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Self-Portrait with Thorn Necklace and Hummingbird

Self-Portrait with Thorn Necklace and Hummingbird, was painted by Frida Kahlo in 1940. Although this painting has a small size (about 16x24), it draws lots of interest, since it contains so many aspects which are symbolic to Frida Kahlo. In this portrait, Frida Kahlo faces the viewer with a background of large green leaves and a yellow leaf right behind her. The thorns are around her neck like a necklace which is held by a black monkey. Her neck is bleeding from the piercing thorns. On the right side behind her shoulder is a black cat. A hummingbird is hanging on the thorn which knots around her throat. Her expression is calm and solemn. It also seems she is patiently enduring the pain.

Frida Kahlo put so many symbolic creatures in this painting. She was not painting a realistic scene but using these symbolic elements to express her feelings. A bird often symbolizes freedom and life. Especially a hummingbird which is colorful and always hovering above flowers. But in this painting, the hummingbird is black and lifeless. This might be a symbol of Frida herself. Frida spent most of her life in physical pain after the bus accident happened when she was eighteen. After that, she endured about thirty-five operations to fix her body. She spent so many years bedridden and cannot bear any children. This is a painting about her suffering.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/self-portrait-with-thorn-necklace-and-hummingbird.jsp

Biography of Frida Kahlo

Considered one of Mexico's greatest artists, Frida Kahlo was born on July 6, 1907 in Coyocoan, Mexico City, Mexico. She grew up in the family's home where was later referred to as the Blue House or Casa Azul. Her father is a German descendant and photographer. He immigrated to Mexico where he met and married her mother Matilde. Her mother is half Amerindian and half Spanish. Frida Kahlo has two older sisters and one younger sister.

Frida Kahlo has poor health in her childhood. She contracted polio at the age of 6 and had to be bedridden for nine months. This disease caused her right leg and foot to grow much thinner than her left one. She limped after she recovered from polio. She has been wearing long skirts to cover that for the rest of her life. Her father encouraged her to do lots of sports to help her recover. She played soccer, went swimming, and even did wrestle, which is very unusual at that time for a girl. She has kept a very close relationship with her father for her whole life.

Frida Kahlo attended the renowned National Preparatory School in Mexico City in the year of 1922. There are only thirty-five female students enrolled in that school and she soon became famous for her outspokenness and bravery. At this school she first met the famous Mexican muralist Diego Rivera for the first time. Rivera at that time was working on a mural called The Creation on the school campus. Frida often watched it and she told a friend she will marry him someday.

In the same year, Kahlo joined a gang of students who shared similar political and intellectual views. She fell in love with the leader Alejandro Gomez Arias. On a September afternoon when she traveled with Gomez Arias on a bus the tragic accident happened. The bus collided with a streetcar and Frida Kahlo was seriously injured. A steel handrail impaled her through the hip. Her spine and pelvis are fractured and this accident left her in a great deal of pain, both physically and physiologically.

She was injured so badly and had to stay in the Red Cross Hospital in Mexico City for several weeks. After that, she returned home for further recovery. She had to wear full-body cast for three months. To kill the time and alleviate the pain, she started painting and finished her first self-portrait the following year. Frida Kahlo once said,

I paint myself because I am often alone and I am the subject I know best".

Her parents encouraged her to paint and made a special easel made for her so she could paint in bed. They also gave her brushes and boxes of paints.

Frida Kahlo reconnected with Rivera in 1928. She asked him to evaluate her work and he encouraged her. The two soon started the romantic relationship. Despite her mother's objection, Frida and Diego Rivera got married in the next year. During their earlier years as a married couple, Frida had to move a lot based on Diego's work. In 1930, they lived in San Francisco, California. Then they moved to New York City for Rivera's artwork show at Museum of Modern Art. They later moved to Detroit while Diego Rivera worked for Detroit Institute of Arts.

In 1932, Kahlo added more realistic and surrealistic components in her painting style. In the painting titled Henry Ford Hospital(1932), Frida Kahlo lied on a hospital bed naked and was surrounded with a few things floating around, which includes a fetus, a flower, a pelvis, a snail, all connected by veins. This painting was an expression of her feelings about her second miscarriage. It is as personal as her other self-portraits.

In 1933, Kahlo was living in New York City with her husband Diego Rivera. Rivera was commissioned by Nelson Rockefeller to create a mural named as Man at the Crossroads at Rockefeller Center. Rivera tried to include Vladimir Lenin in the painting, who is a communist leader. Rockefeller stopped his work and that part was painted over. The couple had to move back to Mexico after this incident. They returned and live in San Angel, Mexico.

Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera's marriage is not a usual one. They had been keeping separate homes and studios for all those years. Diego had so many affairs and one of that was with Kahlo's sister Cristina. Frida Kahlo was so sad and she cut off her long hair to show her desperation to the betrayal. She has longed for children but she cannot bear one due to the bus accident. She was heartbroken when she experienced a second miscarriage in 1934. Kahlo and Rivera have been separated a few times but they always went back together. In 1937 they helped Leon Trotsky and his wife Natalia. Leon Trotsky is an exiled communist and rival of Soviet leader Joseph Stalin. Kahlo and Rivera welcomed the couple together and let them stay at her Blue House. Kahlo also had a brief affair with Leon Trotsky when the couple stayed at her house.

In 1938, Frida Kahlo became a friend of AndrΓ© Breton, who is one of the primary figures of the Surrealism movement. Frida said she never considered herself as a Surrealist "until AndrΓ© Breton came to Mexico and told me I was one." She also wrote, "Really I do not know whether my paintings are surrealist or not, but I do know that they are the frankest expression of myself". "Since my subjects have always been my sensations, my states of mind and the profound reactions that life has been producing in me, I have frequently objectified all this in figures of myself, which were the most sincere and real thing that I could do in order to express what I felt inside and outside of myself."

In the same year, she had an exhibition at New York City gallery. She sold some of her paintings and got two commissions. One of that is from Clare Boothe Luce to paint her friend Dorothy Hale who committed suicide. She painted The Suicide of Dorothy Hale (1939), which tells the story of Dorothy's tragic leap. The patron Luce was horrified and almost destroyed this painting.

The next year, 1939, Kahlo was invited by AndrΓ© Breton and went to Paris. Her works are exhibited there and she is befriended with artists such as Marc Chagall, Piet Mondrian, and Pablo Picasso. She and Rivera got divorced that year and she painted one of her most famous paintings, The Two Fridas(1939).

But soon Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera remarried in 1940. The second marriage is about the same as the first one. They still keep separate lives and houses. Both of them had infidelities with other people during the marriage. Kahlo received a commission from the Mexican government for five portraits of important Mexican women in 1941, but she was unable to finish the project. She lost her beloved father that year and continued to suffer from chronic health problems. Despite her personal challenges, her work continued to grow in popularity and was included in numerous group shows around this time.

In the year of 1944, Frida Kahlo painted one of her most famous portraits, The Broken Column. In this painting, she depicted herself naked and split down the middle. Her spine is shattered like a column. She wears a surgical brace and there are nails all through her body, which is the indication of the consistent pain she went through. In this painting, Frida expressed her physical challenges through her art. During that time, she had a few surgeries and had to wear special corsets to protect her back spine. She seeks lots of medical treatment for her chronic pain but nothing really worked.

Her health condition has been worsening in 1950. That year she was diagnosed with gangrene in her right foot. She became bedridden for the next nine month and had to stay in hospital and had several surgeries. But with great persistence, Frida Kahlo continued to work and paint. In the year of 1953, she had a solo exhibition in Mexican. Although she had limited mobility at that time, she showed up on the exhibition's opening ceremony. She arrived by ambulance, and welcomed the attendees, celebrated the ceremony in a bed the gallery set up for her. A few months later, she had to accept another surgery. Part of her right leg got amputated.

With the poor physical condition, she is also deeply depressed. She even had an inclination for suicide. Frida Kahlo has been out and in hospital during that year. But despite her health issues, she has been active with the political movement. She showed up at the demonstration against US-backed overthrow of President Jacobo Arbenz of Guatemala on July 2. This is her last public appearance. About one week after her 47th birthday, Frida Kahlo passed away at her beloved Bule House.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/frida-kahlo-biography.jsp


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[–] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 1 points 13 minutes ago* (last edited 13 minutes ago)

I wrote a mediocre poem , idk if anyone would read it though, it's not pure garbage but it's not great (at least I think?) . poem below

spoilerTo change is to transgress

Whether by clothes , pronouns , hormones, surgery or a mix of all 4

Being trans is to challenge the means of what is socially/politically accepted

You refuse to engage in cishet normativity Saying no to the 'idea' of 'biological sex' and 'biological gender'

Experiences of rejection and hate by entire political parties such as Labor or Democrat , even ones who like you are trans radicalize you

How could you support a system that wants you dead?

You no longer see the purpose of electoral politics

read theory, unionizing the workplace, practicing boycott, divestments and sanctions as well organizing with your fellow proles

Alas you came a long way, a new comrade made

[–] PorkrollPosadist@hexbear.net 1 points 38 minutes ago

(to the tune of "Fly Like an Eagle")

Dicks keep on slipping, slipping, slipping,

Into my butthole

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Steam summer sale started, very tempted to buy the funny twitter lesbian chaser visual novel now that it's only a few dollars

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 1 points 58 minutes ago

Halimede made a visual novel?

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 4 points 2 hours ago

What game would that be?

