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Hi everybody! My schedule has been really unforgiving, so I may or may not end up writing something and making changes to the post later in the week.

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

purposefully putting the Greek Yoghurt lid on a Turkish Yoghurt jar. If an international incident happens you know who to blame.

anya-heh

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

you just invented cyprus yoghurt

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

throwing the cyber yoghurts at the cybertruck to see if it bricks or catches fire first

[–] WhoaSlowDownMaurice@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I was told Three Houses was a wonderfully queer game but there's only like 3 M/M options and none of them really appeal to me kitty-birthday-sad

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

sided with edelgard and ended up romancing the goth archer lady in my playthrough shrug-outta-hecks

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago

Marry your goddess-headmate who went dormant for years while you were busy waging war against her cult.

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I was told Three Houses was a wonderfully queer game

Hilarious someone would say this considering all the people up in arms about Claude being heterosexual when the game came out.

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I played though both Crimson Flower, Silver Snow, and a portion of Golden Deer thinking Claude was bi before realizing that he was not yea

Edit: I lied, I think it took longer

It's me, I'm one of the people up in arms

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

discussion of open source stuffthe biggest hurdle to widespread adoption of most open-source things is that a lot of open-source things fucking suck. like you're never going to get a large movement from discord to matrix while matrix is fucking terrible for example

linux is never going to become the normie choice until installing stuff doesn't require googling and copy pasting shit into the command line

[–] cyber_godqueen@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

cw drugsdo i smell like weed. is that how other ppl smell me. well, is it

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 20 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I keep putting off buying clothes cause I have no idea what will work with my body type. I'm terrified of, once again, buying stuff that don't look good on me and just wasting a ton of money.

dysphoriaJust yet another reminder that I didn't have a proper childhood so this would come to me at least somewhat easily.

And with that, I can feel my PMS on the horizon, which it is. This one isn't going to be fun :\

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Thrift stores are really helpful during this period!

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There's the standard trans girl dress code. Belted dresses, waist high skirts, fluffy sweaters, it's pretty femme though if that's not your thing. I mostly wear sweats and a tank top at home unless Im just nude home alone lol, at work I'm in scrubs and if I'm out doing chores it's basically pants and a t shirt. I do love wearing dresses when the season allows!

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

music ~~monday~~ ~~tuesday~~ wednesday

what are you listening to? tell me or face my wrath maduro-katana-1maduro-katana-2

[–] retrozombi@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Right now Portishead's album "Dummy"

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

that is top tier, pairs well with Sneaker Pimps

[–] retrozombi@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago

takes notes

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[–] shallot@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I have also been listening to you take nothing a bunch lately, including yesterday morning.

And I’ve had the light that dwells in rotten wood by falls of rauros on heavy repeat (Thanks @LocalOaf@hexbear.net!)

I’ve been itching to listen to lubomyr melnyk’s illirion again, which I highly recommend, so I’m going to put that on today and probably listen to it a few times in a row.

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

oh i love falls of rauros! speaking of black metal, i've been listening to a lot of wayfarer lately. old-west inspired, i like them

also cobalt, they didn't quite make it onto my 5x5

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I had to get my birth certificate updated (so I could get the right gender on it). A month later the red tape reduction office sent me an email that they'd be sending me another email shortly with details, that one came and I have to pay a fuckin fee. They said I could pay online or go to a registry office, I figured fine I'll pay online. Except I had to send the red tape reduction service an email to access the online payment portal and they had THE GALL to auto reply that they were busy and to expect a proper reply in 2 to 3 business days

Whyyyy

[–] naom3@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

Can you feel the red tape being reduced?

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

A new razor blade really does make a difference. Doesn't hurt to shave nearly as much.

(I still really need to start laser though, there's a section on my neck that just doesn't shave off πŸ˜–)

i still have some visible hairs that i don't know how to colour correct but a few rounds of laser makes shaving so much easier

[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago

"I don't care enough to keep trying to fix this," she said before continuing to try and troubleshoot why her game mods weren't working for another hour.

spoilerThey're still not working lt-dbyf-dubois

[–] Bat@hexbear.net 19 points 2 days ago

spoilerslept for 17 hours, still tired agony-wholesome

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 33 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Huh. I'm realizing that if I were to die tomorrow, I'd actually have a problem with that. I think this may the the first time I've been able to honestly say that. Neat

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 3 points 2 days ago

mm self love is the greatest feeling I am so happy to hear you want to be here!

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 20 points 2 days ago (4 children)

My university closed their transition closet :(

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[–] TheGenderWitch@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago

im fucking screaming i have to get estrogen and a fuckin therapist soon its so fucking hard to do myself.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Really nervous about the clothes I bought online.
We couldn’t find anything good at the store so idk how well they will fit me.

I’ve never bought a woman’s dress shirt before and I keep just seeing in my head a picture from when I wore a men’s dress shirt before I got on hrt that I hated how I looked in and I’m scared it will look like that or worse. madeline-scared

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 2 days ago (3 children)

this is what I ended up buying

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago

love this skirt!!!

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 22 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Couldn’t find a skirt but I found this sickass Sonic mug

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago

Teleconferenced into my first meeting of a trans support group. It was mainly talking with a provider at a regional gender clinic for the process on getting care and approval for surgical treatment, so unfortunately didn't do any icebreakers or really "meet" anyone. I need to go in person at some point, but it's an hour drive.

There's an in-person group this weekend however, which is only a 15 minute drive so I am excited for that.

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