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Made this one somewhat last minute, but here goes- my reccomendations for this week are a yuri "mystery" VN that's near and dear to my heart (that goes into processing grief) though it's been a while since I last played it, and a cute and sloppy (not bad sloppy) manga about crossdressing (and if you ask me is honestly at least kinda genderfuckery).

I figured I'd also add BonnieBugsy's "Ranma Lazuli" fanfic series (available on Ao3) to make it a triple feature because why the hell not. The two fics I can recommend (not having completed the other large fic yet though I'm sure it would deserve equal recommendation) are pretty near and dear to me as well.

CONTENT WARNINGSSeaBed: processing grief Handsome Girl and Crossdressing Boy: some chapters, particularly the extras, can be particularly suggestive/R18+ Ranma Lazuli: for the two fanfics specifically I'm discussing, "Skies of Blue, Red Roses Too" covers dysphoria and abusive family circumstances, with the premise of the titular Ranma escaping these and finding a place where she can be and grow into herself. "I of the Storm," in contrast, deals with the abusive and unhealthy dynamics of that "place where nothing ever gets better" from the perspective of someone still living within it- Akane- who herself, also has to deal with her anger and the consequences of (being a victim, but also perpetrator of) abuse, apathy, and past mistakes, while moving past that environment herself.

Premise and things I liked about (SeaBed)Sachiko and Takako were childhood friends and lovers, but unknown circumstances tore them apart. Now they have to piece together the puzzle, as Sachiko keeps hallucinating about Takako, and Takako deals with memory issues of her own.

Personally, Seabed can come across as a bit of a slog (but in a good way- and in a way appropriate to the themes of grief, of mental processing and memory issues, etc). And it can be very heavy. I played it during a time when I was dealing with grief among other things myself and I loved it- I intend to play it again someday (ideally soon), but needless to say it won't be for everyone.

Premise and things I liked about (Handsome Girl and Crossdressing Boy)Admittedly, this is just comfy, queer (IMO), somewhat suggestive (YMMV, if it were just up to me I'd not even consider it NSFW but it's definitely toeing a line and considering cultural and even circumstantial differences of different online spaces- well yea) and sappy light-hearted romance. Iori is a crossdressing boy(? very eggy if you ask me), and Hazuki is a handsome girl. Needless to say gender is a fuck.

The extra chapters (generally noticeable as something like "chapter 23.5" instead of being an outright "chapter 23" for instance) can be even moreso questionably/maybe "NSFW/18+" (though if you ask me that's all "western puritanism and backwardness/regressiveness" which they then infected many other parts of the world with)

Premise and things I liked about (BonnieBugsy's 'Ranma Lazuli' fanfic series)The two "Ranma Lazuli" fics I can recommend (the others I either haven't read yet or are very short) are both what I would describe as "coming of age/graduation(?)" plots, wherein Ranma moves from her abusive, overwhelming, demanding upbringing to the welcoming and progressive Beach City from Steven Universe (no knowledge of either series is necessary IMO to enjoy these fics, that said) and is finally able to develop within such a healthier environment, and Akane comes to terms with and breaks free of the fallout and that unhealthy environment in her own way, in her own separate life.

Both fics, I feel, correlate with my own defining experiences on many levels- whether it be Ranma's growth and the liberating feeling of finding a positive, comfy space and escaping the small, shitty, abusive world she was raised in prior, or in Akane's own growth and rejection of that same small world, as well as the permanence of one's actions having come from and having been a part of what made that world so small and unhealthy to begin with, and growing past that and coming to terms with it.


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[โ€“] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

i don't know why i find it so hard to post here (or anywhere?), maybe imposter syndrome or something. i really do want to though - there's so much shit i want to yap about - so i'll try not to think about it so seriously

literally me everytime (Welcome to Dorley Hall spoilers)

and thanks for the rec @XiaCobolt@hexbear.net! i'm halfway through book 2 and so insanely dorleypilled

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Does anybody else overuse the watch later feature on youtube? I add a lot of videos I don't have time to watch from my subscriptions and recommended. It's sort of a compulsion, like I have to add it or otherwise I'll forget about it even if it's a video I don't care that much about. Then I spend too much of my free time watching from my watch later list.

But I'm getting better at it, and lately I try not to add videos from my subscriptions and a lot of the time I have no videos on my watch later list. I can watch YouTube more normally now and have more time for movies and TV shows.

If this sounds weird, it's because it is, but I'm still proud of myself.

[โ€“] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 7 points 4 weeks ago

Excellent mega topic and all of these are things I need to check out trans-heart

[โ€“] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago

rambling

spoiler___ my brain feels like it's broken . I keep reading articles from therapy service websites just to make myself more angry. more than 3 years of therapy yet I feel worse. I don't even want suggestions from mental health 'professionals' since I know it's the same bullshit Abt 'loving your body'.

[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 7 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

Chat, what do I do? My dad sent me a three minute voicemail and I'm scared to open it, what if it's just him yelling at me? doggirl-cry But I don't want to miss it if it's something nice

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 4 weeks ago

I obviously take big issue with mirrors but seeing my hair down on my shoulders is really nice.

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

I'm cursed that whenever I hear someone's name is Nina, I start singing "the Nina, the pinta, the Santa Maria" and then the rest of the lyrics from Sleep Now In the Fire by RATM until the guitar kicks in.

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[โ€“] DogGirl@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago

Looked at the site outside the trans mega and immediately remembered by why I left, this shit ain't helping me. See y'all, wish y'all luck

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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I'm finally early for once. terminally-online

dunno how I still manage to forget to take my meds some days - got three friggin' alarms named like "Take Your Meds," "Make Sure You Took Your Meds," and "REALLY MAKE SURE YOU TOOK YOUR MEDS" in the morning and ya girl still manages to forget and sit around wondering why kit feels awful all fuckin day

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (2 children)

Ever since I've been tracking my dreams, there's a bunch of recurring themes or scenarios and most of em make sense. I still have a lot of dreams about my ex, no surprises we were together a long time. I have a lot of dreams about my teeth falling out which is apparently pretty common. I have to build stuff a lot, a house, a shed, a church. Whatever. I have work dreams where I'm nursing.

One I wasn't expecting was I apparently have to evade law enforcement quite often and I do it by transforming into different animals. Sometimes the "crime" is just being able to shape change. Sometimes I'm accused of something I didn't do. Once I did do the thing but I felt morally justified even if the act was illegal. Anyway, I would've had no idea my subconscious is apparently really hung up on turning into different animals and getting chased by the cops

And it's not like cool animals, it's like earthworm, flies, tree snake, moles, crow, albatross you know stuff that'd let you hide or fly away

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Tree snakes are cool animals :kitty-cri:

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[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 4 weeks ago

Ceridwen and Taliesin-coded dreams, just make sure you don't become a grain and you should be okay.

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (7 children)

baby feverOnce again thinking about having kids, specifically this time imagining teaching one of them how to paint, slowly guiding them through it, watching as their eyes light up with excitement when they're almost done the painting, being excited with them when their painting becomes better than anything I can do, seeing them create things I could never have imagined, seeing the paintings over the years slowly start to create an image of them that is unmistakable and beautiful..

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