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Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!

https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?ll=8.016975588774075%2C64.4248907814756&z=2&mid=1zDWxhBN5aOofwpE-FkZWQsiFDlE

Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.

This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.

The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.

https://www.sdpb.org/blogs/arts-and-culture/the-winkte-and-the-hundred-in-hand/

This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.

Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.

The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.

As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.

https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/The-Middle-Gender-in-Zuni-Religion

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[โ€“] Hestia@hexbear.net 31 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Gender research findings go here

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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 3 points 3 hours ago

another Masseduction kick moment @ashinadash@hexbear.net

Sped through a yellow light to the jaunty Mario Kart ass bridge at 2:45 on Sugarboy

hat-kid-dance

I took my first bicalutamide. You're supposed to just swallow it, right?

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

King Gizzard & Lizard Wizard is actually kinda good bunny-vibe

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

oh FUCK me are my tits fucking tender now OWIE zelensky-pain

[โ€“] Hestia@hexbear.net 1 points 8 minutes ago

I want that tenderness to hit me again... it's been a while and I want MOAR BOOBS

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 3 points 5 hours ago
[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

another trans girl out at work. unlimited funny looks at my name tag

[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 9 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (2 children)

not to doxx the hell out of my appearance (i could but won't) but tl;dr i still mask at work and look kind of androgynous and have a very poorly trained vaguely femme voice

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Do you do eye make-up?

Eye makeup + mask is powerful

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I should if I really care about passing like that but I'm gonna be honest I don't think that's something I'll ever stick to in the long run

maybe on day I will idk

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago

You don't have to stick to it. Just give it a try~

[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 6 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

you'd think another trans girl would get it tho

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 6 hours ago

Oh, no. In my first comment I was just referring to myself coming out at work, riffing on "another crakkka down"

[โ€“] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 8 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Any recs for black Friday sales? I saw that Torrid was 50% off, so I ordered some boots.

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Torrid

huh well there goes my paycheck catgirl-flop

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 3 points 3 hours ago

hnnhh 3 pairs of shoes, a pair of pants, gloves and a pair of underwear shatter all of their shit is vegan atleast goddamn

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 5 points 5 hours ago

ordered like 4 pairs of boots off torrid a few weeks ago and I don't regret it at all

[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 13 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Coolish gay guy I met turns out to have brainworms about furries :( Guy thought being a furry was akin to bestiality

[โ€“] Hestia@hexbear.net 1 points 1 hour ago

I only have an issue with the furries who dress up as a German Shepard

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

Suffering intensifies aubrey-pain Don't even know what the fuck is wrong with me anymore but whyyyyyyyyy. I don't have a brain that works right anymore. Really feels like my entire life collapsed at once. Not a good feeling.

Things I miss: interacting with people, not being in excruciating pain all the time, not having realised that I have several needs that run counter to eachother or are guaranteed to be painful for me. I hate.

[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago

I'm sorry you are suffering.

[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 9 points 10 hours ago

I'm disappointed that I started so strong on my vn project but now progress has slowed to a crawl. I feel like self-doubt has set in and I can no longer judge if I'm doing something interesting that people would want to engage with. I'm also fighting myself, or more like trying really hard to reign in the excited inner child that's like "add this! and this! and wouldn't it be cool if this!!" so I can maintain a manageable scope and actually release something one day. Ideas come easy. Execution, not so much.

[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 25 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Whoamg my boobs are so huge now AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Iโ€™m in a ton of pain though. But Iโ€™m alive so woo! And my chest has melons on it! party-blob

[โ€“] Hestia@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

Congrats on the boobas

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