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Cardiac arrest, also known as Sudden Cardiac Arrest, is when the heart stops beating suddenly. The lack of blood flow to the brain and other organs can cause a person to lose consciousness, become disabled or die if not treated immediately.

The terms ‘heart attack’ and ‘cardiac arrest’ are often used interchangeably, but these are two different heart conditions.

A heart attack occurs when there is a blockage in the arteries that stops blood flow in the heart. Due to the lack of blood and oxygen flowing in the heart, the heart muscle tissue will become damaged. Heart attacks can increase the risk for cardiac arrest because heart attacks can alter electrical signals in the heart.

CPR – or Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation – is an emergency lifesaving procedure performed when the heart stops beating. Immediate CPR can double or triple chances of survival after cardiac arrest.

If someone experiences cardiac arrest, they need immediate treatment to increase the flow of oxygen-rich blood to their organs. CPR is the compression over the chest to manually pump a patients heart. Rescue breaths are preformed to provide oxygen to the body.

During CPR, proper hand placement on the lower half of the sternum is crucial. Placing hands over the sternum ensures effective chest compressions directly above the heart, optimizing blood circulation throughout the body.

According to the American Heart Association (AHA), the overall survival rate for out-of-hospital cardiac arrest is around 10%. However, survival rates can be improved if bystander CPR is started immediately. Studies have shown that bystander CPR increases the chances of survival for someone experiencing cardiac arrest. In fact, the AHA reports that survival rates increases to 40% or higher when bystander CPR is performed promptly. The surival rate is between 24% and 40% for those that happen in the hospital, according to the report published online in the Emergency Medicine Journal.

CPR is preformed between 100 - 120 beats per minute. Famously Staying Alive by the Bee Gees is the same beat. A large list of songs with the correct BPM can be found here


cure-for-fascism The American Red Cross gives the following list of steps to asses if CPR is needed and how to preform:

1 CHECK the scene for safety, form an initial impression and use personal protective equipment (PPE)

2 If the person appears unresponsive, CHECK for responsiveness, breathing, life-threatening bleeding or other life-threatening conditions using shout-tap-shout

3 If the person does not respond and is not breathing or only gasping, CALL 9-1-1 and get equipment, or tell someone to do so

4 Kneel beside the person. Place the person on their back on a firm, flat surface

5 The American Red Cross CPR guidelines recommend 100 to 120 chest compressions per minute, 30 at a time. Remember these five points:

Hand position: Two hands centered on the chest

Body position: Shoulders directly over hands; elbows locked

Compression depth: At least 2 inches

Rate of compressions: 100 to 120 per minute

Allow chest to return to normal position after each compression

6

Give 2 breaths

Open the airway to a past-neutral position using the head-tilt/chin-lift technique Pinch the nose shut, take a normal breath, and make complete seal over the person’s mouth with your mouth. Ensure each breath lasts about 1 second and makes the chest rise; allow air to exit before giving the next breath Note: If the 1st breath does not cause the chest to rise, retilt the head and ensure a proper seal before giving the 2nd breath If the 2nd breath does not make the chest rise, an object may be blocking the airway

7 Continue giving sets of 30 chest compressions and 2 breaths. Use an AED as soon as one is available! Minimize interruptions to chest compressions to less than 10 seconds.

Video instructions

Sources:

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/cardiac-arrest

https://cpr.heart.org/en/resources/cpr-facts-and-stats

https://www.mycprcertificationonline.com/blog/cpr-success-rate

Instructional images from the AHS Basic Life Support Manual (2020)

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[–] comrade_rain@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (7 children)

Second laser session on my face this morning. Burning hair is dysphoria leaving the body!

Also a question. I don't have a lot of body hair to begin with. Will the hormones pretty much wipe out my nipple and stomach hair? The laser clinic is running a deal right now and I can get both of those done for 35 bucks a month (for like three years of payments).

Considering that's like two packs of cigarettes and I'm trying to quit smoking anyway, I'm seriously considering it. But if the estrogen is going to take care of it likely then I figure I should save my money.

Curious though what have other people's experiences been with body hair?

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[–] Lenins_Cat_Reincarnated@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Before I got long covid I wished I could be at multiple places at once, now I just wish I could be at places 🥲

Been trying to go to trans support groups but every time I’m too tired to leave the house & meet people

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[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Okay, so what's the process for getting on E and anti-androgens in amerikkka?

I see planned parenthood has gender affirming therapy appointments. Do I just go in there and tell them I want the girl juice?

