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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 10 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I remember the inevitable "let's go around the room and say our names and pronouns" and feeling locked up cause I boymoded that day... ugh awful. I ended up saying I just wasn't using pronouns even though inside I was screaming "just use she/her pleeeeeaaase." I didn't like the idea of boymode me being so incongrous with what I wanted to be referred to as.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 7 points 4 months ago

I remember the inevitable “let’s go around the room and say our names and pronouns” and feeling locked up cause I boymoded that day

As an egg, I was glad to never be asked my pronouns cause I didn't want to think about that.

When I girlmode and people do the pronoun circle I say they/them usually, but yeah I feel super shitty whenever I get in that situation and I have to lie