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[-] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 26 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

i've been really feeling myself recently in terms of my physical appearance. bridget-pride

i feel like i've hit a point where the dysphoria days are so much less frequent, and i've really hit my stride in terms of confidence in that department. like, i don't care about passing so not gonna bring that into the equation but damn i'm hot lol

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

I am actually so glad to see more people say "I don't care about passing", very based niko-wonderous Love hearing that my comrades are happy and confident and shirking cisnornativity!!! Lfg!!!!

[-] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

yeag, i know what it's like to be stuck in the opposite mindset and i empathise so much but I do think its an attitude that we should encourage and try to proliferate. i also acknowledge it's easier for me than a lot of folks because i am very much not a binary trans woman just a total gender gremlin who leans futch tomboy

[-] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Same same, legit everyone would be happier if cisnormativity were not weighing down on them constantly =) Which is also a societal thing to some extent of course, but you can shift your mindset in a lot of ways that help.

Proliferating the Destruction of Cisnormativity rat-salute-2

(Also the bit you added about being a "total gender gremlin who leans futch tomboy" is so real waow)

[-] magi@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago

attitude that we should encourage and try to proliferate

Agreed!

it was definitely easier when the binaries crumpled and evaporated for myself. Especially when you see how much of it is societal labelling. Putting everything and anything into little restrictive bullshit boxes just didn't fit me personally. It was very freeing.
I've always been a void goblin, just took a long time to realise but so glad when I did

[-] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago
[-] magi@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago
[-] magi@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

It's nice to see this sentiment taking form with others

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