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I’m back! It’s been a while since I’ve been on this site because I’ve found myself under some financial trouble and I’ve been stressed BUT I wanted to take this opportunity to talk about something I love dearly: dihedral groups!

Consider the symmetries of a square:

We can see that there are 4 reflections and 3 rotations, as well as the act of doing nothing at all. Together, we have 8 total symmetries, and in fact, these are all of the possible symmetries. What this means is that if we do one of these symmetric moves and then do another one, we will have not changed the square, and therefore doing these two moves is the same as doing just one of the 8 symmetries on its own. For example, doing a 90 degree rotation followed by a 180 degree rotation is the same as doing a 270 degree rotation. Also, doing a 90 degree rotation followed by a reflection across the vertical axis is the same as doing a reflection across a diagonal axis.

So in other words, we can define a function that takes two symmetries of a square as input and which outputs another symmetry. Since standard multiplication is a function taking two numbers and outputting another number, it makes sense to borrow the notation of multiplication for this function. Our symmetry function satisfies a few useful properties:

  • Closure: As explained above, for any two symmetries, the function will spit out another symmetry
  • Identity: There is a symmetry (namely, the “do nothing” symmetry) such that when it is input into the function with another symmetry, the function will always simply output the other symmetry
  • Associativity: For any symmetries a, b, and c, (ab)c = a(bc)
  • Inverses: For every symmetry, there is a symmetry that undoes it. For example, rotating a square by 270 degrees undoes rotating it by 90 degrees, and doing a reflection a second time after doing it once undoes the first reflection

These 4 properties are so important that any set of objects with a function defined on it that satisfies all of these properties has a special name: they’re called groups and they’re really freaking awesome. The symmetries of a square as a group is called D~8~, since there are 8 total symmetries. Sometimes you might see it called D~4~, since squares have 4 sides, but I think this convention is a bit silly. In the same way, D~6~ is the symmetries of an equilateral triangle, D~10~ is the symmetries of a regular pentagon, and so forth. In general, D~2n~ is the symmetries of a regular n-gon.

Now, one interesting thing is that groups can contain each other. For example, consider an octagon. Since there are squares hidden within the points of octagons, if we pick a square we can see that all of the symmetries of that square are present in the symmetries of of the octagon, so it is possible to throw out all of the other symmetries. What we would be left with is just the symmetries of a square. What this means is that D~8~ is contained in D~16~. You can play similar games to show that there are lots of groups contained inside the dihedral groups.

The last thing I want to talk about regarding these things are their subgroup lattices. Oftentimes mathematicians want to picture the internal structure of a group. One of the ways they might do this is by writing down all of the subgroups of a group they’re studying onto a piece of paper, and then connecting any two with a line if one of them is a subgroup of the other that doesn’t have a subgroup between them. The resulting picture is called a subgroup lattice, and I’ve left some dihedral group lattices below because I think they’re pretty.

two cute dihedral subgroup lattices holding hands and cuddling

Anyway this has been gushposting with your host, yewler. Maybe next mega I might talk about more specific details that make these things cool.

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 1 points 10 minutes ago

one of gender-affirming-but-shitty things I do to myself is looking at posts from trans girls living the kind of life I wish I had and letting myself obsess over how jealous I am of them it until it stews into self hatred

this never happened when I looked at posts from conventionally successful men when I thought I was one of them

[–] buh@hexbear.net 6 points 3 hours ago

I have a feeling there's not gonna be a book

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 4 points 2 hours ago

I want Steve’s Lava Chicken

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Reading This Is How You Lose the Time War and omg it is such a good book, I'll post more thoughts tonight when I'm done (particularly got a lot of thoughts on its themes) but taking a short break so I can eat and I just gotta gush about it a bit

spoilersI love Red and Blue so much. Red has such a sweet naïveté and inexperience that belies a genuine and infectious enthusiasm. I find her utterly adorable. Blue meanwhile is such a fun romantic; eloquent and flirty yet also truly sweet and interested, hungering for that intimacy. While I relate to both, she's the one that feels closer to myself, honestly. Particularly her flirting is very me. Red feels more like someone I'd want to cherish, even if often her naïveté feels close to home.

And gods the prose! It's so good and creative and beautiful. There's been so many descriptions that made my jaw drop as I read them since they were so gorgeously vivid yet brief. Like, to take an example from the first chapter:

"A tremor passes through the soil--do not call it earth. The planet dies. Crickets chirp. Crickets survive, for now, among the crashed ships and broken bodies on this crumbling plain. Silver moss devours steel, and violet flowers choke the dead guns. If the planet lasted long enough, the vines that sprout from the corpses' mouths would grow berries.

It won't, and neither will they."

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 2 points 2 hours ago

Aw! I loved it so much, it was adorable. It's short too. I tried to get someone else to read it but she couldn't bring herself to do it (ADHD)

Yuri enemies to lover time war shenanigans~

spoilerIt was interesting how much they both influenced each other across time, both of their most key moments that made them them ended up being influenced by the other in secret ways.

The ending was heart wrenching, I'm really glad they didn't go tragic doomed yuri mode and let the problem get solved

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 10 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

as i logged on my bearsite i saw a new tagline! it was a silly one, completely contextless, no way to know what it means. but this time i was there, in the silly thread when it came to be! i get it! I'm chuffed haha, so here for this.

[–] buh@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago

completely contextless

impossible kamala-coconut-tree

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 8 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

Just found out what a teratoma is and now my whole day is ruined

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 2 points 2 hours ago

Consider not looking up fungating tumor!

I had to daily dressing changes on the worst one any doctor had seen! I'll never forget the smell!

