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Listen, this user is a terminally online anarchist who complains about tankies and calls Stalin genocidal. But shes correct about this one. Mostly. I mean using the term "bedtime abolition" sounds dumb but Im pretty sure she only did that because its a common joke about anarchists. The core point is about how 9-5 work schedules dont work for everyone. As an ND person who struggles with culturally normal sleep schedules, I absolutely agree that society needs to accomodate these things. I absolutely agree that its literally normal talk everyone says that work schedules suck.

People saying "just go to bed on time" or "just pop a melatonin" have never been in the position of trying to do that and failing, just laying awake for hours until you finally fall asleep two hours before you need to be up.

https://nitter.net/moonlit_misfit/status/1743350718944121067

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[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 62 points 10 months ago (4 children)

Also side note this interaction filled me with joy.

[–] blobjim@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I mean they're probably some right winger or something.

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[–] Awoo@hexbear.net 59 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Bedtime discourse is a waste of energy and bandwidth when 4 day work week is an actually viable improvement that could happen in our lifetimes. Dividing our attention between different time-based issues is a surefire way to reduce effectiveness at getting either of them achieved.

Anyway Flexi-Time is already a standard thing used by huge quantities of businesses, it's widely adopted in the UK even by government. It literally eliminates this issue.

Stop talking about bedtimes and start organising to drag your company into giving Flexitime as a concession to workers.

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 31 points 10 months ago (1 children)

100-com

This kind of specific labor issue is best fought consciously through working class solidarity, such as labor unions or larger political movements. But the emphasis and perspective should always be on labor as a class, not on particular issues that are only a consequence of the capital-labor contradiction.

[–] CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn@hexbear.net 16 points 10 months ago (5 children)

Well yes that's the solution, and I'm sure she'd agree. Highlighting particular ways in which capitalism crushes people's souls is a part of the discourse, going back to Marx and even further.

It really feels like everyone in this thread is reacting to the political aesthetic of this person and then putting in extra effort to find some sort of dunk on her.

[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 16 points 10 months ago (2 children)

It really feels like everyone in this thread is reacting to the political aesthetic of this person and then putting in extra effort to find some sort of dunk on her.

Seriously. We should be above twitter style dunk thirst here. We arent quote tweeting her with a charachter limited dunk for engagement farming lol

[–] spectre@hexbear.net 13 points 10 months ago

Seriously. We should be above twitter style dunk thirst here.

This place has never, ever been above that. I'd love it if it was though.

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[–] asg101@hexbear.net 47 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The capitalist/industrialized sleep schedule is not natural. Humans evolved to sleep at different times to provide security to the community. Some rise early, some sleep late, some sleep in "shifts".

Your body will tell you when and how long to sleep, Fuck the bosses' schedules.

[–] sweatersocialist@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

i actually only sleep for 4 hours so i can stop off on the way to my landlord's house every morning to leave them a tip (i can't afford a car so im walking)

a podcast told me somehow this is gonna get me pussy and make me a millionaire

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[–] DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml 43 points 10 months ago (3 children)

The making fun of the western 13 year old "anarkiddie" trying to abolish bedtimes is in no way the same argument as someone actively taking about how workers are forced to work unpleasant or unreasonable hours. These are completely unrelated topics. The latter is something I've heard plenty of anarchists actually discuss, as they actually care about worker's rights. The former is just a kid mad at their parents.

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[–] CrushKillDestroySwag@hexbear.net 42 points 10 months ago

Flexible schedules should be considered a worker's right. Obviously the degree to which your schedule can be flexible depends heavily on what you do but I think there are more jobs than people think where you could make the schedule "show up any time, as long as the work gets done some time today" and it would work fine.

[–] showmustgo@hexbear.net 36 points 10 months ago

a 9-5 schedule drains my energy

No shit, that's half the point. All you should have energy left for in the evening is to consume a bit of distilled pop culture and some of your vice of choice

[–] SoyViking@hexbear.net 35 points 10 months ago (2 children)

The problem is not just the 9-5 society (or more like 7-3 if you're working in construction or similar). These received schedules doesn't work for everyone and that is a problem. But the problem is also that there is simply not enough time for sleep in most people's daily schedules, no matter at what time of the day you put it.