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago

Depends on if you are doing informed consent or not. I think planned parenthood does informed consent tho, so yeah make an appointment and explain to the therapist/counselor that youre trans, what you want from transition ^^

If its not informed consent youll need a diagnosis, which is really frustrating.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Sometimes I’ll see a pair of characters in an anime or show and be like “lol they look so short next to the other” anya-heh
But then I realize it’s like half the height difference between me and my gf distress

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

polycule that travels coast to coast from seattle to new york, adding and removing partners along the way

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[–] Bat@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

dreams, drugs, and suicide mentionHad an awful vivid nightmare last night. I was back in college and staying late on campus for some lab thing when news broke that the US and China declared war on each other and that nuclear strikes were on their way. I sprinted home and was trying to get my car to start so I could go find my sister but it wouldn’t start. I then just kind of wandered out into the streets and found this old man standing by himself. We had a brief conversation and I gave him a hug then the nukes fell. It all felt so real and I like accepted my mortality and that this was the end

Not this exact dream but this scenario of nuclear war is a reoccurring nightmare for me and it all ways feels so vivid and real. I have a couple other really bad vivid reoccurring ones like one where I kill myself and another where I’m attacked and eaten by roaches.

I’ve heard people say that weed gets rid of dreams but I smoke as often as I have money to do so and I still get awful vivid dreams

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I came out to the first time to a person outside of Hexbear. She's also a trans leftist, and an online gaming friend. I had this massive pit in my chest, but she is super supportive (which should have been obvious to expect, but I have bad anxiety).

So, I am happy, and I hope that it keeps getting easier.

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[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Put my insurance information into PP, and I saw they use your chosen name, and not your legal one.

I dunno why but that hit was the bit I needed to turn the nervousness into excitement. I can't fuckin wait to start HRT! <3

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (4 children)

girl jeans :)

tfw no pockets kiryu-dame-da-ne

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (4 children)

This site needs another purge. leslie-shining

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Thanks to all the nerds on hexbear (particularly @BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net ) I am playing Minecraft Java again, really really, for the first time in almost ten years.

What's a shield? Why is there is dopey sword icon under my crosshair?

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (3 children)

How bad is it to not do laser every month?
Would it be the end of the world if I waited 2 months for this next one?

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

an asteroid will hit the earth if you skip a month

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (12 children)

I just heard that adults are responsible for self-regulating all their emotions? Yeah right. It can't be true. It can't be true. It can'

Edit: I'm confused, because self-regulating sounds a lot like never bothering anyone with your silly emotions. But it's toxic to be codependent and share your problems with people?

I need some crayons or something. I'm confusing myself

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Kittenposting 🐈‍⬛❗🥷

Tactical espionage action

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (4 children)

Seeing the doctor this week, gonna find out if switching from 12.5 mg cypro every day to 12.5mg every other day is still working

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Growing up, my mom would say she couldn't wait to embarass me at my wedding - after I did some cringe little kid shit. It mortified me. Jokes on her, never got married and never will at this rate sucker ha ha

Shed also, in exacerbated moments, wish that I would have a child just like me. Well, she made it sound so unappealing and having kids was the wrong decision for my parents so- I don't have any and likely never will lol

I guess for her generation and before, it was impossible to conceive of yourself as NOT married and NOT a parent after 30 but for me and my friends and their friends, the weirdos are the ones who married and had kids. I think I have 1 friend who did both. I have a friend who was married and divorced (never remarried), so that's something too I guess.

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (5 children)

funny how i think of myself as being into men and yet so far none of the masculine men on the dating apps have interested me blocky-wat

guess it's time to question my sexuality again...

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago

To be fair, cis men DO A LOT to make cishet women question if men are really worth it

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (5 children)

trauma/abuseI have been talking with my two closest friends about some of my childhood. They both think my parents were abusive.

I don't know how to process this. I have been in fight or flight for the last like, day. I didn't eat yesterday. Got like three hours of sleep at 7am. I have cried so much. After finally telling someone some of what I remember its just... so sad. They loved me... but still did things I have had trouble getting over since. I have wondered for a while. I knew it was wrong, I knew it made me feel awful, and scared, and many other things... but it felt normal. I blame(d) myself.

I feel sad. Numb. Broken. I feel/have felt for a long time that what I dealt with was not enough to be legitimate. I'm still denying it a little bit. I guess always feeling on edge/a bit scared around dad makes sense with this framework though...

spoiler self harm I am fighting the urges. My brain is convinced this would be easier to deal with if I did it. I am keeping myself from doing it only because I feel like other people would say its bad. ::: Thank you for reading. I am feeling a lot and I don't know how to deal with it. Advice is welcome, I'm not ready to talk about details though so please don't ask.

