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I’ll start:

Idaho - when people think “racism in the United States” their minds go to the Deep South. The Deep South is absolutely pretty bad, and there’s of course the whole history with the confederacy so it makes sense that’s what we think of, but Idaho is let off the hook way too much given that it’s a hotbed of Nazis and Christian nationalists trying to form a white ethnostate. Idaho needs to be more closely linked to virulent racism like the Deep South currently is. And tbh I’ve been to the Deep South, I like it down there, it’s actually pretty diverse in many areas, if I had to live there it wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world. You couldn’t pay me to set foot in Idaho.

Gen X - look, if we’re gonna do generational warfare gen x needs a lot more hate. Sorry to any xers out there but boomers have been punching bags for a while, millenials are starting to get a good amount of hate, and they’ve always been made fun of for their Harry Potter and office love, tbh a lot of millennial shit is just considered cringe these days, gen z obviously gets all the “ugh what’s wrong with the youth” hate and this new media cycle has them being portrayed as pretty much the new hitler youth. Gen x needs to start getting some more hate, especially now with all these weird gen x venture capitalists influencing the trump admin trying to realize their vision of a neo fascist network state

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[–] Sulv@hexbear.net 13 points 23 hours ago

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cereal1 oh boy another struggle session

Everyone is being nice

cereal2

[–] PKMKII@hexbear.net 9 points 23 hours ago

Paul Volcker. When it comes to the architects of the neoliberal era, everyone talks about Hayek and Greenspan and Thatcher and Reagan. But no one mentions Volcker despite the man literally having the weaponizing of interest rates to break unions and the spending power of the working class named after him, the eponymous Volcker Shock.

[–] Comrade_Mushroom@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

if we’re gonna do generational warfare

what if we don't

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[–] chungusamonugs@hexbear.net 83 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Ads. They're everywhere and they're all awful. Google deserves even more hate for doing that spat last year to try and prevent ad blockers. Don't invest 500 billion into streaming video over the internet if you don't want people to block your shit ass ads for Alex Jones pills and quacky pseudoscience, idiots.

[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 48 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I seriously a culture of ad destruction should be created.

There are millions of people with anticapitalist leanings now. Yeah they might not be full blown communists but they're against this shit enough to take small actions they know they won't be caught for. Get millions of people actively destroying ads whenever they have the opportunity to and it'll form a small stepping stone to doing more radical things.

[–] Comrade_Mushroom@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It's so unbelievably egregious. I remember hanging out at my dad's and he was watchin' some football game, and I was aghast at how much time was taken up by ads. I remember asking him "How do people stand having so much of what they're trying to watch pushed aside for ads?" Not to mention how many ads there are on the screen all over the stadium, the graphics, the announcers' scripts, etc.

[–] MidnightPocket@hexbear.net 31 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

FUCK ADS ALL MY HOMIES HATE ADS

[–] trinicorn@hexbear.net 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

the sheer number of people I know that still use chrome despite me telling them that chrome is the reason their adblocker doesn't work as well and doesn't work at all on youtube blows my mind. They care enough to use an adblocker but then the most intrusive ads (long video ads, midrolls, etc.) they just shrug.

And thats not to mention the huge number of people that just don't block any ads. Ads are literally spyware in addition to being annoying, but apparently that's fine

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[–] GnastyGnuts@hexbear.net 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Any entertainment I watch online with ad-blockers, so whenever I visit my family and they have the TV on I'm blown away by how constant the ads have gotten, like how short the segments of the actual shows are relative to the frequency and length of the ad-breaks between them. I don't know how they put up with it in general.

If I could even be bothered to remember what was advertised I would go out of my way not to buy it.

[–] fox@hexbear.net 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ads aren't there to convince you to buy something. Ads are meant to place subconscious familiarity with a brand so the next time you're shopping for a product you haven't bought before, you're subconsciously biased towards the brand that wormed into your brain through ads.

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago

I remember learning that Disney Channel used to push specials about fish and ocean life before Finding Nemo was revealed so that potential viewers would already have a more positive reception to the film when it was released.

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[–] boiledfrog@hexbear.net 6 points 23 hours ago

The whole culinary fancy pantsy trend really drives me up the wall

[–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Someone mentioned Belgium earlier in this thread, so I'm going to go a step farther and say the Netherlands. Yes, the cycling infrastructure is the best in the world and a decade ahead of every other country. Yes, the train system is pretty damn great with most lines getting at least 2 trains an hour. However, the Dutch seem to be remarkably proud of their colonial history, almost as much as the Brits according to this article. It's still a neoliberal country and is the home of Shell Oil. The country also has a sprawl problem-I would call it bike sprawl-where much of the country is rowhouses and the transport seems designed around bikes and cars. This is still steps ahead of most other countries but the Dutch seem to be somewhat allergic to building more dense neighborhoods. The local bus service is also somewhat lacking, with less frequent service than in comparable countries depending on where you are. Oh also the dutch "language" is a joke.

The only reason why the Dutch like bikes is because it allows them to be rude with less separation between them and their target.

[–] Gorillatactics@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The Dutch character is a horrible combination of arrogance and smol bean syndrome.

[–] Lemister@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

smol bean? Not really. More like thinking they reason incarnate and would force their own 12 year old to pay for the meal they ate during a family gathering in a restaurant.

[–] AstroStelar@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Seconding this as a Dutch person, especially on the "allergic to dense development" part

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[–] Chapo_is_Red@hexbear.net 69 points 1 day ago (11 children)

Cars. Even on this site cars don't get enough hate.

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[–] Alaskaball@hexbear.net 44 points 1 day ago (24 children)

LED headlights on cars and LED lights in general.

