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[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 18 points 6 months ago (5 children)

Starting a struggle session to gain speed over the news mega thread was not a good idea

envyI remembered back when I was in primary school my mom never allowed me to take fruits with me to school as a lunch, when I asked her why she said that I'll make other kids feel worse, I didn't understand back then until some kid brought cake with her, I was a kid back then and I liked cake, I wanted cake, I didn't have cake and the kid having cake infront of me reminds me how much I am not having cake, so I hated her for that, but did the kid do anything wrong? did she deserve me hating her? was it the choice of any of us that I didn't have money? was I the only kid there who wanted cake? wasn't there kids too there who wanted my basic lunch? and in the end my hate got me no cake and made her lose no cake.
Now you might say that was envy for wealth inequality, an inherit problem in a capitalist society and whatever else, unlike genetics and beauty, there's a cause you can direct your anger at way easier, but beauty standards and all the "passing" worms are all set by society, and now things you should know envy is that Part of it is ego and hatred, to believe you're deserving of something unlike others that they and you had no choice in picking, you can learn to humble yourself.
Envy will never provide you with what you envy, it will not magically give it to you, and it will not motivate you to have it, it will only trap you in a cycle of always wanting more.
It will only hurt you, you won't be satisfied with what you have and you'll only end up unhappy.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

I have been realizing how much I struggle with envy recently (when before I thought I never did, but have for forever). Envy sucks so much I need to manage it way better the I do. It seeps into everything.

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

I struggle with it too

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago
[–] Yor@hexbear.net 7 points 6 months ago
[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Contrapoints has logged on/j (good post, I just like pretending to be controversial)

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago (2 children)

“Leftist” YouTuber who got “cancelled” for saying stuff like the French Revolution happened because people were envious of the rich and couldn’t suck it up and that’s bad. Also trans btw. https://youtu.be/APe1FLeTXaE

[–] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 1 points 6 months ago

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

VERY Good Post 😊