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A language empowering everyone to build reliable and efficient software.

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Rust by itself is a great language, but what really makes it shine are its many great crates. The ecosystem around rust is one of the best there is, and its documentation is practically unrivalled. So lets look at some of those crates!

actix-web

Actix-web is an amazing web server framework for rust. It's modular, easy to use, intuitive and fast. It's also what lemmy is built on! So when you use this very site, you are using something build with actix!

Bevy

Bevy is a code first game engine for rust, based on the ECS paradigm. It's incredibly refreshing and different from most other engines. It is also unbelievably modular, in fact, just about every part of the engine cam be removed or added as you please! If you are every looking for something simple to play around, try bevy!

Tokio

The backbone of most asynchronous rust. It provides everything needed to build reliable, fast web applications!

Serde

Serde is the go-to library for serialization and deserialisation in rust. Its derive macros make it a breeze to use, and there are countless crates supporting various formats with Serde!

SQLx

SQLx is an amazingly simple sql handling crate. It is both feature rich and yet simple, and just a joy to use!

Reqwest

A neat little crate for sending http(s) requests! It's also used in Lemmy, and just about anywhere else where someone needs to do get some thing from an http(s) endpoint!

And this is far from all! Rust is a lovely language, with an even more amazing ecosystem!

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[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 16 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

Yay new megathread!!!!

How was everyone’s weekend?

Also for all the new people who came in from Bluesky, how are you doing on the site so far? Any questions, issues, or anything else we could help out with?

[–] fallflora@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

my weekend was really bad thanks! ohnoes

this site is ok tho. figured out how to subscribble to the communities i'm interested in, so that's neat.

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It seems like IPL is working! I shaved Saturday and I'm still somewhat smooth, plus before when I shaved against the grain I would get so many red and itchy spots, which haven't shown up (yet)! lea-happy

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Just be careful of paradoxycal hypertrichosis. LHR and IPL, especially when done incorrctly, can ironically stimulate the follicules to grow hair thicker than before. So keep an eye on that.

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Do you know more about it? Nonetheless, I will.

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/epdf/10.1002/der2.42

You can read it up here but unfortunately this phenomenon is not well researched at all, so the info is quite sparse.

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

thank you for posting this!

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 13 points 4 days ago (1 children)
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[–] iByteABit@hexbear.net 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I love how Rust is the official trans language lmao

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago (4 children)

No love for Diesel in the OP?? (honestly that might be for the best, SQLx looks cool)

[–] space_comrade@hexbear.net 6 points 4 days ago

I think it got left behind a bit because there's still no official async support, there is a fork as far as I understand tho.

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[–] whatnots@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

sorry
spoiler self harm/si/just being unhinged I want to kill myself. It's hopeless. I can't imagine ever being happy. Why fucking live in suffering. My whole life is just suffering and trying to distract myself. That's not good enough. All fucking night I've wanted to rip my leg open. Why do I continually put myself through this shit.

We're coming up on five years of trying to fight this shit. Five years of trying to get better. Of trying to even imagine a happy life. Of understanding what I want and can reach for. And I haven't found anything. My brain is literally just broken. Actual dogshit.

I will never be happy. I am not capable of doing what will make me happy.

Fucking "survival instinct". Such complete bullshit. I know I will never be happy, normal, I will always hate myself and be hated. So literally why can't I bring myself to do it. Do I want to go through another embarrassing, awful five years? Just fucking, putz around hoping I figure my shit out? I don't want to do that.

I can't get better. Why do I have to do it myself. I wish I'd just die in my sleep already.

I hate being a burden. All I do anymore is go from place to place, person to person whing about how I'm in pain. Dump all my sad shit on the nearest poor fucker who has to listen to me. I'm an anchor around everyone's neck.

I'm such shit. I can't do anything. I don't even know what my problem is. Why can't I get even basic shit together.

The kindest thing would literally just be shoot me in my sleep. Life sucks, it's going to keep sucking, my mental issues are going to keep tormenting me forever. This isn't living. Literally what difference does it even make if I'm dead. Not like I'm doing anything with this "gift" of life. Fucking waste. Why am I a wasteful, unappreciative shithead. I should kill myself just for that.

even worse self harm stuffI want to cut myself so bad. It's been days of urges slowly building. I want to see blood. Feel the rush. Holy shit the rush. Honest to god better then drugs.
To anyone wondering, yes I napped, yes I felt like this right after, yes it's been fucking hours of this while being unable to sleep. Please make the misery stop.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 4 days ago

Y'know "being a burden" is not a real thing, else I'd be an even heavier "anchor" to certain people... I'm sorry you feel this way though, given you haven't and can't really make the progress you want wrt gender it's not surprising to feel this way, but you don't deserve to turn it on yourself meow-hug Wouldn't be as much of a problem if you could get what you need on that front...

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Care-Comrade

spoilerI guarantee you will start to feel better once you start HRT or socially transitioning, even just getting out of your parents house when you're ready will probably help you.

This feeling won't last forever, it's probably going to feel like you've been holding your breath for 5 years and finally can take another breath when you start. Transitioning isn't a cure-all but it's definitely the kind of thing that can help anguish and mental health a lot.

You're worthy of living and worthy of help and care. It gets better, I swear

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Woke up anxious so probably gonna do some cooking of tofu-cool and then self care like shaving and doing my nails again. Food and looking good usually put me in a good mood

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

watched that anime lord of the rings film. i liked it

minor spoiler. you will be spoiledwulf is kinda gender (at least when he's clean shaven)

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