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[–] Philosoraptor@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Analyze the situation. If necessary, start

Compressions. Check the

Airway and also manage

Breathing.

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

death to the amerikkkan medical system fr. the process of trying to get a diagnosis for my fatigue issues so that i can have accommodations for them is so overwhelming and frustrating (and i'm so, so sick and tired of being told that it's psychosomatic. if it is, well my mental health improving over the past few months has done nothing to get rid of it)

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (11 children)

The RETRVN of horrifyingly weird trauma processing and sexposting!!!

I cannot express adequately the magnitude of my fucking disdain for the fact that pretty much everything sex related is going to be a trial, for the rest of my life. I'm also really incredibly bitter and salty that it's all because my ex from when I was literally 15 was more interested in using me as a sex toy than having a partner omori-neutral and so now I'm saddled with a very high chance to freak the fuck out if I try anything remotely spicy.

Uuuuuuugh fuck why why why aubrey-rage-cry

I'm really envious of people who and and do just do stuff, like engage with kink naturally (this is important because most people don't feel compelled to do fuckin research) and enjoy it, instead of even a "test the waters" type thing being a huge daylong highly emotional ordeal. I hate this so passionately, it would be cool if I could just do the neat thing! the space! but my neurotype also seems to be sabotaging me because emotional dysregulation really does not help either. Literally cannot even just chill and vibe anymore (I guess I never could lmao) because of shitty snobby bratty MIC failchildren, what the fuck.

They will pay for this, all of them badeline-rage

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago

made some tofu scramble and toast for dinner and now I'm going to unwind with some tea and painkiller (the FPS game) comfy

also I am on day 3 of quitting alcohol and so far it's been fine but I have a slight headache and I really hope it's not a sign that I am actually going to have withdrawals stress

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago

I'm sick and my girlfriend went to sleep before me. Someone call the police.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (4 children)
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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

legend of korra got me working out again. result tbh

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (6 children)

surgery recoveryDay 2 FFS recovery! So far, so good. Only breathing, eating and drinking through your mouth is quite challenging, but so far manageable. Never been more tired in my life, sleeping approximately 20 hrs a day. Speaking is challenging after being intubated for anesthesia for multiple hours.

Painkillers they prescribed me are making this not too bad thus far. Tis a long game of recovery though.

Hit me up if you have any questions! Might be slow replying due to sleeping.

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[–] Ivysaur@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (11 children)

This is stupid as fuck and I need to talk about this or I’m going to almost certainly be overthinking it all night.

heterophobia?I had a long and pleasant conversation with a guy and one of his friends tonight that went sour pretty quickly and I’m not really even sure what just happened. He was very charming all night and his friend (also a woman) was very nice. Somehow the topic of sexuality came up and we were playfully saying things like “I like tacos and cucumbers equally”, just dumb stuff like that. I was teasing him a little because he said he “didn’t like hotdogs”, to which I cheekily said “free your mind of its shackles, young padawan. there is no spoon.”

He starts going off about how he must just be different because he doesn’t “force his opinions on anyone else” and after thinking he was also still just joking around, I said, “fine, fine I’ll quit bullying you, for now”

He was completely serious! He went on about how I “give people like me (a bisexual woman) a bad name” (???) and by this point I was completely done with the conversation. I was taken aback that he was being so serious about this and told him “you must not be very confident if this is all it takes to get you riled up”, checked out and left immediately.

Listen, like I said, I know this is dumb as hell, but was I actually in the wrong? I thought I was just being a little teasing, nothing serious, but apparently I was “shoving my opinions on everyone else.”

Trans mega, was I a jerk? Or is this guy a weirdo?

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

oh god the jehovah's witnesses are about

i am very much not interested in a home bible study, thanks

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (7 children)

dysphoriaI really need to work harder on transitioning, I think that's a lot of my problem. There's so much to change and it feels like little has. I am really hoping to push myself to take more steps this next week.

I try not to think about it much, but I really wish I had better irl support. My therapist does not understand the importance of transition to me or the impact my other issues cause me. He wants to chalk everything up to my avpd and that I don't try hard enough, basically.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (13 children)

Oof, I'm doin autism. Getting into the comfort-groove of watching half hour videos on Game Boy Pokemon glitches...

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