Salary pay.

Forced overtime. I don't give a shit I'm getting paid more.

Calling mayonnaise aioli.

Charging additional money for your food because you call your mayonnaise aioli or any other bullshit fancy words to exotisize your dish.

The Korean War for inflicting Korean army stew (Budae Jjigae) and other culinary disasters upon the Korean people.

Alcohol in mouthwash when we were younger

Houses who's house numbers are hard to see from the street while driving before the advent of our Google overlords releasing maps.

Calvinists and any of their ideological descendants.

Lawn maintenance

Dust build up on surfaces in homes.

Mosquitoes

The fourth earl of sandwich for making sandwiches etymologically synonymous with his title. God damn English noblility.

Immanuel Kant

Potholes in the road

Americanized Chinese food.

Fucking yum yum sauce.

A lack of actual ethnic foods from around the world in the U.S across the U.S.

The Sweds for the abomination of subjecting mackerels to being tinned in cans with tomato sauce.

Cities where its businesses and public centers do not have bathrooms for the public, like Seattle.

[–] CloutAtlas@hexbear.net 6 points 22 hours ago

Just the LED headlights

What about the rest of the car? Terrible invention. Ruins planets.

[–] roux@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] TraschcanOfIdeology@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

If you want me to give your "aioli" any respect, then it better be: vegan (no eggs or any other kind of binding agent), so garlicky it makes me vampire-proof, and made with pungent and spicy southern Spanish oil.

Fuck off with your runny, shitty mayo.

[–] CloutAtlas@hexbear.net 6 points 22 hours ago

One singular time. That's how often I've seen a restaurant have both Alioli (Spanish, vegan) and Aioli (French, not vegan), and the pretentious font and italics the menu used made it difficult to see, and 98% of people would have assumed it was a typo anyway.

I personally blame the French for adding eggs to Spanish alioli and taking out the first L.

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[–] duderium@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

We’ve all noticed the r-word making a comeback but even terms like “lame,” "dumb," and "stupid" are ableist and should not be used. Colonial terms like “looting” and “thugs” and “savage” always piss me off. Using the word "dark" to refer to anything negative is obviously not okay.

I can’t stand when people use “child” or “childish” as an insult. No one is easier to radicalize than kids. And it’s not because they’re ignorant or underdeveloped, it’s because they haven’t been propagandized into loving capitalism. Even relatively wealthy kids get very little out of capitalism. Kids are addicted to video games because they have no other control over their lives and are desperate for any kind of escape from this hellhole. Video games provide a world where work actually results in obvious achievements, while the vast majority of humanity is trapped in a world of endless toil with all the results and benefits going to a tiny minority.

It drives me crazy when people say your brain isn’t fully developed until you’re 25. Bruh our brains never stop changing.

Body-shaming when we all know that beauty is a social construct.

[–] Lemister@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

The r-word never left. The 2000s and early 2010s was famed for the slur-comedy/south park/jeffrey star humor. Its like 5-6 years max and not even that because 2014 was the start of the SWJ cringe compilation era.

[–] thelastaxolotl@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Im going to say crackers since no one has said it before

Also daylight savings time, AMLO banning that is the best thing he did with no negatives

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[–] acab_means_cop_Dva@hexbear.net 49 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

CW: Animal abuse

Cosmetic Dog/pet tail docking. It's cruel, unnecessary, and frankly when these rich white people at the dog shows start talking about "breed standards" you have to wonder what they are really projecting there.

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 53 points 1 day ago (7 children)

tbh the gen xers I've met are just are reactionary as the average boomer, they just have this veneer of "I'm just a laid back cool dude, man :)" where they'll say the same reactionary shit as boomers but instead of being sincere about it and getting worked up the way boomers do, they'll suffix it with "but I'm just joking man :) or am I? :))) don't be so serious bro :))))))))))"

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[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 33 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Oh, I forgot to mention what I think deserves more hate.

Cringe compilations. For some reason they've come back in the spotlight. I thought they died in the 2010s but I guess Trump winning has made people nostalgic for 2016.

Anti-woke shit deserves to be made fun of more too, as does general right-wing self seriousness.

Ableism seems to recently have gotten really fucking out of hand too. I feel like people in general have become way shittier towards anything out of step with the capitalist status quo. I feel like that whole desperation to be normal and fit in deserves to be mocked, rather than the current trend of hating on people for being "special" which in itself reeks of ableism

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Canada.

We're trying so hard to be like the USA but we already have meagre healthcare and a couple labour laws that people really don't want to give up. I'd bet money that a proportional amount of people compared to the States is racist, sexist, and all the phobics. This country was built on slavery and unending genocide too and people here act like we're so much better. Fake ass oil company country

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

Animal exploitation

[–] Horse@lemmygrad.ml 23 points 1 day ago

streamers
cape shit
putting too much sauce on things
marketers
putting things in bicycle lanes
american cinema in general
belgium

[–] Tomorrow_Farewell@hexbear.net 31 points 1 day ago
[–] someone@hexbear.net 45 points 1 day ago (12 children)

Firefly, for three reasons.

One, the "heroic" war veteran crew were basically US civil war Confederates.

Two, Whedon's sexpest behaviour during production.

Three, it cemented Whedonistic dialog into pop culture.

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[–] kittin@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sándwiches that are too big to take a reasonable bit

[–] ryepunk@hexbear.net 6 points 23 hours ago

Agreed I love a nice little bit of meat, cheese and a few veggies slop your favorite sauces and you're done. None of this weird making a sandwich bigger than my head business, life isnt Scooby-Doo.

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