Lol this reads like a boomer restaurant yelp review.

Stroke service was terrible never coming back to this starbux

I've had sex with were teenagers

This sentence really feels like it needs some context, also this whole post just feels like an excuse to complain about women based on generalizations.

Just as bad as cishet women so I still end up 99% having to do the chasing/escalating since I'm better at it and more willing to do so. It makes things feel gendered af and so, so dysphoric. I'm at the point where I honestly never want to do it ever again

This is 100% my experience. Like so many cis lesbians see a trans woman and kinda just go into 'lets date a man' mode and its incredibly offputting. I was dating this girl for a month and I was doing all of the dating, all of the contact, and then by the end of the month, she asked if I was OK with fucking her with my hated flesh. No! Then of course, it fizzled immediately. I didn't feel like she was a chaser, but maybe lesbians present it differently. And it wasn't because of my presentation either, I am pretty girly, I don't present as a stud.

Dating trans lesbians was a more equitable experience. I feel like the cis guys I encountered treated me more like I was a woman than the cis lesbians I met unfortunately.

Though at this point I haven't dated in a long ass time. So if you wanted to know how dinosaurs dated now you know.

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i dont have a ton of experience and it's all years-old at this point but no, this hasn't been my experience at all

my briefly-had cis girlfriend bothered to look up transfemme needs and fucked like a goddamn pro, to the point i was even willing to use the hated thing because she just created the context that made the dysphoria non present.

I felt like a fucking woman with her.

t4t is more reliable but im not gonna lie y'all, so many of us have huge issues, and every time i get into another t4t thing i find myself burdened not only with my own flaws but theirs as well, as i begin to suffer with them in their way, and theirs in mine, and more than it hasn't, it just ends in us losing the ability to deal with That Specific Thing We Have Going On and it becomes a point of resentment that our mutual damage is caustic to each other. It happens way more than it should and im exhausted by it

i fucked with men more in my egg phase, but most of them were confidently quite gay, but hormones flipped a switch and im not saying attraction to men never happens, but it's rare enough i just don't actually seriously consider them candidates.

so basically i get these like, transcendent lesbian relations with cis women that dont last very long, or i get caustic t4t, and im not capable of loving the masculine enough to carry a long term relationship so i dont try.

i'm exhausted. im not suited to being alone, but im exhausted.

I mean.... I've never had sex before I transitioned so I can't comment on cis-het women, but I completely disagree that cis lesbians are bad at sex, tho that may be in part because I always make it very clear beforehand that I am not gunna do the thing with the thing(you know, the thing ), especially when compared to cis guys XD I have so many horror stories of cis-het guys giving head that is downright unpleasant, like I'm still in awe of how they fucked it up that bad.

I do agree that having sex with other trans people is generally a better experience for obvious reasons.

Ive had the opposite experience tbh

I've had multiple women flirt with me first (and express explicit interest in kissing/hooking up) and when I escalate to kiss them, they start giggling, pull back, and keep saying how nervous/shy they are.

This is me and I’m married

I don't really date cis people, but this makes it sound more appealing. I need to meet some women who will ask me to kiss them and won't except me to have sex like a man. That would be awesome.