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I don't even really hate video games and I'll play them for like I dunno an hour a month or something but I just don't think the world would be a worse place with out them.

I think I hate gamers though, I wish I could filter them out of my life experience

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[–] 7bicycles@hexbear.net 48 points 1 week ago (16 children)

I'm coming out swinging here.

Movies? Right out, between the distinct fandoms of both American Sniper Part V: Killing Children, the acolytes of Marveslop and guy who's really into french indie cinema to sexually assault women there really is nothing to save there. Get rid of it, I say, what difference does it make?

Books? Pfff, there's the door. A thousand women converted into abusal BDSM play by a badly written fanfic of twilight and you want that shit to go on? You in favour of Steel Storm and My Struggle? Thought not. Fuck books.

Paintings? While Homeland Security is waxing about Kinkade? Statues, as if that's not the #1 signifier for alt right weirdos now? Away it goes!

I think you get the point. To judge a medium by it's worst fans is inane, though. Capital G gamers suck, but so do so many different flavours or fans of other mediums. The problem is not the medium.

[–] Damarcusart@hexbear.net 39 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We need to cancel hobbies until we can figure out just what is going on.

[–] 7bicycles@hexbear.net 38 points 1 week ago (1 children)

hard agree, the most leftist position is your life should be toiling, eating nutripaste and recreating in accordance to the 5 year plan. everything else is counterrevolutionary

[–] corvidenjoyer@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

hard agree, the most leftist position is your life should be toiling, eating nutripaste and recreating in accordance to the 5 year plan. everything else is counterrevolutionary

"Hello you wonderful folks and welcome back to Rimworld. Today we will be recreating the Red Army-" speech-rsus-soviet

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Love games, hate G*mers, simple as.

[–] ephemeral@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

counterpoint: games are also bad, because they are developed by, you guessed it, gamers

(don't take this too seriously, I know there are some good games out there)

[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago

Good games like LoL and bad games like deltarune

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

devs aren't gamers they don't have time to play games

[–] invo_rt@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago
[–] 7bicycles@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

Fine, correct, even!

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 11 points 1 week ago

Sturgeon's law is pretty relevant.

For those unfamiliar, it's "90% of everything is crap". For any medium, or any genre in any medium, most of it is crap. sometimes this can lead to people thinking an older medium or genre is better, but really it's just had more time to accumulate hits.

[–] Sulvy@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

You had me writing an angry reply to this before I finished lol

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[–] Comrade_Mushroom@hexbear.net 41 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

When I was a kid, I didn't have meaningful connections with any other people. My family was terrible, and despite really trying to fit in at school, it wasn't ever an environment I could settle into. The friends I did make were pretty abusive, and not just verbally. It wasn't until adulthood that I found even a couple of people who I could genuinely call "good friends".

When online gaming was becoming a thing, that was the first avenue through which I was able to make genuine connections with other people. Of course there's still plenty of jerks online, but being in an environment where everyone around me automatically shared at least one interest, and because in that environment we were expected to work together to accomplish a set of goals, it made it a lot easier for me to make personal connections. To this day I have very deep relationships with some of those people.

So, for me, I can confidently say the world would be significantly worse without video games. Even aside from the general relief of escapism that they provide.

[–] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 32 points 1 week ago (1 children)

youre-laughing You're laughing, srubhut is openly calling for gamercide and you're laughing joker-gaming

[–] happybadger@hexbear.net 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

First they came for gamers, and I did not speak up for I was watching anime.

[–] SkingradGuard@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

We'll come for your waifus too!

[–] AdmiralDoohickey@hexbear.net 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I beg everyone that has this take, just play anything other than multiplayer slop and open-world checklist simulators and don't listen to the average slop consumer gamer. There are games that are excellent toys, games that are excellent art (typically not in the same way as a good movie or book, but interactivity can elevate even simpler stories if done properly) or even a combination of the two.

Not sure if you will even care though, I suspect you are one of those boring types who has no interests and just wants to talk about who fucked who and about the last place you traveled to on repeat.

[–] dead@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago

I don't think it's correct to blame video games for the world being shit. The popularity of videos games is due to the world being shit, not the other way around. Video games exist as a form of escapism. If the world were less shit, people would play less video games.

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

downbear

imagine any other art requiring an internet connection and then being unusable when the servers turned off

[–] Cimbazarov@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I think games have two functions: genuine entertainment and escaping alienation. I had the realization maybe a year ago that my main motivation for playing games has been the latter, and I'd speculate that alot of other people are like that as well. I just don't find games entertaining anymore.

Our society is held together by ductape and treats (treatler )

[–] Damarcusart@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

I had the realization maybe a year ago that my main motivation for playing games has been the latter, and I'd speculate that a lot of other people are like that as well.