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 5 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks for ruining my day as well. blob-no-thoughts

body horrorApparently it’s not piss that’s stored in the balls, it’s teeth. maw

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I'm very sorry for that. Tbf tho they are extremely interesting. It's like some weird Cronenberg shit, but real.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 3 points 5 hours ago

I was just joking. I already knew about them. catgirl-smug

But before that I’ve only seen the tailbone ones, so I didn’t know that they could grow in those other spots as well.

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 4 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

ill look it up too!

edit:

aww gross, but not so bad!

look, why not sing with me to feel better. it's ok!

🎶you say potato, i say potata,

🎶you say teratoma i say teratomata

🎶the cocyx, ovaries, testicles, oh baby

let's cut the whole thing oooooff.🎶

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I think Yakuza 0 and the kiwami remakes are a good starting point for people but for the OGs like myself they really give you a full on deep kiss on the mouth and hold you as they look you in the eye calling you sexy for understanding all the sly future references crush 0 and kiwami onlys will never get it.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 7 hours ago

I do think they should have added akiyama into kiwami tbh, most of these sexy references for sexy people are only in the substories while the main story doesn't get much in the way of these.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 15 points 15 hours ago (3 children)

I can't believe I made such a big deal about getting an injection catgirl-flop

The whole process finished in like 2 minutes. Although I think part of why I didn't get so worked up today was cause I got annoyed by removing all the air in the syringe. Hate truly is a powerful and useful emotion.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 1 points 2 hours ago

So proud of you!!

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 3 points 4 hours ago

Hell yeah, best outcome!! Good work :)

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 6 points 7 hours ago

proud of you

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 14 points 16 hours ago

Planning a Pride trip to a major USian city with my partner and some of their queer friends.

meow-bounce

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 15 points 18 hours ago (4 children)

The downside of being agender is that "good they" really doesn't roll off the tongue like "good boy" or "good girl"

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

You could pick an animal you like as a pet name.

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Sounds cute but I don't think "good capybara" sounds that good either lol

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 1 points 6 hours ago

maybe just "good capy?" idk

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 17 hours ago

Easy solution, "you're so good for me"

[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 5 points 16 hours ago

my experience with my agenderhood has been being called good boy a few times bc he/him pronouns, but I still chuckle internally (positive but silly) when I hear it 😅

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 7 points 17 hours ago

"Good child/kid" would be the gender neutral version.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 15 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

I got unironically complimented on my fit by a random queer zoomer. So yeah I'm pretty cool.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I AM THE VEIN WHISPERER

💪💪💪

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 11 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

You (vein whisperer) vs me (the untappable vein). Who would win?

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 10 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Are you sure? Many have tried but they've all pulled out after only a few seconds because they can't handle me mari-smug

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 15 hours ago

I squeezed a 24 into a feverish, dehydrated, peripherally shutting down baby. No IO necessary. Your veins may as well be highway sized to me.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (3 children)

Finally got a chance to come out to come out to that guy friend coworker. He said all the right thing, that he supports me ect.

misgenderingAlso called me sir half way through the conversation. I started it by telling him of course.
spoiler just complaining like always I've hurt since. Idk why I try. I knew this would be hard but not like this. I actually, literally can't. I don't want to do anything again. I've been so dysphoric lately. The feeling isn't even just from him being a dipshit. It just hurts all the time now. This is horrible. One of the worst fates I could imagine. A nightmare. :::

[–] grym@hexbear.net 5 points 9 hours ago

Honestly impressive, I'm not even out at work, and when I do come out to a few coworkers I'm so apologetic I basically give them an excuse like "yea its OK to still say he, haha, I get it". I'm a fucking doormat for this stuff. I still feel terrified about it even tho I'm 1 year hrt and much more comfortable, so genuinely I'm amazed at your progress.

Girl you are way, way too hard on yourself and believe me I'm the most self-hating, self-judging and high-self-expectations person I know.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 6 points 16 hours ago

That's amazing progress!

You're so hard on yourself, but I think you're super brave.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 18 hours ago

Eggy, it's crazy to me how much progress you've made. You're coming out to so many people. A few months ago, I bet you couldn't even imagine being where you are now. Everyone here sees you moving fast. Reflect on this when you feel the pain.

As far as being called "sir", cis people are fucking dumb. Even with my supportive friends, I have to explicitly state "do NOT call me this list of things.

I still flinch when my girl friends call me dude or man even though I know they also say it to cis women.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Went out with an old coworker friend today. We were walking around and browsing some clothes, and I was looking at a blouse and she said "that would look good on you"

Girls, I've made it ❤️

[–] grym@hexbear.net 3 points 9 hours ago

Awww that's great heart-sickle

[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Dorley chapter 32AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA i knew it was coming but omgggg

Bethany Erin is an adorable name and i'm so fucking happy for her. kinda funny how stock standard Dorley material she is, but that also means she's by far not as alone as she thought she was

oh and Amy, of all people, being the one to make Melissa and Shahida finally kiss was perfect. i really hope Abby reaches out soon though

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 1 points 2 hours ago

major ch 33 spoilersand the fucking twist with Will?? genuinely one of the most surprising moments i've read yet. it was obvious he was repressing something but i did not at all expect him to be trans. i guess Tabitha does have a knack for finding and cracking eggs though, maybe i should have known

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 7 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Anyone else have the hair type that peaks one or two days after you wash it?

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 4 points 15 hours ago

My hair looks best just after I blowdry it, but if I use product, then day one or two hair looks GOOD

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 20 hours ago

(lesbianly develops crush on a very tall very cute WNBA player)

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