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A narcissist taking something away and then giving it back is a common manipulative tactic used to control their victim[s] by creating a cycle of dependence & uncertainty. libbing-out

Its in every video about Trump getting thanked by the platform.

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[–] john_brown@hexbear.net 72 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Hi liberals, quick question, who signed the tik tok ban into law?

[–] miz@hexbear.net 64 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

look, who built the cages isn't important. wait, I'm reading from the wrong card.

[–] viva_la_juche@hexbear.net 52 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The thing where libs need to pathologize actions by the state as tho it were their shitty ex doing it is maybe my number one pettiest grievance with them. I can’t fucking stand it lol

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

It's like they utterly refuse to expand their heuristics and insist that reality be compressed down to their level of comprehension

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 44 points 2 weeks ago

It's cool as hell thar liberals have weaponized therapy speak in order attack others, manipulate people and avoid self reflection. It's dressed up ableism and also a more clear cut abuse tactic than what they're trying to pin on Trump here. Also they actually are doing the thing, Trump wasn't part of the taking away as far as I'm aware.

[–] GaveUp@hexbear.net 44 points 2 weeks ago

I hate armchair therapy talk so much

[–] GoodGuyWithACat@hexbear.net 40 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This is the Democratic strategy for abortion rights though.

[–] godlessworm@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago

no they’re fighting really hard to keep them trust me you just don’t know them like i do

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 38 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

i hate that people call anyone they dont like a narcissist

we love demonizing those with mental illnesses, i guess

[–] CthulhusIntern@hexbear.net 24 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

"Empaths vs narcissists" is just Calvinism for people who say they're not religious, they're spiritual. I will not elaborate.

[–] BodyBySisyphus@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

Manicheanism for the new millennium

[–] RedWizard@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, narcissists are villains, and definitely not people suffering from some form of illness who need support and care to cope with that illness. /s

And we should totally use this as a thought terminating cliché, so we can slurp more slop. Instead of reading or thinking.

[–] Taster_Of_Treats@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I mean it's also confirmation bias, right? The narcissist that doesn't abuse you is never identified by their friend/family as suffering from NPD unless they disclose, and why would they with all the stigma?

The only narcissist I'm personally aware that I've met IRL was my abuser.

[–] Voidance@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Everyone is a narcissist except me

[–] ihaveibs@hexbear.net 37 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Hundreds of years later and western ideology is still just "people are just born inherently good or bad therefore we have to make sure the good guys™ win" and they think they are so much fucking smarter and more progressive than everyone else. Fuck you chauvinist white supremacist pigs

[–] miz@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago

new site tagline please

[–] crime@hexbear.net 36 points 2 weeks ago

"A narcissist taking something away and then giving it back is a common manipulative tactic used to control their victim[s] by creating a cycle of dependence & uncertainty." anakin-padme-1

You're talking about the ruling class as a whole, right? anakin-padme-2

anakin-padme-3

anakin-padme-4

[–] TheLepidopterists@hexbear.net 34 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I do think we should retire maybe later kiddo. That video was annoying as hell for sure but they're a relentless advocate for Palestine now and have basically fully dropped the Dems.

[–] Runcible@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I have mixed feelings on this, I don't know how to format this coherently sorry, but I am interested to hear what people think about this.

I think it is pretty reasonable to extend grace to someone who has changed.

At the same time some of this is (like art) something that exists independent of the creator at this point .

I only know anything at all about them because people on this site mention they've changed since that video. That's great, but I also feel that tracking people/posters to determine whether you can reference stuff is not a reasonable behavior in a number of ways.

[–] TheLepidopterists@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

I mean I get it, but it was years ago.

I'd hate to be known for my worst take ever for the rest of my life, personally, this is why it's good to avoid being internet famous I guess.

[–] RedWizard@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I think if were doing the whole solidary thing, we should remove the emoji. Continuing to use the emoji after they have changed is a good way to alienate them, us, or both. One of the tags you can use to search it is 'fascist'.

