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[โ€“] queermunist@lemmy.ml 27 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I just read Trans Liberation: Beyond Pink or Blue

And

spoilerI think I'm a masculine woman? Now that I'm a few years into my transition and I'm feeling comfortable in my skin, I realize I kind of like my broad shoulders and husky voice and the muscles I've grown from factory labor. But but I also really like wearing makeup and accessories and being ma'am'd and and my new name and ~stuff.~ I don't necessarily want to be androgynous, but I also don't hate it? It's kinda fun when people get confused.

So, yeah.

I think that's why I took "too long" to stop using the men's restroom. I never felt uncomfortable using a urinal.

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago

same tbhit's something i struggled with for a long time too. like for a long time i felt like being masc was "giving up" transition-wise or something. still trying to figure out exactly where i want to be but i'm hoping to get there eventually

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago

Sometimes i see models that break gender down a bit further than Feinberg does and differentiate between gender role and gender presentation. I like to dress femme, but i also like to act butch, and that works well for how i view my way of doing gender.

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

waow-based Very cool........

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago

Shout out to feeling comfortable in your skin, exploring presentation and having fun wirh it.

i wear makeup and I kept my srrength up, I dress however I want with no real rules. Being agender I spent ages trying to figure out myself and I love being in that void space where I can present however I want.

enjoyed reading and happy for you <3