this post was submitted on 04 Mar 2024
74 points (100.0% liked)

Main

15768 readers
585 users here now

THE MAIN RULE: ALL TEXT POSTS MUST CONTAIN "MAIN" OR BE ENTIRELY IMAGES (INLINE OR EMOJI)

(Temporary moratorium on main rule to encourage more posting on main. We reserve the right to arbitrarily enforce it whenever we wish and the right to strike this line and enforce mainposting with zero notification to the users because its funny)

A hexbear.net commainity. Main sure to subscribe to other communities as well. Your feed will become the Lion's Main!

Good comrades mainly sort posts by hot and comments by new!


gun-unity State-by-state guide on maintaining firearm ownership

guaido Domain guide on mutual aid and foodbank resources

smoker-on-the-balcony Tips for looking at financials of non-profits (How to donate amainly)

frothingfash Community-sourced megapost on the main media sources to radicalize libs and chuds with

just-a-theory An Amainzing Organizing Story

feminism Main Source for Feminism for Babies

data-revolutionary Maintaining OpSec / Data Spring Cleaning guide


ussr-cry Remain up to date on what time is it in Moscow

founded 4 years ago
MODERATORS
 

and instead called them "pardner"

(I thought this was an important enough thought to post on main.)

all 37 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 24 points 8 months ago (3 children)

what if

instead of pistols at sundown

we kissed?

πŸ‘‰ πŸ‘ˆ

[–] Owl@hexbear.net 19 points 8 months ago

kisstles at sundown

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago
[–] blight@hexbear.net 17 points 8 months ago

all in favor shout β€œyeehaw” brace-cowboy

[–] GinAndJuche@hexbear.net 15 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Shootout at the bukkake corral

[–] Futterbinger@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Whoa there feller! You'll skeet your eye out with that thing!

[–] GinAndJuche@hexbear.net 17 points 8 months ago

β€œWe’re gooners, in a world that don’t want us no more.” – Dutch-oven van der Linde

[–] LeZero@hexbear.net 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] GinAndJuche@hexbear.net 2 points 8 months ago

The assfucking of Jesse James by the cummer Robert Ford

[–] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 15 points 8 months ago

Yee, and furthermore, HAW

[–] newmou@hexbear.net 15 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Although there is something to be said about the defanged passion of the term partner. And not that husband or girlfriend or whatever innately implies passion, but rather I think we need a new word that gets us closer to one another, or several others. Something in between lover (which feels very transient) and partner (which feels very technical) β€” let us invoke Dionysus

[–] DayOfDoom@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago (2 children)

There are lovers and there are haters. That's it.

[–] DayOfDoom@hexbear.net 12 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Unfortunately I have a hater wife.

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 8 points 8 months ago

very sad but big if true.

[–] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I cringe a bunch if someone refers to their partner as "lover". Idk why

[–] Philosoraptor@hexbear.net 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

It has a kind of wealthy-Victorian-playboy-on-the-fringes-of-polite-society air to it.

[–] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 1 points 8 months ago

I see it a lot in the kink community I guess

[–] SSJ2Marx@hexbear.net 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] newmou@hexbear.net 1 points 8 months ago

Too descriptive; it becomes impersonal

[–] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] FuckyWucky@hexbear.net 9 points 8 months ago

What if we started calling our lovers "panthers"

[–] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 6 points 8 months ago

People really don't do enough moseying

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Move to Michigan if you like tongue tapping t's so much!

[–] alexandra_kollontai@hexbear.net 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

where the fuck did your Dirt_ go

are you telling me there were two owls on the site the whole time?

[–] Thordros@hexbear.net 3 points 8 months ago

Oh no. Nobody tell her how many there actually are.

[–] rootsbreadandmakka@hexbear.net 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

tbh I've never like the term "partner." I know it's supposed to be sort of gender neutral, but it always sounds so corporate and lacking in intimacy whenever someone says it. I'd much prefer if we used "lover." Much more beautiful of a term.

[–] NewLeaf@hexbear.net 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Same. I understand the need for a gender neutral word, but the world we are trying to build is based on love, passion and art. I don't want brutalism to permeate the language when nicer, more thoughtful words exist that people won't object to.

It almost feels like a solution looking for a problem in the way that someone identified the fact that "husband" and "wife" can be problematic, but instead went towards the clinical instead of the soulful

[–] Mokey@hexbear.net 3 points 8 months ago

No honey im not getting drunk at the bar, im at the saloon

[–] Parsani@hexbear.net 2 points 8 months ago

I wish I could call someone any of these things.

Does anyone care for spiced lamb shanks? Well, at this point during the soak, my lov-ah and I usually crave spiced meats. We always order them up special for the Welshly Arms Kitchen, and keep them here in this igloo cooler.

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 1 points 8 months ago

This must be an Anglo thing because we just say boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife