Didn't have a chance to write up a detailed post, either on a fruit or the topic I was originally thinking about. I think they're neat and they taste good.
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Wtf that was kind of a shitty thing to say, trans people are more at risk than cis people. Your friend has some work to do and has gotta stop seeing you as a dude-lite. You're a woman
It's weird because there's a few different layers to it. I am very much still dudely from an outside perspective (effeminate in some ways, and I have had the rare malefail once or twice in the past couple of months, but nevertheless 99% cis passing), so ostensibly the uber driver is not going to creep on me in that way. And I have put my friend in an unenviable position where she can't treat me like a girl publicly because I'm not out to everyone else.
But I also know I tend to allow deprioritization of me and my feelings for the sake of maintaining the vibes and not imposing on others