Having top surgery 1 week from now, I'm very nervous but excited !!!
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depressing
the state government here are pulling a terf island and pausing puberty blockers from being prescribed through the public system for under 18's
since there was literally already a review done last year (that found kids were in no way being coerced into hormone treatment but instead that wait lists were way too fucking long - at 577 days for some patients), i'm guessing this is just an excuse to defer to the Cass review. i kinda guessed something like this would happen soon but shit's really making me want to
Going on a date on thursday, I'm so nervous🙈🙈🙈 First time I've been asked out by someone I met IRL, although he most likely doesn't know I'm trans, so I'm not excited for that conversation😖 Idk what to expect😫
Clothes are fun. They should be free for trans people for the first few years of transition.
I somehow drummed up the courage to get fitted for a bra at a local boutique. Holy actual fuck what am I doing? I'm terrified.
Have you gone yet?
i've made 5 or 6 attempts to write a post now so i'll just keep it simple:
GAY
I wish there was HRT that made you less wide
Tbh, I wish HRT worked the way it does in something like Trials in Tainted Space.
Where it’s like a delicious candy and it rapidly alters your bones and muscles and can turn you completely cis if you overdose.
Bit idea: when a cis guy talks about having a vasectomy, refer to it as bottom surgery.
venting about transphobia
It’s fucked up and annoying how people who as recently as a couple years ago were hardcore anti-feminists (and probably still are, but just aren’t as vocal about it) suddenly spouting TERF talking points and pretending they give a shit about “protecting women”
::: spoiler need some advice (cw institutional transphobia)
Just saw something from a person saying they went to renew their expired passport and werr told that they could not be issued a passport, under any gender marker, because they updated their marker with social security.
Ive done that, and have a passport thats still valid for a couple more months now. Am I facing a de facto travel ban? I think i am, but im really unsure.
The woke left doesn't want you to know this but you can just make your own gender and make a flag only you use and be sick as hell
discussions of transphobia
how to tell a cis person that trans people should be allowed to compete in sports because sports are arbitrary competitions they've attached excessive weight to and they should get over it
All I have playing in my head is, what am I supposed to do.
I feel like crying but I can't.
Are my nipples supposed to feel kinda sore on week 2 of the good shit or am I placeboing nipple tenderness?
So like how do you best come out to someone (when dating)? How early in the process? Like I'm semi-stealth it seems, so idk how to go about it😩
I’d probably do it early instead of potentially wasting time and getting attached to someone it might not workout with.
Plus if they are inclined to take it badly, they might read you waiting so long as a way to “manipulate” them.
Yeah I think that's the best course of action. The first date is tomorrow so in any case I'll see how that goes before deciding on anything. I just hate that I even have to think about and deal with situations such as these😭😭😭
Hell yeah, my new clothes unexpectedly arrived just now after waiting for almost a month. Nice quality, look amazing and I got them for a really good price:
Some fancy white jeans with a big floral print
and a translucent, black shirt that I can nicely combo with a spaghetti-top
So fucking happy with both of them.
I started doing voice training exercises, and it feels really good and I’m already seeing changes and I’m crying a bunch.
Does anyone have tips for not having to keep stopping to yawn?
Gotta do my transplaining gender presentation for nursing students again but I'm so sleepy, finished a night shift only had 4 hours of sleep 😴
uhhhmuhmuhmuhhmuhmhhm >~<
Got an appointment for orthopedic for my broken hand
Uninsured lol
This is gonna fucking suck
dysphoria
(boymoded for the appointment before this and X-rays)
(Nurses assistant) "Any medication changes? Are you still taking.... estrace and spironolactone? (??)"
(spaghetti floods the exam table)
fuckkkkkk that was awkward
She was really nice about everything but ahhhh
I looked like absolute dog shit and my voice was all hoarse and gravely from smoking a lot and screaming when I broke it and fuck
Probably the most masc I've looked/sounded in ages and it's the one time I get directly clocked lmao
I gotta work on voice training
Otherwise I'm just gonna have to go for "futch tomboy Dr. Girlfriend"
spoiler
I wanna frot with a trans guy. I wanna measure up week by week as he's taking T and I'm taking E, see when he inevitably gets bigger than me 🤤🥵
More men should show me their soft bellies with their little treasure trails
They would if they weren't cowards
I haven't come out to anyone about being agender which is weird because I like being agender. But I absolutely hate having to come out. I've still barely told anyone I'm pan, and I've never done that sober.
And I'd like to say my friends will all be supportive and loving but I'm not sure that's true.
Hello trans mega friends, I think you’re all very cool and I’m glad that you’re here.
I've been thinking about what name to call myself. I have one name in mind that I really like, but it's literally my birthname with two letters added. And I don't know how to feel about that. And while it sounds good in most of the languages I speak, it sounds like it was ripped out of some fantasy novel in english, because that's the only context where I have heard the english translation of that name being used.
I don’t think I could’ve ever been comfortable with the feminine version of my deadname. I would’ve constantly had the feeling of getting deadnamed even when they get it correct.
Instead, I got both my first and middle name from Greek mythology, which could pass as fantasy novels, I guess.
I did get measured today fora bra after work. It was terrifying, but I did manage to do it. I now have a definitive bra size and I love it and hate it. 38I/40H. I didn’t expect that large of a cup size. Kind of gave my mind rest so I don’t have to worry about them being too small. Also, I will never buy another bra under $70.
I was terrified and nervous, but the shopkeeper did an excellent job taking care of me. I’m shocked I was able to do it. Maybe things are turning around. I hope so.
Thinking about wearing something like this to my sister’s wedding.
Top:
Bottom:
Idk about fashion
Hello darlings. Every day my life is made better through my connection to you wonderful, dear people. Thank you for helping me become my best self and for teaching me to be a better person. This is the best place on the internet and I love you all 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
looking through my old discord DMs, I can pinpoint the moment my egg cracked drunkenly venting to a friend about my gender with a margin of error of about 15 minutes