People in this position are also desperate for connection, and as such are targeted for recruitment by fascist groups. Capital G Gamers aren't the cause, they're a symptom of the larger problem of alienation under capital.

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[–] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

They already are its just the horrible slow death under capital, along with near everything else you love and hate. the-deserter

[–] axont@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

I just want more games with good writing, or games that have genuinely educational value on the level of a Ken Loach directed movie. I like silly fun shoot em up games as much as anyone else but I could probably count less than ten or twenty games I've ever played that gave me genuine emotional movement. And I have over 1200 games in my steam account.

And I don't think I'm being pompous when I say that, because I do like and respect games and think they often are masterpieces on the level of an important novel or movie or something. I think maybe a limiting factor with games is that unlike a novel or movie or painting, they don't have to say much of anything, or mean anything, and they still function as interactive little escapes (sometimes).

Maybe one of y'all can recommend something for me? For reference here's some examples of games I've played that I've felt have had genuine artistic/emotional merit:

  • Sable
  • Outer Wilds
  • Silent Hill 2
  • Some of the Suikoden games
  • Heaven's Vault
  • Disco Elysium (I know it's been said to death by now but this game is a towering achievement in terms of game writing and I really don't feel like anything else comes close)
[–] GnastyGnuts@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

I strongly endorse both Psychonauts games. They both go on sale regularly too, and have GOG releases. Psychonauts 1 is a ps2-era game that has aged pretty well overall, and Psychonauts 2 is in my personal top 3 favorite games of all time, and one of the closest I've played to a "perfect" game.

[–] 7bicycles@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

I agree with your points but I think the problem is even with games that have good writing (and music and art direction and all the other bits and bobs that make up a video game) they often fall flat because the interactivity is not woven into them. RDR2 is just genuinely a well written western which is even more impressive considering it has to rank up there as one of the longest western storys ever told if you exclude something like a dime store novel named "Cowboy Kidd" that has been issued weekly since 1962. RDR2 would work just as well as a book, or a TV series or a movie or three. All the interactable parts are fun, but they're also mostly separate from the writing and everything else barring some minor set dressing and the video game obligatory 2 endings depending on your ratio of puppy kicked vs. money donated

Disco Elysium for example doesn't work outside of its medium. I mean there's enough in there you could make a TV series out of it, or a book or pretty much anything and it'd still hold up but it'd lose a really core part of the experience because the interactivity is woven into the fabric. Your choices matter and the world reacts to it.

So here's my suggestions as per videogames that would not work half as good if made into another medium. I'll attach spoilers to it, but I'd recommend not clicking on them because it probably ruins a lot of what makes them good

  • Metro 2033
    spoilerMetro 2033 has a mostly hidden morality system in there that determines if you get a certain, important choice at the ending. I think the beauty of it and why it only works in a videogame is that it does not present you "Kick the puppy vs. save the puppy" choices, you get morality points for listening, being aware, perceiving the Metro and not killing people. None of which is really signposted at all and was a major criticism of the game because "How was I supposed to know I should perceive the world and try to understand it instead of killing everything I see"

CONTROL

spoilerThe Main story is whatever, but there's a lot of good writing in the lore and the setting. Also the games alludes to you, the actual, real life person, as being an unknown entity to the people within the game which is cool and doesn't really work outside of interactive mediums

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[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

I love games and that's why I hope there's another crash

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Its just a medium. No one gets mad at the paint for being an advertisement or a photograph for being vulgar.

[–] GnastyGnuts@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

I want the game industry to die (because it is contemptible in every way), but I love video-games themselves.

[–] ProfessorOwl_PhD@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

There's something about hyperconsumerist fandoms like Disney or potter adults and the way gaming developed around hyperconsumerism, starting with the arcades, to make a fandom around the entire media, not just specific franchises, but I'm tired and halfway through a joint so someone else is going to have to put together the pieces.

[–] RedSailsFan@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

reiterating my comment from a couple days ago:

where's the movement to save games but kills Gamers? now that's a movement i could get behind!

[–] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

Gaming is the only artform that hasn't reached anywhere close to its potential and has entire genres that are actively harmful to people (gacha trash that preys on gambling addictions, H-games where you r-word lolis). The world would be better off if we just delete every single game in existence and start over once we have global communism. Call it games 2.0.

[–] Ithorian@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

Video games have literally saved my life more then once. Several times when I've been in a really bad mental spot I've managed to bury myself so deep in a game (The witcher and RDR2) that by the time i finished my brain had had a chance to calm enough and i was able to keep pushing through life.

[–] Goblinmancer@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Kill League Of Legends

Kill COD

Kill Fornite

Kill Valorant

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Honestly? Same.

All I care about is any possible way, no matter how small, to make chuds miserable.

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