If you have a full time job and a commute and you have housework and other chores that needs to be done for things to function and you also want to have the luxury of feeling like a person with some kind of agency to decide what you want to use your time on, even if it is just for a little while, then you rarely have the time to also get eight hours of uninterrupted sleep. This gets even worse if you have children.

The only way the ruling liberal-conservative ideology can engage with the problem is to turn it into a question of individual moral shortcomings and shame people for taking a little leisure time for themselves at the end of the day. "Why are you complaining about being sleep deprived, you ungrateful peasant? Just do nothing but work and sleep."

[–] CarbonScored@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago

Much agreed. Though I'm sure timing of sleep matters to some, for me the reality is that I feel tired no matter when I go to bed, because most days I don't feel capable of sparing the 8 hours of sleep I need. It takes me a long time to chill out from the anxiety that work and financial chores stir up in me so I rarely really reach the point of genuinely 'relaxing' after work.

Revenge bedtime procrastination is also a big part. I deserve to enjoy some of my life dangit >:(

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[–] RonPaulyShore@hexbear.net 32 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Scrolling on my phone all night, natural and good, but the boss wants me to go to work in the morning, unnatural and bad.

[–] sweatersocialist@hexbear.net 28 points 10 months ago

this is true actually

[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago

Unironically.

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[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 29 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

The 28-hour day is the coolest idea I have ever heard of and I wish I lived in space so I could do it.

[–] SoyViking@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago

I wish I had a 28 hour day but somehow it was secret to the rest of society so they couldn't invent more bullshit to put in there for me to have to do.

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[–] booty@hexbear.net 28 points 10 months ago (2 children)

She's right about what she's saying but I don't really see how it relates to "bedtime abolition." Like I feel completely the same about sleep schedules. I dropped out of high school primarily because I could not fucking handle being on a consistent daytime schedule every day, week after week. I got third shift / overnight jobs and I'm much, much healthier now. I get actual sleep now. Some people just aren't built for the 9-5.

But what the fuck does that have to do with parents making their kids get to sleep at a reasonable time relative to their responsibilities lol

[–] Xavienth@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 10 months ago (1 children)

"Some people aren't built for the 9-5" I wish people would understand this.

[–] Justice@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 10 months ago

Hyper capitalist societies aren't intended to recognize these differences. Only people who can think outside the bubble will even think it... as simple as that is.

When all necessities of life (taking the US as the worst example of first world capitalism) are commodities and not guaranteed, one is forced to work. This is step 0 that every single liberal and conservative stumbles over. Ask a conservative and they'll say "no one makes you work! you choose to work where you want and are compensated based on ability!" and other such dog vomit. Obviously the choice to work is a non choice if the alternative is death. Liberals will say "maybe they can learn new skills? like coding? and also we have programs like WIC and SNAP and Medicaid!" of course it costs money (leaving aside time) to learn skills because they have to be properly creditialed ie a degree or certification of some sort. And neoliberals have spent like 50 years dismantling all of the programs (the few that existed) that were around to help people out who couldn't work at all or worked less or whatever the case may be. Good fucking luck qualifying for SNAP benefits if you work basically at all. Or Medicaid.

The entire system is set up in a way to pit workers against each other. People will literally say, with no sarcasm, that if you do not work or can't work then you are your family's responsibility. And if you have no family? They don't care. You should just die. Which is, holy fuck I get tired of typing this over the years, a literal Nazi talking point. "worthless eaters" they called disabled people. Whether that was elderly, mentally, physically, whatever was going on, if you couldn't do "fair work" or whatever then you're not contributing and thus worthless. The exact opposite of the Communist mantra of course which holds that someone able to work should work, and one unable to work should also receive the basic necessities of life. Worth remembering when dipshits try to cry that the USSR was the same 🤦‍♂️

