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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

AshenWolf*  (12/23 - 12/29)
SadArtemis (12/30 - 1/5)
Eco* (1/6 (The Darkest Day in Our Democracy.) - 1/12)
oscardejarjayes* (1/13 - 1/19)
SwitchyandWitchy* (1/20 - 1/26)
SILLY BEAN@lemmygrad.ml* (1/27 - 2/2)

EstraDoll (3/2 - 3/8)

โ€‹ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

probably not news to anyone but the Metal Gear Rising OST whips ass kirby-jammin raiden-source

Mistral's theme is my fav and smacks of Gender imho

trans-heart dril

[โ€“] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 hour ago

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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 3 points 1 hour ago

celebrity bullshit, junk mention, thirstSaw that there's a whole thing about Justin Timberlake's bulge?? Cis ppl are weird

People are making fun of him and I don't really care for his music but I thought he looked hot in the pics ppl are mocking?

Normalize small junk being hot imho, petite meat is cool and good and a lil' bulge is sexy if ppl wanna do that

[โ€“] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Why must names be so difficult

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 7 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I really lucked out having a name my mom was gonna use if I were different AGAB that's similar to my deadname (but way cooler and prettier imho)

I had chosen my name mentally before I asked her about it and she had the same name picked without ever telling me about it before, it was really strange and serendipitous

Your username has "dani" in it? Dani is kinda cute? Short for Danielle or Daniella? Could go by Elle or Ella with those too, might be a twofer? Idk just spitballing

trans-heart

[โ€“] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

I really lucked out having a name my mom was gonna use if I were different AGAB

Yeah this is our middle name.

I'm looking for a name that's not too feminine, but probably not completely unisex. And I have a preference for names that start with a vowel sound I think. But thank you for the suggestions.

[โ€“] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 1 points 42 minutes ago

are you looking for the name overall to be more neutral, or is having a sort of neutral nickname okay? for starting with a vowel with a more neutral nickname, something like eleanor could be shortened to "elle" or something like emily could be shortened to "emme" which may fit the bill? i've also heard andrea shortened to "andi" or amelia shortened to "ames," but i dunno if those are more on the masc side.

just some random thoughts, i hope you have luck! finding the name that's really you can be really exciting trans-heart

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

cuddle

I'd spitball some more but I'm exhausted and brain no worky good rn lol, best wishes on a sick ass name cat-trans

[โ€“] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago

Thank you, good night.

[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 7 hours ago

Well, it looks like I get to have my friends again, at least for the next month. Going to be interesting to see how I act and feel around them, a lot has changed since I saw them last.

[โ€“] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 13 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

hell yeah bitch (positive, respectful) lario-3

~also~ ~cute~ ~nails~ shy

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I have no idea how to talk to cis people
My (cis) guy friend has brought up me being trans a couple times (I guess to show support? That he remembers and thinks of me that way?) and I just have no idea what to say or do about the topic. I don't really have anything "real" going on (like starting hrt or anything) to talk about, most of my thoughts are just dysphoria and like, do I really want to complain to him about that. I don't know, its just new and I have a terrible time with new situations. Maybe I just joke around about it... but how do I do that...

Also my nickname is based on my dead name and I don't know what to do about that. Asking for him to call me my girl name seems awkward and I don't like the thought of that.

I don't know why I'm posting but creature I have a hard time with new things. god this process is going to be hard isn't it...

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 8 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

queer embarrassing weeb shitbeen on a JoJo kick lately

put a cable station chain on my coat epaulette and hit the Jotaro pose in the mirror alone

been thinking of what my stand would be lol

Joseph and Jolene are my favorites but I love Jotaro too your-next-line-is

I like the idea of "Lavender Haze" (Vildhjarta, not Tswift, but the mashup is funny) as a combo of Hermit Purple and Stone Free

I like Crazy Diamond's healing ability too

IDK I'm on my gymrat shit and I'm gonna learn how to double jump irl and dunk a basketball and it'll be sick

niko-dunkjotaro-walkmenacing menacing menacing

[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 1 points 52 minutes ago

How embarrassing would it be to get a Jotaro hat and wear a chain on my coat lmao

I'm kinda tempted ngl

[โ€“] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 3 points 7 hours ago

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[โ€“] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 13 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Well, I came out to my boss. She wasn't super familiar with trans stuff, but she was supportive and respectful.

[โ€“] MoonElf@hexbear.net 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

congratulations! How do you feel?

[โ€“] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

It's definitely a big burden lifted, and it's going to make social transition at work a lot easier. I didn't feel that I was the best person to explain some of these things to someone effectively for the first time, so that made me a bit nervous, but I think it was fine.

[โ€“] MoonElf@hexbear.net 6 points 7 hours ago

Well good job, very proud of you :) It's so wonderful to be our true selves!

[โ€“] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

My nipples hurt, the HRT is working

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

diet stuffprobably obvious but you probably want to make sure you have enough good fats and vitamins in your diet too, tiddies need that stuff to booba properly

for your booba professor-helper-wave

[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 11 hours ago

No pain, no gain ๐Ÿ˜‰

[โ€“] IMF_DOOM@hexbear.net 14 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Fat maxxing rn to try and move away from my tiny twink body to actually gain the hrt benefits properly

girl same i neeeeeeed them titties

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[โ€“] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 13 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Hi everyone. I now have a gzd federation friendly account :)

[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 12 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

::: spoiler cw sex, leather, excited about toys I finally got my toyyyyssss! Im so relieved, they were lost in the mail for like a week.

Anyway i got three floggers, all of them cats. Two are small; one has little leather balls on the end of the falls, one has little points almost like a leaf. One is big and scary, it has the handle of a signal whip and 9 braided falls which break out into 4 individual strands. I dont think it will mark me up very easily, but it will almost certainly sting something fierce.

All of them are black leather, with braided/pleated handles, and look great for it.

Now i just need to find more Dommes to play with, cause everyone is busy all holiday season catgirl-flop

[โ€“] Edie@hexbear.net 8 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

all of them cats

Meow biblically-accurate-kitty

spoilerSounds great.

Sounds... Interesting. I've been thinking... but also meeting new people catgirl-flop

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[โ€“] CDommunist@hexbear.net 12 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 10 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Never mind, I'm not a humangirl. I'm an increasingly-large-elephant-in-the-room-that-everyone-is-incapable-of-seeing it seems. The funny thing is I can't even declare my presence because I have neither the strength to do so nor a name to give others.

[โ€“] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 6 points 10 hours ago

My head hurts.

[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 11 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

For those of you who wanted a comm for Trans Music Production...

It's here https://hexbear.net/c/trans_synths cheer niko-dance

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[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 13 points 13 hours ago (6 children)

i couldnt just pass this one by

cw: implied sex

BIG

[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 11 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Talk about genitalsI wish culture would stop pushing that we want colossal dicks in us. Just give me a normal sized one. I don't want to feel like I'm being split in half.

[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 5 points 9 hours ago

But think of all the snake oil salesmen that will lose their jobs

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