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the fuck is this borderline incel shit getting upvotes
I think people are seeing
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about it.
Horseshoe Theory confirmed‽
sorry are you saying that onlyfans is responsible for the state of American dating? That's not true at all. Nobody's dating because dating sucks now that we've eradicated all the third spaces and replaced them with app-based meat markets. They're not abstaining in order to indulge in more thoroughly-commoditized horrors, that's the thing that's driving them away from dating in the first place.
It’s incredible how many people complain about OF. Like yes, there are things to complain about them, but more often than not it’s never from a materialist standpoint. It’s literally just “ALL THESE HIGH SCHOOLERS ARE BECOMING MILLIONAIRES FROM FEET PICS AND NOT WANTING TO DATE MEN OR GO TO COLLEGE.” It’s a mixture of misogyny and a belief in “meritocracy” - that somehow all these models are bajillionaires being fed grapes by simps because they’re all hot and popular
Cam girls have existed forever but for some reason they never got the same cultural impact that only fans has. I remember being young and stumbling upon those cam sites. I scrolled all the way to the bottom and saw dozens of girls (and sometimes guys popped up) with like 0-3 views. Many were quite attractive, others were not - same with the girls who were top models featured on the site.
I hear what you’re saying, but have you considered most men have a disgusting personality and that’s why women are not nice to them?
I didn't realize how low the bar was until I was on a date and she showed me what most of the messages she gets on dating apps are like.
Yeah I went out with a cis bi woman and she was showing me too. Even lots of the trans women were.. surprising 😬😬
The person in my story is Filipino and the blatant mix of sexism and racism in her inbox was fucking nuts. I literally got a date by being the only person who wasn't horny or racist in the first few messages.
I’m curious what these people’s tactics are. Like I’m sure many are genuinely deliberately hateful and want their intention is to cause harm. But then there are people who are genuinely not house trained and think saying something about a woman’s tits or how their brown skin makes them hard is acceptable, with their full face showing lol
This was like 7 years ago now but the amount of people who will just straight up say they have "yellow fever" or who thought "is it true that Asian women [insert wildly racist stereotype]?" Was a good first message blew me away.
I have a Vietnamese friend and she told me that she stopped dating non Asian guys because they keep asking her about Korea and whether she’ll be submissive (I don’t remember if they said that directly, but the general theme was that)