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 7 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 1 points 57 minutes ago

no more half measures

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 7 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I wonder how much Friday Rice I will eat over the course of my life. doggirl-shock

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 3 hours ago

I think you'll eat a whole lifetime's worth of Fridays amount of Friday Rice

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 4 points 6 hours ago

the law of unity and conflict of opposites is just so trans coded. engelmarx would be the best allies

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 7 points 8 hours ago

transphobia and xenophobiaI keep telling myself that I just need to survive this year and then I can rest, but nothing is coming up that might give me reprieve then. The earliest I reckon I can go and apply for refugee status is in 2028 maybe, and who knows if european countries will a) accept migrants then b) think "transgenderism" is a valid refugee claim

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 11 hours ago

Literally just saw a sign in my uni that says "it helps others if you are open about who you are".

This can't be a coincidence. My data is being tracked.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Dreamt the girl I was crushing on fell for Wario lenin-pensive also I was developing spiderman powers which was cool but I I was shaping upt to take on Frieza from dbz. I don't think I wanna go into powerscaling but felt inadequate in both senses.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 11 hours ago

I'm either taking the Wariopill or the spiderman pill and if it isn't obvious which one I'm taking then I just need to take more of it.

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 9 points 16 hours ago

Me and My Parrot, 1941

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 15 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I'm realizing in about a month I'll be coming up on the anniversary of my egg crack. It's crazy to me I'm almost a year in

[–] buh@hexbear.net 11 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

same, I don't remember the exact day but it was some time in late July...

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 2 points 5 hours ago

thanks to the magic of Discord, I can scroll up in my friend's DMs and pinpoint the egg crack to a point with a margin of error of about 15 minutes

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 7 points 20 hours ago

I don't really know the exact day either but I know it was pretty dang close to August 8, because that's the day I texted my sister about it and I talked to her extremely close to the day the crack happened. So I think I'm gonna just call it August 8.

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

Went out to a crafts market tonight, was really lovely. Also got genuinely like 20 compliments on my outfit at least. Like 2/3rds of the artists and then a solid couple random people. Even got a free pair of earrings from one specifically because my outfit was so nice. The fashion privilege is real.

Actually now that I think about it this is also like the first public thing I've done in months. Huh. Maybe I should go out more, maybe I could make friends by just being cute..

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 17 hours ago

Living the life of a shojo protagonist.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 10 points 21 hours ago

Im orienting in two different units after moving

They dont share schedule stuff

I am working 12s every day of the week for 2 weeks, fuck. Stacking money I guess

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

After like two days of feeling good catgirl-flop I can feel the negativity oozing...

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

spoilerback to crying and hating my life kitty-cri

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 11 points 23 hours ago

cis people are so annoying

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

oh to be a gorgeous, pretty little piece of eye candy in a trashy miniskirt smoking a cigarette, clinging underneath the strong, warm arms of a 7'2" bodybuilding phrenologist on a cold spring day

[–] RION@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

During therapy earlier this week I talked about how envious I was about a work acquaintance and her smooth legs. And as I kept talking I started tearing up which took me completely by surprise. I didn't realize how important that was to me until that moment

Another nail in the coffin for my brain worms (said after 5+ months on HRT :clueless:)

[–] WoodScientist@hexbear.net 10 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Laser, girl, laser! I haven't shaved my legs in a decade.

[–] RION@hexbear.net 4 points 20 hours ago

I don't think I'm a good laser candidate as my hair isn't all that dark :/ But I do think its becoming a little weaker with HRT, I'll be pulling on it while wearing shorts and it comes off surprisingly easy

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 3 points 8 hours ago

Can't believe Frida named a painting after a Coldplay album smdh

[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Reeling from the discovery that I forgot to pack my Adderall. I've been turning into a slug this week and just figured out why. Gonna have to head home early because ooh boy this ain't it for the old brain

Edit: I can't wait for this week to be over. I just want to go home and be a blob. I'm ready for this wedding to be over, I'm ready to go home.

[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 3 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Has not improved,just very overwhelmed. Wanted to have more energy this week but I suppose I'm just gonna try to push through to Saturday.

I feel like I'm coming unraveled. Somehow feeling even more isolated? Wasn't really able to change that during pride month. Like, I'm botching this so hard.

I can barely focus and I have to be at this wedding in a suit and everyone just sees me as a guy so like, fuck.

Also I've been zoning out so I didn't even get to do any skincare or shave or anything. But nobody knows, so nobody cares. Was anybody ever gonna call me pretty at this thing tomorrow?

I don't know what's normal to want. I think I get overlooked, I don't necessarily think I'm seeing something that isn't there. I fucking try and it's been the same for years.

I just want girl friends to be pretty and cute with and go shopping and hang out with idk.

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

i get why people write stories in first person.. but it takes me out so badly. like, I would not say that. i would NOT say it like that give my inner voice back pls

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

actually nevermind, i would say that. i would absolutely say that. i owe you an apology miss author, i wasn't fourmealyour with your game

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

luffy-exhausted it's so hot. why the fuck is it so hot.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Boymoders in shambles rnIts me, I'm boymoders

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

truly hope you are not rocking the hoodie in this shit sweat

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 22 hours ago

No I took it off a few days ago and I feel naked without it...

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