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It still sucks to get misgendered obviously, but who passes first and in what contexts is even more of a dice roll.
Also, if you present as the gender you want to be perceived as, it might help. Although you already pass right now, you posted about it before, so there's that too.
GOOD comment
Some drunk dude drinking lean in the dead of night thinking Iām cute enough to hit on I would hardly call passing
Can't really help you with denial or ignoring the vast majority of what I said, but aight