I say that not because I ever think they'll find this site and discover we have an emoji of their face, but to establish a kind of protocol to ensure we don't repeat offend. I don't know. It just seems like the right move.

And I haven't looked them up to confirm their stance, but I'll take it on faith for now.

[–] Runcible@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Removing the emoji in general and certainly the tag seems reasonable to me. I know the emojis are fun but I think they inherently lend themselves to bad faith communication

[–] Evilsandwichman@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Wait....those aren't just stock photos? Who are those two?

[–] MF_COOM@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago

You don't want to know

[–] godlessworm@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

me and my friend

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

We always have this guy maybe-later-honey

maybe-later-kiddo redemption arc when?

[–] TheLepidopterists@hexbear.net 5 points 2 weeks ago

This one too improve-society

[–] RedWizard@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Huh, I did not know that. We should make a thread in !emoji@hexbear.net. Do you happen to have links to their socials?

[–] iie@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

@TheLepidopterists@hexbear.net I made a thread in emoji@hexbear.net about the maybe-later-kiddo person. https://hexbear.net/post/4313486

If you have their socials you could post them there and I'll edit them into the post

[–] TheLepidopterists@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

I don't personally follow them and didn't have them, but I see you located them.

[–] Assian_Candor@hexbear.net 33 points 2 weeks ago

Who signed the ban fuckers

[–] glimmer_twin@hexbear.net 30 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

npc

Reminds me of those local news affiliates all reading the same shit verbatim

[–] WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

this is extremely dangerous to our tiktokracy :,(

[–] Sulvor@hexbear.net 29 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Folks if you're so dependent on a social media platform (yes hexbear is included) that you think it qualifies for this kind of thing, you gotta log off

[–] godlessworm@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago

people these days are just walking around looking at their screens all the time i mean am i at the gay sex store or is this the dang zombie apocalypse????

[–] invalidusernamelol@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago

Hexbear is down too much for me to be dependent on it

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 24 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Everything in the universe is just like your toxic family members actually

[–] Belly_Beanis@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago

Totally not a cult of personality where liberals have parasocial relationships with politicians. That's North Taiwan Gorge Orbshell 1884 Titanium Triangle!"

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 22 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)
[–] RedWizard@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Square brackets and everything. Its wild.

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Is there some Occam's razor explanation for it that isn't "they all got it from the same place and copy pasted it"

[–] RedWizard@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, I don't think they literally had a meeting. The ideological pool they all wade in is so shallow that the only thing they know how to do is parrot. No analysis, just pure reaction. Also, they love wrapping this stuff up in this therapy, abuse language for some reason. Donald Trump has more material motivation then narcissistic motivations. TikTok was banned under a Democratic administration, and courted the incoming Republican administration to keep their shareholders happy. That's just capitalism.

[–] dannoffs@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago

Taking something away and then saying someone else did is also a common manipulative tactic.

[–] marxisthayaca@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I quit tiktok, I was honestly hoping it’d stay ban and make both parties squirm but profit making is more important than principles (lol). The moment they started doing kissy faces at Trump, it immediately gave me ick. And now they are flagging my favorite booktok account that often recommends leftwing nonfiction. So they probably struck a censorship deal behind the scenes.

Probably will try to touch grass and/or chill in Rednote.

[–] RedWizard@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

They were going to make kissy faces at whoever the incoming administration was. That's capitalism for ya. TikTok was always doing left censorship. They were doing right "censorship" too. Lots of conspiracy floating around. I've decided to start posting stuff I find through here or reddit to my account, since the iron is hot right now.

But taking a break is good too! I know a lot of people are coming to the same conclusion.

[–] marxisthayaca@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

Tortured continuation of the analogy: you are not even offering help to the abused. You are just constantly reminding them how abused they are - including this latest development. Where’s the bat and sugar in the gas tank? Or giving the abused enough money and resources to get away?

[–] phpinjected@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 2 weeks ago

typical brain rot again