So if you set up society to hold a gun to people's heads and force them to work to survive, and over the decades their compensation for work goes down and down (as it goes up and up for the owners) so they go from maybe being able to prop up a cousin, or uncle, or whatever because everyone has plenty. And now they have just enough. But some people still can't work the jobs corporations force them to choose from. Those people, who should be supported by the state, are tossed aside. But first they're ridiculed. Maybe someone has a degenerative disease such as MS and begins their work career able to work "normally" but over time their ability to work goes down and down and eventually they're forced, at a young age, to stop going altogether. "Well, can't you do something" is probably the unspoken question from their family. But it doesn't need to be spoken. Society, capitalism, has made this person, already suffering tremendously due to medical conditions obviously outside their or anyone's control, a burden on their family. In absolute terms anyway. Their family has to work more or seek out higher paying positions, whatever, if they value their family member not dying. In this situation it's purely a rational thought to have "this person is weighing me down!" Now, sure, empathetic and educated people will understand it isn't their fault and instead it's the fault of Capitalists/the government they control. But that doesn't change the immediate reality. And so the thought or maybe spoken words come "why can't you just work a normal job?" A question the person who has become a burden, I'm sure, asks themselves every day. And things can get rather bleak from there.

So in the end, the well-meaning liberal or callous conservative arrive at the same thought "they should just work! this isn't my problem!" and when the decision for that person's life to be the "problem" of society at large has already been made for them, and it has chosen "not our problem either!" the end result is always a circle of "just be normal. just go to work. everyone else does it. just do it." around and around.

This applies to someone who can work, but for whatever legitimate reasons, has trouble with the 9-5 grind. the total hours or the time range. if you work less, someone else will see you as eating from their pie.

This system sucks so fucking bad, and yet so many people have gobbled up propaganda and become totally wedded to the absurd idea that this is how it always was and must always be. It's dissolving the bonds between people, families, all in the pursuit of more profit for a capitalist somewhere. All this suffering so that somebody born into privilege (usually) can continue their privileged life.

[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 12 points 10 months ago

I think she uses the term "bedtime abolition" because its a joke used at anarchist expense. Like ive actually seen the post this was triggered by which would probably have been helpful context.

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 27 points 10 months ago (1 children)

To me it seems that standardized business hours arise from cooperation in the work place, which increased exponentially with the industrial revolution. Capitalist, socialist, whatever, if you have people cooperating in factories (e.g.) then they have to be there at the same time. So "bedtime abolition" seems utopian because it is the practical consequence of a cooperative productive process, and it can't be abolished without abolishing the actual basis, cooperative labor, or more specifically the necessity of simultaneous work. Our production would have to change such that work is parceled out in time-independent units, which is possible for a lot of industries, but by a structural change and not by decree. Software development is cooperative but does not typically require that developers cooperate in real time, for example.

And of course, the above is made all the more severe by the actual duration of the working day. If people only had to work 4 hours per day, then it would be far easier to handle standard business hours of 10a-2p for example, even if they technically are not flexible hours.

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[–] Sphere@hexbear.net 24 points 10 months ago (3 children)

The primary thing that annoys me about this person's point is the term "bedtime abolition." She doesn't want bedtime abolition at all; no one does (everyone wants to go to bed at some point, after all). What she wants is wakeup-time abolition. And I agree with that. Calling it bedtime abolition has the dual effect of incorrectly expressing the issue, and making the person saying it sound like a whiny child.

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 23 points 10 months ago

Broke: abolish bedtime

Woke: bedtime is 24/7 😴

[–] Ithorian@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago (5 children)

4am-noon is my sleep schedule too!

[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago (1 children)

About the same for me currently, but its in flux.

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[–] Llituro@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

it's not a bad take, but getting there via being reactively pissed about people poking fun at "bedtime abolition" isn't doing much for the case that anarchists are serious. which obviously many anarchists are, but being overly serious about the bedtime abolition bit isn't doing any favors for anarchism.

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[–] SpiderFarmer@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I gotta say, I was meant for a second shift schedule. Going to bed at maybe 1 am, waking up at 9? That's the stuff.

[–] barrbaric@hexbear.net 21 points 10 months ago

3AM-11AM gang

[–] Kultronx@lemmygrad.ml 20 points 10 months ago (3 children)

i just gotta say, in what world is 4am to noon, natural? in winter months that's a recipe for disaster.

[–] iraniangoalsdotcom@hexbear.net 17 points 10 months ago (2 children)

every time someone says "it's just how my body works" it just means "it's what I'm comfortable doing currently"

[–] Thordros@hexbear.net 25 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You know what? You're right. My autism and sleep disorder don't exist. Thanks for clearing that up for me!

