clear that I HAVE TITS

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

I might need to get actually fitted, or try a different style

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It should feel like it's not really there, at least it does for me. You might have to get used to the band (the big thing that clips at your back) squeezing a little. The straps might feel a little weird at first, but you get used to them. You can have a little bit of space in the cups for sure, that's fine. Secret of bras is, if you wear a sister size up your boobs look bigger hee hee hee and it feels mostly the same!

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Mine kept wanting to ride up it felt like

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Straps might be too tight, did you loosen them off? It's easier if someone else does it while you're wearing it btw. My ex used to do it for me, after we broke up I've asked my female friends and sister to tighten em up lol. You can also just tighten or loosen it before you put it on. I always end up being a bit above the loosest setting for it to be comfortable and not falling off my shoulders

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

That helped a bit, but it still moves a bit too much for my liking when I raise my arms and stuff.
Not sure if I’ll stick with it.