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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago

I'm going to miss EVERY PRIDE MARCH in my city this year because of traveling. God damn it!!! And there's three of them!!!

[–] pixelghost@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Trying to reconcile my nonbinary dyke charm with the embarassing gender envy I feel when I see an athletic man in techy sportswear enjoying a perceived sense of freedom.

I probably just need to buy a binder and work my issues out at the gym, honestly.

[–] GunslingerSky@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago

Clothes shopping is getting me very frustrated. I'm tall enough for an xl but because I'm lankey even the large would be baggy on me so nothing is close to fitting

[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Scared to shop for women's clothing 😬 But, like, wow, it's better in every imaginable way

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Time for some online shopping!

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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago

Been seeing some very upsetting news lately shared on trans subreddits without content warnings or spoilers. There really aren't any safe spaces on reddit-logo

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

going to set a very ambitious goal and try and go out in public femme for the first time at the end of the month at my local pride event. will i be clocked? almost certainly but it's a pride event, who is going to be shocked to see a trans woman there?

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Laser tomorrow ❀️

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago

Bbg getting lazer eyes

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[–] milk_thief@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

More! Trans! Space! Pirates!

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

Good girl? No, I'm pretty bad at being a girl, unfortunately. I'm very new at this

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

must stop drinking. must lose weight. need to be carryable by future wife

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

start of 2024: "yeah i'm totally cis"

me right now: taking my spiro washed down with a pink monster energy wearing pajamas i got from that place next to victoria's secret

[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (8 children)

Now that sounds like a dreadful combination. What flavor is that? Pink lemonade or something?

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[–] EcoMaowist@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (4 children)

I've haven't been feeling good the past few days, but I did my shaving and eyeliner, along with some new clothes and I'm feeling pretty damn good. I should also have my Estradiol injections next week, so I'm looking forward to that! 😁

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[–] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago

Starting a D&D campaign soon that’s GMed by a trans woman I met recently who’s super cool

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago (4 children)

Well, didn't end up saying anything about it this week like I meant to.

negativity about being trans?I wish I could just forget about this whole thing, but it's constant now. Following me around. I wish I was in a different environment.

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)

New game: auDHD or Trans? Read something like genderdysphoria.fyi and try and figure out if the examples you relate to are because of auDHD or because you are trans.

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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Has anyone here used the internal family systems model for CBT?

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[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago
[–] Deinonychus@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Are there any diets or workouts i can do to look more feminine without hrt? Also happy pride!

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

Stereotypically, feminine and masculine body types differ in the shoulder to hip ratio. Mascs will generally have comparatively broader shoulders whereas femmes will have wider hips.

A lot of this comes down to your body structures, and you can't change too much through workouts alone; however, you're better off focusing on leg, thigh, and butt workouts if you want to emphasize femininity. You'll also want to stop doing workouts that would grow your shoulder muscles significantly.

You could also search for calisthenic workouts. Many of them are coached by women and target specific body parts. You can find one who has a body type you like and work on those exercises.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

Last post in the mega

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

oversharing my emotions instead of getting a therapist

kiryu-pain you never had a crush on her. that emotion was the most wildly unchecked gender envy you could have possibly felt, and you were far, far too emotionally stunted to understand that. you tried dating her instead because it was the closest thing to being her that you could get and she just wasn't interested in you, and frankly, you weren't terribly interested in dating her either. you desperately wanted to be her and never had the words to understand that

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

Is wearing short shorts with tights underneath still acceptable or was that like a 2010s fad?

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