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[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 20 points 10 months ago

Thats not true at all. ND people's bodies function differently in regards to sleep for example. And im sure youve heard of sleep disorders.

Also the idea that we should have to adjust what our body is currently inclinded to do is capitalist realism anyway.

[–] TraumaDumpling@hexbear.net 15 points 10 months ago

in hunter gatherer societies, it is necessary for some people to stay awake at night, to look out for predators (of both humans and their livestock/gardens), regimented farming and the unified schedules that are ideal for it are relatively recent inventions in human history, and haven't been around long enough to significantly alter our instincts.

[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I think this take is a little bit capitalist realism of you comrade.

[–] Kultronx@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Capitalist realism? huh? I'm talking about hours of sunlight here. not getting enough sunlight is not "natural" (I realize that term is very loaded, I'm going by their use of it). also I should note that during socialist construction in the USSR, the working day was very regimented, it takes a lot of work to build.

[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah natural isnt a good word for it. But at the end of the day sleep disorders and ND people exist and have sleep schedules that arent fixed to what capitalist society deems a "natural sleep cycle".

The fact that lots of unemployed people trend towards staying up late and getting up late doesnt seem immaterial to me.

I say "capitalist realism" because it seems like youve internalized the idea of a capitalist work schedule being normal and healthy.

also I should note that during socialist construction in the USSR, the working day was very regimented, it takes a lot of work to build.

I think we are under different material conditions now that would allow for things like flexitime, 4 day work week and shorter work days, and otherwise adapting to different peoples sleep.

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[–] regul@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Monkey's paw curls and the next capitalist frontier is the hours between 5PM and 9AM, for all businesses. You can exploit three times as many people!

Why shouldn't third shift be for offices, too!?

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago (1 children)

i was designed to be a vampire

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[–] Yurt_Owl@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The point is fine yet framed in such a way I want to reflexively disagree with it.

[–] sweatersocialist@hexbear.net 15 points 10 months ago (1 children)

what they're saying is true because it's basically "doesn't having to be terrified out of sleep before my body is ready every morning suck?" but to me i want to yell at them because they turned it into some self indulgent manifesto about "bed time abolition". like they were sleepy and tried too hard to publicly intellectualize it

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[–] ElGosso@hexbear.net 17 points 10 months ago

Yeah I'm a late-nighter too. I used to lie in bed and stare at the ceiling for hours and that's how I got depression

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 16 points 10 months ago

There's basically 3 essential people in the kitchen I work, aside from the chef. One is on mornings and me and another guy are the evening. We basically have a ballpark schedule. I start from 1 to 4pm depending on circumstances and my mood and we kinda just figure out which I'd gonna close during the night and who's gonna come in when based on how busy it was and if it wasn't that busy we just swap which one of us gets out early.

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 15 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Nah. I've seen people literally argue that giving children a bedtime is by definition oppressive. Hence the bedtime abolition thing.

This person is trying conflate a critique of the 9-5 standard work/schoolschedule, which most of the tankies she hates would agree with, with the sort of juvenile lifestylism that is rife among these types of people. She's just trying to rehabilitate the more embarrassing views of people she considers to be ideologically aligned with her

Edit: literally this right here in the replies, this is why people talk about bedtime abolitionists. This person is literally saying that bedtimes should be abolished!

[–] adultswim_antifa@hexbear.net 13 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I would probably not be staying up this late if it weren't for screens. Sometimes I am working on stuff, but usually I am fucking around and not even having fun because I think I am going to look at one thing and then go to bed, over and over for like two hours. I'm almost definitely more sensitive to the light than others but I know I sleep better and earlier if I avoid them for a while before I go to sleep. I've managed to get into sleep schedules where I naturally wake up early but it is extremely hard to get into and easy to fall out of.

[–] NewAcctWhoDis@hexbear.net 13 points 10 months ago (6 children)

It's "bad framing" because bedtime isn't the actual problem. If your child needs to be at school at 8am, is perfectly reasonable to have them go to bed at a time that allows them to get enough sleep (potentially). Of course people will dunk on you for "bedtime abolition".

So it's a bad person making a bad argument, why should I pay attention?

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