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[–] nocturnedragonite@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

you don’t have to add that you’re not sexually attracted to them

I'mma ask every person in this thread where she said this because if she didn't outright say this then why are people drawing this conclusion?

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That's the interpretation of a lot of people due to the fact she said she wouldn't hook up with or be fwb with her partner. People (me included) have explained why that is interpreted as expressing you do not feel a sexual attraction to your partner, but instead only consider them due to your established social relationship.

The people I see defending it are arguing that she said "I wouldn't just..." But that's not what she said. That would have been a compliment and it's probably what she meant, but it's not what was said, according to the text.

[–] nocturnedragonite@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

None of these explanations are adequate to me because she literally did not say it, so all of this has somehow become "I don't find you attractive" instead of "I find you attractive and worth more than just a fwb, I'd spend my life with you"

Like you can explain it how a million times but it just wasn't said so it doesn't matter lmao

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

she literally did not say it,

She also literally did not say what you say she said, which is why you keep having to rephrase what was said in order to communicate it.

" I find you attractive and worth more than just a fwb, I'd spend my life with you".

See that's your interpretation, but not actually what she said.

wasn't said so it doesn't matter.

Again of the two of us, I am the only one who actually refers to the text and the only one who accepts the rest is interpretation. This has been explained many times now.
You're either incapable of reading, an idiot or a troll. Either way it's clear you're not acting in good faith

[–] nocturnedragonite@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 2 months ago

See that’s your interpretation, but not actually what she said.

and nigga you keep pulling the same dumbass "she implied he wasn't attractive" out of thin air, and calling me an idiot lmao! sorry for being autistic and taking shit literally, kiss my Black fucking ass dipshit